AbsintheSorrow
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I have a question for anyone who's involved or ever been involved with a non-CFer. Now, of course, no one who isn't a CFer can fully understand what's going on. That's a given. But the guy I'm with right now doesn't understand much of it. That's not to say that he doesn't understand that I'm sick, and I cough, and I'll die and good stuff like that. I mean more like he doesn't understand why and how I feel some of the things I feel. He understands as much as I can tell him, and he wants to understand more. He feels like a bad person sometimes for not understanding more thoroughly, and it's not like it's his fault for being healthy. I've been with non-CFers before who have, at least seemed to understand me better. I just want to know if anyone has had any similar problems with some people that didn't occur with other people. If you did, was there anything you did or said to these people? Anything that maybe helped them understand better, or allowed something to click in their heads?