Sexual Health and C.F.

Kelli

New member
I am so glad to see that I am 'normal.' Oh my gosh, I could totally live without sex! Well most of the time anyway.
I am 30, work (own a company with my husband), and then after work, I come home, or work out, make dinner, do dishes, laundry, clean up, do meds & treatments, that leaves about 0% desire for sex.
I know it's horrible that I have such a bad sex drive but I relate to so many things mentioned here.
I'm happy that my husband is 47 so sex is not #1 on his mind. Thank goodness! He is understanding and sometimes when we're intimate "it's all about him." Meaning get here, get outta here and let me sleep. Kinda meets both of our needs although unromantic. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

Another big reason for me is the fact I'll cough up blood. Can't tell you how many times I get up and run for a towel! Nothing ruins the mood like blood oozing between your wifes teeth. HOT! hahahah

Thanks for reminding me that I'm just normal!

<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
Kelli
30 f CF
 

Kelli

New member
I am so glad to see that I am 'normal.' Oh my gosh, I could totally live without sex! Well most of the time anyway.
I am 30, work (own a company with my husband), and then after work, I come home, or work out, make dinner, do dishes, laundry, clean up, do meds & treatments, that leaves about 0% desire for sex.
I know it's horrible that I have such a bad sex drive but I relate to so many things mentioned here.
I'm happy that my husband is 47 so sex is not #1 on his mind. Thank goodness! He is understanding and sometimes when we're intimate "it's all about him." Meaning get here, get outta here and let me sleep. Kinda meets both of our needs although unromantic. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

Another big reason for me is the fact I'll cough up blood. Can't tell you how many times I get up and run for a towel! Nothing ruins the mood like blood oozing between your wifes teeth. HOT! hahahah

Thanks for reminding me that I'm just normal!

<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
Kelli
30 f CF
 

Kelli

New member
I am so glad to see that I am 'normal.' Oh my gosh, I could totally live without sex! Well most of the time anyway.
I am 30, work (own a company with my husband), and then after work, I come home, or work out, make dinner, do dishes, laundry, clean up, do meds & treatments, that leaves about 0% desire for sex.
I know it's horrible that I have such a bad sex drive but I relate to so many things mentioned here.
I'm happy that my husband is 47 so sex is not #1 on his mind. Thank goodness! He is understanding and sometimes when we're intimate "it's all about him." Meaning get here, get outta here and let me sleep. Kinda meets both of our needs although unromantic. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

Another big reason for me is the fact I'll cough up blood. Can't tell you how many times I get up and run for a towel! Nothing ruins the mood like blood oozing between your wifes teeth. HOT! hahahah

Thanks for reminding me that I'm just normal!

<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
Kelli
30 f CF
 

Kelli

New member
I am so glad to see that I am 'normal.' Oh my gosh, I could totally live without sex! Well most of the time anyway.
I am 30, work (own a company with my husband), and then after work, I come home, or work out, make dinner, do dishes, laundry, clean up, do meds & treatments, that leaves about 0% desire for sex.
I know it's horrible that I have such a bad sex drive but I relate to so many things mentioned here.
I'm happy that my husband is 47 so sex is not #1 on his mind. Thank goodness! He is understanding and sometimes when we're intimate "it's all about him." Meaning get here, get outta here and let me sleep. Kinda meets both of our needs although unromantic. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

Another big reason for me is the fact I'll cough up blood. Can't tell you how many times I get up and run for a towel! Nothing ruins the mood like blood oozing between your wifes teeth. HOT! hahahah

Thanks for reminding me that I'm just normal!

<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
Kelli
30 f CF
 

Kelli

New member
I am so glad to see that I am 'normal.' Oh my gosh, I could totally live without sex! Well most of the time anyway.
I am 30, work (own a company with my husband), and then after work, I come home, or work out, make dinner, do dishes, laundry, clean up, do meds & treatments, that leaves about 0% desire for sex.
I know it's horrible that I have such a bad sex drive but I relate to so many things mentioned here.
I'm happy that my husband is 47 so sex is not #1 on his mind. Thank goodness! He is understanding and sometimes when we're intimate "it's all about him." Meaning get here, get outta here and let me sleep. Kinda meets both of our needs although unromantic. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

Another big reason for me is the fact I'll cough up blood. Can't tell you how many times I get up and run for a towel! Nothing ruins the mood like blood oozing between your wifes teeth. HOT! hahahah

Thanks for reminding me that I'm just normal!

