So glad to have found this forum!

EJ

New member
Thank you so much! I feel very lucky to have been so warmly welcomed! Although I have lots of CF friends, I've never known any of them go through a pregnancy so it's lovely to feel there is a place where I can chat to people in the same situation.

When my husband (been married 3 years) and I asked my consultant about the possibility of having a baby, we were fully expecting him to say "No, you really shouldn't, your lung function is too low" but we needed to know once and for all if it was a possibility or if we should put it out of our minds forever.

He explained all the risks and research to us, we discussed possible effects of drugs on the baby, how many CF women suffer after the birth because of the work involved in caring for a small child, etc etc. But he said to me that he felt that although my lung function was just below the normal 'minimum' of 50%, it is very stable and so he would fully support me if we decided to go for it. He said they had got 9 CF mothers safely through pregnancy and he felt they would have a very good chance of doing the same for me.

My CF team are amazing, they stop at nothing to keep their patients healthy. I know that if I do get pregnant they will monitor me very closely and treat me very carefully. They work in combination with an OB/GYN team who have looked after CF women before and are at a hospital round the corner from them.

Obviously I'm still a bit nervous - I'm fully aware of the risks and how hard it may turn out to be but the one thing that makes it possible in my mind is that I have a fantastic husband who is at home with me fulltime and who cares for me incredibly well and would also offer loads of support with the baby too. Otherwise, I don't think it would be an option as children require so much energy which I don't always have at times!

My HSG and blood tests were all fine but I had a post-coital test last month and the nurse said my CM was so sticky it was like "wallpaper paste!" (sorry TMI!) I've been trying for months with no luck so they are now going to give me a mucus-thinning drug and if that doesn't work, advise IUI.

Anyway, sorry for the long message - just thought I'd explain the stage I'm at! As I say, thanks so much for making me feel so welcome, I never thought I'd find so many other CF Mums to chat to! xxx
 

EJ

New member
Thank you so much! I feel very lucky to have been so warmly welcomed! Although I have lots of CF friends, I've never known any of them go through a pregnancy so it's lovely to feel there is a place where I can chat to people in the same situation.

When my husband (been married 3 years) and I asked my consultant about the possibility of having a baby, we were fully expecting him to say "No, you really shouldn't, your lung function is too low" but we needed to know once and for all if it was a possibility or if we should put it out of our minds forever.

He explained all the risks and research to us, we discussed possible effects of drugs on the baby, how many CF women suffer after the birth because of the work involved in caring for a small child, etc etc. But he said to me that he felt that although my lung function was just below the normal 'minimum' of 50%, it is very stable and so he would fully support me if we decided to go for it. He said they had got 9 CF mothers safely through pregnancy and he felt they would have a very good chance of doing the same for me.

My CF team are amazing, they stop at nothing to keep their patients healthy. I know that if I do get pregnant they will monitor me very closely and treat me very carefully. They work in combination with an OB/GYN team who have looked after CF women before and are at a hospital round the corner from them.

Obviously I'm still a bit nervous - I'm fully aware of the risks and how hard it may turn out to be but the one thing that makes it possible in my mind is that I have a fantastic husband who is at home with me fulltime and who cares for me incredibly well and would also offer loads of support with the baby too. Otherwise, I don't think it would be an option as children require so much energy which I don't always have at times!

My HSG and blood tests were all fine but I had a post-coital test last month and the nurse said my CM was so sticky it was like "wallpaper paste!" (sorry TMI!) I've been trying for months with no luck so they are now going to give me a mucus-thinning drug and if that doesn't work, advise IUI.

Anyway, sorry for the long message - just thought I'd explain the stage I'm at! As I say, thanks so much for making me feel so welcome, I never thought I'd find so many other CF Mums to chat to! xxx
 

EJ

New member
Thank you so much! I feel very lucky to have been so warmly welcomed! Although I have lots of CF friends, I've never known any of them go through a pregnancy so it's lovely to feel there is a place where I can chat to people in the same situation.

When my husband (been married 3 years) and I asked my consultant about the possibility of having a baby, we were fully expecting him to say "No, you really shouldn't, your lung function is too low" but we needed to know once and for all if it was a possibility or if we should put it out of our minds forever.

He explained all the risks and research to us, we discussed possible effects of drugs on the baby, how many CF women suffer after the birth because of the work involved in caring for a small child, etc etc. But he said to me that he felt that although my lung function was just below the normal 'minimum' of 50%, it is very stable and so he would fully support me if we decided to go for it. He said they had got 9 CF mothers safely through pregnancy and he felt they would have a very good chance of doing the same for me.

