Ender, if that's how you feel then just don't donate, or even consider it. Mark and I are poor as hell, as are a lot of members on here. But I can manage to scrounge up $5-10 dollars to help. Consider if 100 members from this site sent $3 each, that's a signifigant dent in some of her bills. I completely understand those who don't want to donate or simply can't. However, there are some that DO, so please let them read this.
Do you need some zithro? If you are serious, I can help you. If not, please don't make fun of this very sensitive situation. Her husband is DYING and she's just trying to take care of her family.
I've known LeAndra for 3+ years, from this site. She's one of the people featured on my website. When things started going really bad for Jeremy, she aske for my help in finding some assistance (like the Milan foundation, Reach for the stars foundation, the Boomer Esiason foundation...) and then set up a pay pal account for family and friends that want to donate.
Heck, I've got a paypal button on my website for donations to keep the site running. And I can't count how many people on this website sent me gifts, gift certificates, cards and said prayers for me when I had the babies.
To me, this place is a family and people should feel comfortable coming here and if they are in dire needs, asking for the assistance they need. I can't express how much the gifts and gift cards and YES, even money, helped us out. It's been a tough year for us (by our choice of course) but this site helped me through most of it. So I'm doing what I can to give back and help someone else out.