Debby, First let me explain that I'm not a parent of a cf'er, but a person with cf who had a mother who insisted on doing everthing for me. Your daughter needs to learn that this his hers to deal with, not yours. Unfortunately, that means you'll have to let her figure out what she needs to do to stay well. I know from first hand experience how handicapping it is to have a mother who insisted on taking care of everything. Only when I was able to put some distance between my mom and me, was I able to take the necessary steps to take care of myself. Of course I always knew she'd be there for me, but I needed to figure it out on my own.... only then did I realize that no one is responsible for my health except me. I know that it's difficult to let go of the reigns after 20 or so years, but it's a necessary step for your daughter to grow. So my advice to you is to cut the umbilical cord and allow your daughter to become the woman you know she can be. You'll be pleasantly surprised at how well she takes on her own responsibilities. It may take some time, but you'll both be better off in the end. Again, I wish my own mother had done the same and that her continued doting only inhibited my own independence by not allowing me to learn how to take care of myself- even if it was the hard way to learn. At this point, there isn't anything you can say that she hasn't already heard from you, or her doctors. It's up to her to take care of herself, so leave it up to her (remember, you're always there when she asks for your help). I hope this helps- I can only speak from my own perspective, so bear in mind that this is only my opinion. Take care and God bless....