My CF team are amazing, they stop at nothing to keep their patients healthy. I know that if I do get pregnant they will monitor me very closely and treat me very carefully. They work in combination with an OB/GYN team who have looked after CF women before and are at a hospital round the corner from them.

Obviously I'm still a bit nervous - I'm fully aware of the risks and how hard it may turn out to be but the one thing that makes it possible in my mind is that I have a fantastic husband who is at home with me fulltime and who cares for me incredibly well and would also offer loads of support with the baby too. Otherwise, I don't think it would be an option as children require so much energy which I don't always have at times!

My HSG and blood tests were all fine but I had a post-coital test last month and the nurse said my CM was so sticky it was like "wallpaper paste!" (sorry TMI!) I've been trying for months with no luck so they are now going to give me a mucus-thinning drug and if that doesn't work, advise IUI.

Anyway, sorry for the long message - just thought I'd explain the stage I'm at! As I say, thanks so much for making me feel so welcome, I never thought I'd find so many other CF Mums to chat to! xxx
 

EJ

New member
Thank you so much! I feel very lucky to have been so warmly welcomed! Although I have lots of CF friends, I've never known any of them go through a pregnancy so it's lovely to feel there is a place where I can chat to people in the same situation.

When my husband (been married 3 years) and I asked my consultant about the possibility of having a baby, we were fully expecting him to say "No, you really shouldn't, your lung function is too low" but we needed to know once and for all if it was a possibility or if we should put it out of our minds forever.

He explained all the risks and research to us, we discussed possible effects of drugs on the baby, how many CF women suffer after the birth because of the work involved in caring for a small child, etc etc. But he said to me that he felt that although my lung function was just below the normal 'minimum' of 50%, it is very stable and so he would fully support me if we decided to go for it. He said they had got 9 CF mothers safely through pregnancy and he felt they would have a very good chance of doing the same for me.

My CF team are amazing, they stop at nothing to keep their patients healthy. I know that if I do get pregnant they will monitor me very closely and treat me very carefully. They work in combination with an OB/GYN team who have looked after CF women before and are at a hospital round the corner from them.

Obviously I'm still a bit nervous - I'm fully aware of the risks and how hard it may turn out to be but the one thing that makes it possible in my mind is that I have a fantastic husband who is at home with me fulltime and who cares for me incredibly well and would also offer loads of support with the baby too. Otherwise, I don't think it would be an option as children require so much energy which I don't always have at times!

My HSG and blood tests were all fine but I had a post-coital test last month and the nurse said my CM was so sticky it was like "wallpaper paste!" (sorry TMI!) I've been trying for months with no luck so they are now going to give me a mucus-thinning drug and if that doesn't work, advise IUI.

Anyway, sorry for the long message - just thought I'd explain the stage I'm at! As I say, thanks so much for making me feel so welcome, I never thought I'd find so many other CF Mums to chat to! xxx
 

EJ

New member
Thank you so much! I feel very lucky to have been so warmly welcomed! Although I have lots of CF friends, I've never known any of them go through a pregnancy so it's lovely to feel there is a place where I can chat to people in the same situation.

When my husband (been married 3 years) and I asked my consultant about the possibility of having a baby, we were fully expecting him to say "No, you really shouldn't, your lung function is too low" but we needed to know once and for all if it was a possibility or if we should put it out of our minds forever.

He explained all the risks and research to us, we discussed possible effects of drugs on the baby, how many CF women suffer after the birth because of the work involved in caring for a small child, etc etc. But he said to me that he felt that although my lung function was just below the normal 'minimum' of 50%, it is very stable and so he would fully support me if we decided to go for it. He said they had got 9 CF mothers safely through pregnancy and he felt they would have a very good chance of doing the same for me.

My CF team are amazing, they stop at nothing to keep their patients healthy. I know that if I do get pregnant they will monitor me very closely and treat me very carefully. They work in combination with an OB/GYN team who have looked after CF women before and are at a hospital round the corner from them.

Obviously I'm still a bit nervous - I'm fully aware of the risks and how hard it may turn out to be but the one thing that makes it possible in my mind is that I have a fantastic husband who is at home with me fulltime and who cares for me incredibly well and would also offer loads of support with the baby too. Otherwise, I don't think it would be an option as children require so much energy which I don't always have at times!

My HSG and blood tests were all fine but I had a post-coital test last month and the nurse said my CM was so sticky it was like "wallpaper paste!" (sorry TMI!) I've been trying for months with no luck so they are now going to give me a mucus-thinning drug and if that doesn't work, advise IUI.

