Today is a really, really bad day...

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Keepercjr

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Jenny

I'm so sorry for your day <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0"> It didn't take us long to conceive Logan but when you're ready, you're ready! I saw pregnant women everywhere and it made me crazy.

I agree that you shouldn't talk with Sophia about getting pregnant anymore. You need to keep your "bubble of peace" and align yourself with people who agree with your decisions and support you. That doesn't mean to not talk w/ Sophia but keep baby stuff out of bounds. Once you get pregnant she can share in your joy but for now, she doesn't seem to agree with your pursuit. There is absolutely nothing wrong with getting answers! I want a homebirth with the next baby and my mom will probably have a cow but I'm going to have to put up some boundaries and not discuss it with her.

Gotta run!
 
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Keepercjr

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Jenny

I'm so sorry for your day <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0"> It didn't take us long to conceive Logan but when you're ready, you're ready! I saw pregnant women everywhere and it made me crazy.

I agree that you shouldn't talk with Sophia about getting pregnant anymore. You need to keep your "bubble of peace" and align yourself with people who agree with your decisions and support you. That doesn't mean to not talk w/ Sophia but keep baby stuff out of bounds. Once you get pregnant she can share in your joy but for now, she doesn't seem to agree with your pursuit. There is absolutely nothing wrong with getting answers! I want a homebirth with the next baby and my mom will probably have a cow but I'm going to have to put up some boundaries and not discuss it with her.

Gotta run!
 
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Keepercjr

Guest
Jenny

I'm so sorry for your day <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0"> It didn't take us long to conceive Logan but when you're ready, you're ready! I saw pregnant women everywhere and it made me crazy.

I agree that you shouldn't talk with Sophia about getting pregnant anymore. You need to keep your "bubble of peace" and align yourself with people who agree with your decisions and support you. That doesn't mean to not talk w/ Sophia but keep baby stuff out of bounds. Once you get pregnant she can share in your joy but for now, she doesn't seem to agree with your pursuit. There is absolutely nothing wrong with getting answers! I want a homebirth with the next baby and my mom will probably have a cow but I'm going to have to put up some boundaries and not discuss it with her.

Gotta run!
 
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Keepercjr

Guest
Jenny

I'm so sorry for your day <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0"> It didn't take us long to conceive Logan but when you're ready, you're ready! I saw pregnant women everywhere and it made me crazy.

I agree that you shouldn't talk with Sophia about getting pregnant anymore. You need to keep your "bubble of peace" and align yourself with people who agree with your decisions and support you. That doesn't mean to not talk w/ Sophia but keep baby stuff out of bounds. Once you get pregnant she can share in your joy but for now, she doesn't seem to agree with your pursuit. There is absolutely nothing wrong with getting answers! I want a homebirth with the next baby and my mom will probably have a cow but I'm going to have to put up some boundaries and not discuss it with her.

Gotta run!
 
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Keepercjr

Guest
Jenny

I'm so sorry for your day <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0"> It didn't take us long to conceive Logan but when you're ready, you're ready! I saw pregnant women everywhere and it made me crazy.

I agree that you shouldn't talk with Sophia about getting pregnant anymore. You need to keep your "bubble of peace" and align yourself with people who agree with your decisions and support you. That doesn't mean to not talk w/ Sophia but keep baby stuff out of bounds. Once you get pregnant she can share in your joy but for now, she doesn't seem to agree with your pursuit. There is absolutely nothing wrong with getting answers! I want a homebirth with the next baby and my mom will probably have a cow but I'm going to have to put up some boundaries and not discuss it with her.

Gotta run!
 
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wanderlost

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It i s amazing how insensitive people can be when you're TTC - I can't tell you the number of women who made commetns like, "Oh, not me, I just have to look at my husband and I'll get pregnant" and stuff like that. I found it easier to just not talk about it except with women who understood - other women who were having a hard time TTC- which I mainly found online - I used the fertilityfriend forums a lot at that time as I recall, and the ones at mothering.com. Hang in there, it is going to happen for you, you just need to get some stuff straightened out, and that is exactly what you're doing now. (((HUGS)))
 
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wanderlost

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It i s amazing how insensitive people can be when you're TTC - I can't tell you the number of women who made commetns like, "Oh, not me, I just have to look at my husband and I'll get pregnant" and stuff like that. I found it easier to just not talk about it except with women who understood - other women who were having a hard time TTC- which I mainly found online - I used the fertilityfriend forums a lot at that time as I recall, and the ones at mothering.com. Hang in there, it is going to happen for you, you just need to get some stuff straightened out, and that is exactly what you're doing now. (((HUGS)))
 
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wanderlost

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It i s amazing how insensitive people can be when you're TTC - I can't tell you the number of women who made commetns like, "Oh, not me, I just have to look at my husband and I'll get pregnant" and stuff like that. I found it easier to just not talk about it except with women who understood - other women who were having a hard time TTC- which I mainly found online - I used the fertilityfriend forums a lot at that time as I recall, and the ones at mothering.com. Hang in there, it is going to happen for you, you just need to get some stuff straightened out, and that is exactly what you're doing now. (((HUGS)))
 
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wanderlost

New member
It i s amazing how insensitive people can be when you're TTC - I can't tell you the number of women who made commetns like, "Oh, not me, I just have to look at my husband and I'll get pregnant" and stuff like that. I found it easier to just not talk about it except with women who understood - other women who were having a hard time TTC- which I mainly found online - I used the fertilityfriend forums a lot at that time as I recall, and the ones at mothering.com. Hang in there, it is going to happen for you, you just need to get some stuff straightened out, and that is exactly what you're doing now. (((HUGS)))
 
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wanderlost

New member
It i s amazing how insensitive people can be when you're TTC - I can't tell you the number of women who made commetns like, "Oh, not me, I just have to look at my husband and I'll get pregnant" and stuff like that. I found it easier to just not talk about it except with women who understood - other women who were having a hard time TTC- which I mainly found online - I used the fertilityfriend forums a lot at that time as I recall, and the ones at mothering.com. Hang in there, it is going to happen for you, you just need to get some stuff straightened out, and that is exactly what you're doing now. (((HUGS)))
 
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