<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
Kelli
30 f CF
 
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65rosessamurai

Guest
On behalf of most guys, I'm thinking about it 24/7, but don't have the energy for "doing it" for even 15 minutes...probably due to the fact I'm working full time and had been dealing with a lot of things, especially CF related, in the past 4 years.
My previous marriage, I had the time and the energy, but she didn't...I could've been running on sexually frustrated energy, cause after remarriage, it kinda dropped, drastically.
Its possible I'm in the age where sex isn't on my top 10, but in a way I hope not, or the new wife may have a problem with that. Hope its not the case, but she's hanging in there as it is.
I did talk with my doc about testosterone blood work, but didn't order one..maybe next time I see him, I'll ask for that to be checked, just to see where it relates to my energy.
But, it definitely seems that when you're not feeling good, that aspect of life seems to drop as well.
 
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65rosessamurai

Guest
On behalf of most guys, I'm thinking about it 24/7, but don't have the energy for "doing it" for even 15 minutes...probably due to the fact I'm working full time and had been dealing with a lot of things, especially CF related, in the past 4 years.
My previous marriage, I had the time and the energy, but she didn't...I could've been running on sexually frustrated energy, cause after remarriage, it kinda dropped, drastically.
Its possible I'm in the age where sex isn't on my top 10, but in a way I hope not, or the new wife may have a problem with that. Hope its not the case, but she's hanging in there as it is.
I did talk with my doc about testosterone blood work, but didn't order one..maybe next time I see him, I'll ask for that to be checked, just to see where it relates to my energy.
But, it definitely seems that when you're not feeling good, that aspect of life seems to drop as well.
 
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65rosessamurai

Guest
On behalf of most guys, I'm thinking about it 24/7, but don't have the energy for "doing it" for even 15 minutes...probably due to the fact I'm working full time and had been dealing with a lot of things, especially CF related, in the past 4 years.
My previous marriage, I had the time and the energy, but she didn't...I could've been running on sexually frustrated energy, cause after remarriage, it kinda dropped, drastically.
Its possible I'm in the age where sex isn't on my top 10, but in a way I hope not, or the new wife may have a problem with that. Hope its not the case, but she's hanging in there as it is.
I did talk with my doc about testosterone blood work, but didn't order one..maybe next time I see him, I'll ask for that to be checked, just to see where it relates to my energy.
But, it definitely seems that when you're not feeling good, that aspect of life seems to drop as well.
 
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65rosessamurai

Guest
On behalf of most guys, I'm thinking about it 24/7, but don't have the energy for "doing it" for even 15 minutes...probably due to the fact I'm working full time and had been dealing with a lot of things, especially CF related, in the past 4 years.
My previous marriage, I had the time and the energy, but she didn't...I could've been running on sexually frustrated energy, cause after remarriage, it kinda dropped, drastically.
Its possible I'm in the age where sex isn't on my top 10, but in a way I hope not, or the new wife may have a problem with that. Hope its not the case, but she's hanging in there as it is.
I did talk with my doc about testosterone blood work, but didn't order one..maybe next time I see him, I'll ask for that to be checked, just to see where it relates to my energy.
But, it definitely seems that when you're not feeling good, that aspect of life seems to drop as well.
 
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65rosessamurai

Guest
On behalf of most guys, I'm thinking about it 24/7, but don't have the energy for "doing it" for even 15 minutes...probably due to the fact I'm working full time and had been dealing with a lot of things, especially CF related, in the past 4 years.
My previous marriage, I had the time and the energy, but she didn't...I could've been running on sexually frustrated energy, cause after remarriage, it kinda dropped, drastically.
Its possible I'm in the age where sex isn't on my top 10, but in a way I hope not, or the new wife may have a problem with that. Hope its not the case, but she's hanging in there as it is.
I did talk with my doc about testosterone blood work, but didn't order one..maybe next time I see him, I'll ask for that to be checked, just to see where it relates to my energy.
But, it definitely seems that when you're not feeling good, that aspect of life seems to drop as well.
 