Anyway, sorry for the long message - just thought I'd explain the stage I'm at! As I say, thanks so much for making me feel so welcome, I never thought I'd find so many other CF Mums to chat to! xxx
 

Pinky

New member
I'm so glad you are here too EJ, I just joined a few weeks ago as well.

Unfortunately I don't have any suggestions for you beings as I have not had any children. However, I love that you are here because it seems we are in very similar situations. My husband and I have been married just a few years and have been trying to conceive now for several months with no luck. I have an Dr. apt in a couple weeks to discuss our next step...

As far as charting everything is normal for me, I think my CM is the problem. It seems like an IUI is the easiest way around that though? What is the mucous-thinning drug your doctor has put you on (if you don't mind).

Well I just thought I would let you know that I am literally in the 'wait' with you!
 

Pinky

New member
I'm so glad you are here too EJ, I just joined a few weeks ago as well.

Unfortunately I don't have any suggestions for you beings as I have not had any children. However, I love that you are here because it seems we are in very similar situations. My husband and I have been married just a few years and have been trying to conceive now for several months with no luck. I have an Dr. apt in a couple weeks to discuss our next step...

As far as charting everything is normal for me, I think my CM is the problem. It seems like an IUI is the easiest way around that though? What is the mucous-thinning drug your doctor has put you on (if you don't mind).

Well I just thought I would let you know that I am literally in the 'wait' with you!
 

Pinky

New member
I'm so glad you are here too EJ, I just joined a few weeks ago as well.

Unfortunately I don't have any suggestions for you beings as I have not had any children. However, I love that you are here because it seems we are in very similar situations. My husband and I have been married just a few years and have been trying to conceive now for several months with no luck. I have an Dr. apt in a couple weeks to discuss our next step...

As far as charting everything is normal for me, I think my CM is the problem. It seems like an IUI is the easiest way around that though? What is the mucous-thinning drug your doctor has put you on (if you don't mind).

Well I just thought I would let you know that I am literally in the 'wait' with you!
 

Pinky

New member
I'm so glad you are here too EJ, I just joined a few weeks ago as well.

Unfortunately I don't have any suggestions for you beings as I have not had any children. However, I love that you are here because it seems we are in very similar situations. My husband and I have been married just a few years and have been trying to conceive now for several months with no luck. I have an Dr. apt in a couple weeks to discuss our next step...

As far as charting everything is normal for me, I think my CM is the problem. It seems like an IUI is the easiest way around that though? What is the mucous-thinning drug your doctor has put you on (if you don't mind).

Well I just thought I would let you know that I am literally in the 'wait' with you!
 

Pinky

New member
I'm so glad you are here too EJ, I just joined a few weeks ago as well.

Unfortunately I don't have any suggestions for you beings as I have not had any children. However, I love that you are here because it seems we are in very similar situations. My husband and I have been married just a few years and have been trying to conceive now for several months with no luck. I have an Dr. apt in a couple weeks to discuss our next step...

As far as charting everything is normal for me, I think my CM is the problem. It seems like an IUI is the easiest way around that though? What is the mucous-thinning drug your doctor has put you on (if you don't mind).

Well I just thought I would let you know that I am literally in the 'wait' with you!
 

EJ

New member
Hi Pinky! That's so nice that we are both at the same stage of this whole process! I am 99% certain that I won't be able to conceive naturally as it's been a long while that I've been trying and I've done everything like OPK's etc. I don't know about you but I never produce any CM like how they describe it should be during your fertile phase, in fact there is very little change in it throughout the month at all. My CF consultant referred me to the Ob-Gyn team that he has links with at the nearby hospital and so far I've had various tests - an HSG (where they inject some dye into your tubes and X-ray them), an ultrasound scan, blood tests and also a PCT (post-coital test). All were fine apart from the PCT - which is where the nurse said my CM was really thick and sticky, and when she looked under the microscope all she could find were 2 dead sperm!

The next step is to repeat the PCT on day 10 of my next cycle and see if the CM is any less sticky (which I'm certain it won't be). If there is no change then they are going to start me on a mucous-thinning drug (sorry, I didn't catch the name on the phone) and if that doesn't work then it will be IUI. I'm kind of anxious to get a move on with everything as my chest is doing really well at the moment, but these tests and waits seem to take forever (it may be faster in USA as you all go private I believe).

