ViviansMom
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Thats how I feel about my ex, he has no memoriesand will never have any , Vivian is old enough now that she does want anything from him or to do with him.
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I was always told that what goes around, comes around.......such a true statement, that's for sure. I was very bitter toward my ex for many years, and thought that one day he will get what he deserves. His second marriage failed, he had another child with cerebal palsy, his own family has disowned him ...........
I honestly have no feelings whatsoever now, bitterness has gone and he is just a distant memory of someone I once knew. My younger son, hasn't seen or heard from him for 17 years now, never speaks or asks about him. I do feel sad and also very guilty for both of my sons though, that they missed out on knowing their father, even the @%$& that he was.
Sandy
I honestly have no feelings whatsoever now, bitterness has gone and he is just a distant memory of someone I once knew. My younger son, hasn't seen or heard from him for 17 years now, never speaks or asks about him. I do feel sad and also very guilty for both of my sons though, that they missed out on knowing their father, even the @%$& that he was.
Sandy
I was always told that what goes around, comes around.......such a true statement, that's for sure. I was very bitter toward my ex for many years, and thought that one day he will get what he deserves. His second marriage failed, he had another child with cerebal palsy, his own family has disowned him ...........
I honestly have no feelings whatsoever now, bitterness has gone and he is just a distant memory of someone I once knew. My younger son, hasn't seen or heard from him for 17 years now, never speaks or asks about him. I do feel sad and also very guilty for both of my sons though, that they missed out on knowing their father, even the @%$& that he was.
Sandy
I honestly have no feelings whatsoever now, bitterness has gone and he is just a distant memory of someone I once knew. My younger son, hasn't seen or heard from him for 17 years now, never speaks or asks about him. I do feel sad and also very guilty for both of my sons though, that they missed out on knowing their father, even the @%$& that he was.
Sandy
I was always told that what goes around, comes around.......such a true statement, that's for sure. I was very bitter toward my ex for many years, and thought that one day he will get what he deserves. His second marriage failed, he had another child with cerebal palsy, his own family has disowned him ...........
I honestly have no feelings whatsoever now, bitterness has gone and he is just a distant memory of someone I once knew. My younger son, hasn't seen or heard from him for 17 years now, never speaks or asks about him. I do feel sad and also very guilty for both of my sons though, that they missed out on knowing their father, even the @%$& that he was.
Sandy
I honestly have no feelings whatsoever now, bitterness has gone and he is just a distant memory of someone I once knew. My younger son, hasn't seen or heard from him for 17 years now, never speaks or asks about him. I do feel sad and also very guilty for both of my sons though, that they missed out on knowing their father, even the @%$& that he was.
Sandy
<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>ViviansMom</b></i>
mum2kj, mine was never ordered to pay anything because her our system is screwed up, he owns a business but because him and I both draw our SS (due to a disability) he doesn't have to pay child support because Vivian is on mine. So this @#*@#*! walks scot free without a care in the world. He doesn't even bother with Holidays like Christmas, her B-day ect....... but he got put out because he didn't get a fathers day gift from her. She told him when she fount a father she would buy him a gift.
Vivian is this butts second CFer he had a daughter that past away Nov. 05, that he never once laid eyes on her mother moved to Florida when she was expecting and even though he knew she had CF he never bothered to try and visits her, she was 22.
The thing I have thought to do to this man could be really scary. I think the worst of it was when she was in ICU I tried to get a hold of him for 5 days and them he finally called me back and right away went to talking about himself and that how he needed to go to the market but he didn't have away (a drunk driving charge lost his licenses) so he asked me to come take him said I needed a break. I was so mad that I lost it on him I was screaming in the phone to the point the nurse came in and asked me if I was OK. This man hasn't a clue of what his daughter has or will go threw.
Hats off to you dyza your family is truly blessed with your love and devotion.</end quote></div>
Sounds like a real bad egg there!
Sucks that he hasn't been of any financial help!
My ex went for years without contacting his daughters or helping financially with anything, Till i had the police contact him cos my eldest passed away. He promised to make things right for Kj but it hasn't changed at all!!! He will put the odd cash into her account on occasion but that doesnt help for me to pay medical costs or schooling costs. Makes me sick<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-tongue.gif" border="0">
Dyza; where can I find one like you <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> Do you have a brother who wants to live in Australia lol.
mum2kj, mine was never ordered to pay anything because her our system is screwed up, he owns a business but because him and I both draw our SS (due to a disability) he doesn't have to pay child support because Vivian is on mine. So this @#*@#*! walks scot free without a care in the world. He doesn't even bother with Holidays like Christmas, her B-day ect....... but he got put out because he didn't get a fathers day gift from her. She told him when she fount a father she would buy him a gift.
Vivian is this butts second CFer he had a daughter that past away Nov. 05, that he never once laid eyes on her mother moved to Florida when she was expecting and even though he knew she had CF he never bothered to try and visits her, she was 22.
The thing I have thought to do to this man could be really scary. I think the worst of it was when she was in ICU I tried to get a hold of him for 5 days and them he finally called me back and right away went to talking about himself and that how he needed to go to the market but he didn't have away (a drunk driving charge lost his licenses) so he asked me to come take him said I needed a break. I was so mad that I lost it on him I was screaming in the phone to the point the nurse came in and asked me if I was OK. This man hasn't a clue of what his daughter has or will go threw.
Hats off to you dyza your family is truly blessed with your love and devotion.</end quote></div>
Sounds like a real bad egg there!
Sucks that he hasn't been of any financial help!
My ex went for years without contacting his daughters or helping financially with anything, Till i had the police contact him cos my eldest passed away. He promised to make things right for Kj but it hasn't changed at all!!! He will put the odd cash into her account on occasion but that doesnt help for me to pay medical costs or schooling costs. Makes me sick<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-tongue.gif" border="0">
Dyza; where can I find one like you <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> Do you have a brother who wants to live in Australia lol.