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mom2lilg
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My step daughter is 7 and we have talked to her often about cf. Im not sure if she understands as much as my twins (7yr) do about cf. one of my twins is very protective of grayson b/c she does understand maybe too much. When grayson is in the hospital my twins normally live with my mom and dad just to keep it as "normal" for them (their dad works 3rd and they rather be with their nana and pappy). In the past its been a huge battle of name calling and "you don't love your daughter" to my husband from his ex wife. She has also sent her even knowing she was sick and didn't say anything. I have educated her and sent her tons of info on cf. one day she's very supportive and the next its just the opposite. It really depends on the day if she will be open minded about it. My step daughter is a huge part in our family. All family outings are scheduled when she is with us, holidays, school breaks, and we get her for the summer. She has been in my life for a little over 4 yrs now. And love her very much and thats why its such a hard decision. Also, as for my twins. Here is an example; Grayson was born May 08. My twins bday is just 2 weeks later. Grayson had many health issues and surgeries (7 month stay). We had to celebrate their bday in the hospital. In 2010, once again, grayson admitted just a week after her 2nd bday. So once again my twins had to celebrate their bday in the hospital. So now they said they cant plan a party since Grayson might get sick. I don't know if i can risk my cf childs health this time. I made a promise to my twins that their sister will be at their party and it won't be at the hospital.