Anyway, it will be nice to have someone else to compare notes with! Are you keeping well at the moment? xxx
 

EJ

New member
Hi Pinky! That's so nice that we are both at the same stage of this whole process! I am 99% certain that I won't be able to conceive naturally as it's been a long while that I've been trying and I've done everything like OPK's etc. I don't know about you but I never produce any CM like how they describe it should be during your fertile phase, in fact there is very little change in it throughout the month at all. My CF consultant referred me to the Ob-Gyn team that he has links with at the nearby hospital and so far I've had various tests - an HSG (where they inject some dye into your tubes and X-ray them), an ultrasound scan, blood tests and also a PCT (post-coital test). All were fine apart from the PCT - which is where the nurse said my CM was really thick and sticky, and when she looked under the microscope all she could find were 2 dead sperm!

The next step is to repeat the PCT on day 10 of my next cycle and see if the CM is any less sticky (which I'm certain it won't be). If there is no change then they are going to start me on a mucous-thinning drug (sorry, I didn't catch the name on the phone) and if that doesn't work then it will be IUI. I'm kind of anxious to get a move on with everything as my chest is doing really well at the moment, but these tests and waits seem to take forever (it may be faster in USA as you all go private I believe).

Anyway, it will be nice to have someone else to compare notes with! Are you keeping well at the moment? xxx
 

EJ

New member
Hi Pinky! That's so nice that we are both at the same stage of this whole process! I am 99% certain that I won't be able to conceive naturally as it's been a long while that I've been trying and I've done everything like OPK's etc. I don't know about you but I never produce any CM like how they describe it should be during your fertile phase, in fact there is very little change in it throughout the month at all. My CF consultant referred me to the Ob-Gyn team that he has links with at the nearby hospital and so far I've had various tests - an HSG (where they inject some dye into your tubes and X-ray them), an ultrasound scan, blood tests and also a PCT (post-coital test). All were fine apart from the PCT - which is where the nurse said my CM was really thick and sticky, and when she looked under the microscope all she could find were 2 dead sperm!

The next step is to repeat the PCT on day 10 of my next cycle and see if the CM is any less sticky (which I'm certain it won't be). If there is no change then they are going to start me on a mucous-thinning drug (sorry, I didn't catch the name on the phone) and if that doesn't work then it will be IUI. I'm kind of anxious to get a move on with everything as my chest is doing really well at the moment, but these tests and waits seem to take forever (it may be faster in USA as you all go private I believe).

Anyway, it will be nice to have someone else to compare notes with! Are you keeping well at the moment? xxx
 

EJ

New member
Hi Pinky! That's so nice that we are both at the same stage of this whole process! I am 99% certain that I won't be able to conceive naturally as it's been a long while that I've been trying and I've done everything like OPK's etc. I don't know about you but I never produce any CM like how they describe it should be during your fertile phase, in fact there is very little change in it throughout the month at all. My CF consultant referred me to the Ob-Gyn team that he has links with at the nearby hospital and so far I've had various tests - an HSG (where they inject some dye into your tubes and X-ray them), an ultrasound scan, blood tests and also a PCT (post-coital test). All were fine apart from the PCT - which is where the nurse said my CM was really thick and sticky, and when she looked under the microscope all she could find were 2 dead sperm!

The next step is to repeat the PCT on day 10 of my next cycle and see if the CM is any less sticky (which I'm certain it won't be). If there is no change then they are going to start me on a mucous-thinning drug (sorry, I didn't catch the name on the phone) and if that doesn't work then it will be IUI. I'm kind of anxious to get a move on with everything as my chest is doing really well at the moment, but these tests and waits seem to take forever (it may be faster in USA as you all go private I believe).

Anyway, it will be nice to have someone else to compare notes with! Are you keeping well at the moment? xxx
 

EJ

New member
Hi Pinky! That's so nice that we are both at the same stage of this whole process! I am 99% certain that I won't be able to conceive naturally as it's been a long while that I've been trying and I've done everything like OPK's etc. I don't know about you but I never produce any CM like how they describe it should be during your fertile phase, in fact there is very little change in it throughout the month at all. My CF consultant referred me to the Ob-Gyn team that he has links with at the nearby hospital and so far I've had various tests - an HSG (where they inject some dye into your tubes and X-ray them), an ultrasound scan, blood tests and also a PCT (post-coital test). All were fine apart from the PCT - which is where the nurse said my CM was really thick and sticky, and when she looked under the microscope all she could find were 2 dead sperm!

The next step is to repeat the PCT on day 10 of my next cycle and see if the CM is any less sticky (which I'm certain it won't be). If there is no change then they are going to start me on a mucous-thinning drug (sorry, I didn't catch the name on the phone) and if that doesn't work then it will be IUI. I'm kind of anxious to get a move on with everything as my chest is doing really well at the moment, but these tests and waits seem to take forever (it may be faster in USA as you all go private I believe).

Anyway, it will be nice to have someone else to compare notes with! Are you keeping well at the moment? xxx
 
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