JazzysMom

New member
<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>Kelli</b></i>


I'm happy that my husband is 47 so sex is not #1 on his mind.


<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

Kelli

30 f CF</end quote></div>



Well Dang.....my hubby just turned 56 & you would think he was a 20 year old <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-tongue.gif" border="0"> He is respectful of my health, but definitely has a greater drive then I do.
 

JazzysMom

New member
<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>Kelli</b></i>


I'm happy that my husband is 47 so sex is not #1 on his mind.


<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

Kelli

30 f CF</end quote></div>



Well Dang.....my hubby just turned 56 & you would think he was a 20 year old <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-tongue.gif" border="0"> He is respectful of my health, but definitely has a greater drive then I do.
 

JazzysMom

New member
<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>Kelli</b></i>


I'm happy that my husband is 47 so sex is not #1 on his mind.


<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

Kelli

30 f CF</end quote></div>



Well Dang.....my hubby just turned 56 & you would think he was a 20 year old <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-tongue.gif" border="0"> He is respectful of my health, but definitely has a greater drive then I do.
 

JazzysMom

New member
<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>Kelli</b></i>


I'm happy that my husband is 47 so sex is not #1 on his mind.


<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

Kelli

30 f CF</end quote>



Well Dang.....my hubby just turned 56 & you would think he was a 20 year old <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-tongue.gif" border="0"> He is respectful of my health, but definitely has a greater drive then I do.
 

JazzysMom

New member
<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>Kelli</b></i>


I'm happy that my husband is 47 so sex is not #1 on his mind.


<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

Kelli

30 f CF</end quote>



Well Dang.....my hubby just turned 56 & you would think he was a 20 year old <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-tongue.gif" border="0"> He is respectful of my health, but definitely has a greater drive then I do.
 
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65rosessamurai

Guest
<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>JazzysMom</b></i>

<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>Kelli</b></i>





I'm happy that my husband is 47 so sex is not #1 on his mind.





<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">



Kelli



30 f CF</end quote></div>







Well Dang.....my hubby just turned 56 & you would think he was a 20 year old <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-tongue.gif" border="0"> He is respectful of my health, but definitely has a greater drive then I do.</end quote></div>

So I've still got a chance?! (or love life, as it may be <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0"> )
<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0">
 
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65rosessamurai

Guest
<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>JazzysMom</b></i>

<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>Kelli</b></i>





I'm happy that my husband is 47 so sex is not #1 on his mind.





<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">



Kelli



30 f CF</end quote></div>







Well Dang.....my hubby just turned 56 & you would think he was a 20 year old <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-tongue.gif" border="0"> He is respectful of my health, but definitely has a greater drive then I do.</end quote></div>

So I've still got a chance?! (or love life, as it may be <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0"> )
<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0">
 
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65rosessamurai

Guest
<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>JazzysMom</b></i>

<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>Kelli</b></i>





I'm happy that my husband is 47 so sex is not #1 on his mind.





<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">



Kelli



30 f CF</end quote></div>







Well Dang.....my hubby just turned 56 & you would think he was a 20 year old <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-tongue.gif" border="0"> He is respectful of my health, but definitely has a greater drive then I do.</end quote></div>

So I've still got a chance?! (or love life, as it may be <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0"> )
<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0">
 
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65rosessamurai

Guest
<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>JazzysMom</b></i>

<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>Kelli</b></i>





I'm happy that my husband is 47 so sex is not #1 on his mind.





<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">



Kelli



30 f CF</end quote>







Well Dang.....my hubby just turned 56 & you would think he was a 20 year old <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-tongue.gif" border="0"> He is respectful of my health, but definitely has a greater drive then I do.</end quote>

So I've still got a chance?! (or love life, as it may be <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0"> )
<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0">
 
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65rosessamurai

Guest
<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>JazzysMom</b></i>

<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>Kelli</b></i>





I'm happy that my husband is 47 so sex is not #1 on his mind.





<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">



Kelli



30 f CF</end quote>







Well Dang.....my hubby just turned 56 & you would think he was a 20 year old <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-tongue.gif" border="0"> He is respectful of my health, but definitely has a greater drive then I do.</end quote>

So I've still got a chance?! (or love life, as it may be <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0"> )
<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0">
 
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