Update on the babies-New belly pictures on website

julie

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We had a long appointment yesterday and everything looks well!

Baby A (Cassandra) weighs 2lbs 11oz and is the chunkiest of all
Baby B (either Tristan or Ryland) is 2lbs 5oz
Baby C (either Tristan or Ryland) is 2lbs 4oz

This is good news because two weeks ago the boys were in the 16th and 11th percentile, respectively. and now they are in the 21st and 16th percentile, respectively so they have done some catching up.

I on the other hand, have had a week from hell. They started me on terbutaline last week and the nasty side effects of that medication reared it's head x100 for me. Irritability, drowsiness shortly after the medication kicked in and then wired for hours a few minutes later, jittery and physically shaky (to the point that I couldn't even type on the computer), inability to sit still or get comfortable, no appetite whatsoever, crying because I was so frustrated with no appetite, not being able to sleep (about 1 hour each night for the past 6 nights and cat naps here and there throughout the day) even what I would consider depression and just being sick of all this and wanting to give up-which isn't exactly an option... Poor Mark has had quite a time dealing with me, what a man though!

So I talked to my doc. yesterday about how unhappy I am and I realize that I'm nearing the end of this pregnancy and in talking to other triplet moms, there is something about the 27,28,29th week of a triplet pregnancy where most of them got to the "I just want to give up point" like I did the other day. But that I'm not sure what to do to get myself through it. I've lost 2lbs, and I should have gained about 3lbs and I'm upset with myself about that, I'm exhausted and snappy with my husband because no matter how much I try to sleep, I don't get much more than a 30-60 minute stretch before I just can't sleep anymore because I'm so uncomfortable, my hips have sores on them from laying on my sides and the weight finally taking it's toll on my poor hips (they are bruised now) and all the above I already mentioned.

So, he suggested a Terbutaline holiday, even though I've only been on it for 1 week, and to try Motrin every 6 hours for the contractions. Last week my cervix had shortened a lot, down to 2.9cm long. Now this week it is up to 5.3cm. Not sure how it "grows" but the doc says he thinks it was either a fluke last week OR, I was having a lot of contractions last week and it could have shortened with a contraction. And they measured it 2x just to be sure. So that's good news in all of this.

I'm actually feeling better since I'm off that awful drug, it's been 24 hours since my last does. Definately not 100% like I was 3 weeks ago, but I'm getting to that "rough patch" as other triplet moms have told me, and so I guess it's kind of expected for me to feel much more exhausted and bored, frustrated and such.

Just wanted to give you guys an update, sorry it's so long and whiney.

I will try to do a belly picture today, I know I mentioned it last time but I just didn't feel up to it.

7 weeks to go and counting, although at this poit I'm just looking to make it through each day!!!

Thanks to all of you for the continued support, the Pm's and emails. This website is a wonderful family and I am so glad to be a member. Thank you!!!
 

rcq925

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Update on the babies

Julie,

I am so glad you and the babies are doing well! I know this must be so hard on your, Mark and your body, but IT WILL be worth it in the end!! Once you lay eyes on those beautiful babies, it will have all been worth it and a distant memory! Please keep us updated and take care of yourself!!
 

jonandlindsay

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Hi Julie,

I haven't been around here for long, but I wanted to tell you I think your story is fantastic. I checked out your website. You've done so much work and documented everything so well. I'm very impressed you can do all that AND carry around three little ones! I really enjoy reading your updates and wish you all the best! Oh, you also give wonderful advice and encouragment to so many others on this forum. Your indepth knowledge about everything CF is very impressive. Thank you for sharing with us all!

~ Lindsay
Mom to Ella, 2-3/4 w/CF
 

dyza

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<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>julie</b></i>




... Poor Mark has had quite a time dealing with me, what a man though!


Having had my time twice looking in as a husband on complicated pregnancy, its good that you have a ggod man in Mark. If he is anything like me he will be finding this as difficult as yourself. ''Is there anything that I can do right?'' that question will be racing round his head.
So please be understanding of Marks helplessness in this, I'm sure he is doing all he can.
You take it easy girl, rest, eat then rest some more.
 
J

jaybird

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Hey Julie,
Pregnancy is your free nine months to whine--go for it x3!!!! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> I had a similar problem with my hips and sides during my second preg and I only had one. Can't imagine w/3. The light at the end of the tunnel is SOOOO worth it. My kids rock my world.
 

imondeck

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Awww, Julie, I feel for you. Ups and downs are expected, especially with 3 babies! Hang in there (and tell Mark to hang in there), hope you get some much needed sleep soon.
 

julie

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Update on the babies

Thanks so much to everyone for the encouragement and support! I absolutely love all of you and am so thankful for this site. It's such a refresher sometimes and I'm so glad I have all of you!

yesterday was a much better day for me. I was still a bit sleepy in the AM (right after I posted my update) but I hadn't taken the terbuteline evening dose, just the AM dose the day before so it should be all out of my system. The advil worked pretty well for me yesterday. I did have to take 1 dose of terb. in the evening and had a hard time with it, but the effects seem to be gone today. I took it because the advil can take 8-12 hours to "kick in" and the contractions were getting stronger and more frequent.

Craig, I read your post to Mark. He just kept smiling and shaking his head. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> Mark has had a lot of patients with me, so glad I have him. For everything I go through with this pregnancy, he goes through it too, and then some. Because for him, he has no control. He just has to watch me have a hard time and can't help out. SO you are right Fred, Mark deserves a huge pat on the back !!!
He's getting so excited though, he keeps asking, "are they here yet, are they here yet?" like a little kid. I ask him if he's still nervous and he says yes, but that he's more excited everyday.

I'll ask Mark to take a belly shot and I'll put it up today. Sorry, I know I promised yesterday but I was enjoying my bit of normalcy and Mark insisted I get out of the house and accompany him on a trip to get dog food . It's actually an adventure because the pet store that carries their food is about 45 minutes away from our house. So it was nice to get outside and he made sure to just take his time and have a relaxing drive for me.

Thanks so much to everyone for the support. I/we really really appreciate it.
I hope everyone is doing well!!!
 

julie

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I posted a belly picture on the website for those who requested!! I like to put it there, vice here, so people can see the growth. Here's the direct link to the page <a target=_blank class=ftalternatingbarlinklarge href="http://www.cysticfibrosismaleinfertility.com/Mark_and_Julies_BellyPictures.html">http://www.cysticfibrosismalei...ies_BellyPictures.html</a>
 

js7881

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Congratulations!!!I haven't been on in so long I didn't even know you were pregnant let alone triplets!!!!<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

Since Mark has CF have they done any testing on the babies
 

eli

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WOW, you are getting huge girl. I hope your getting as much rest as possible, you look like you need it.

Take care and thanks heaps for sharing your jouney with us.

Keep us posted<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif" border="0">
 

julie

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Hey Jennifer, it's been FOREVER. Where'd you disappear to???? Hope all is well with you and Alayana, such a cutie she is!

As far as the CF testing, no we haven't had testing on the babies.

I was carrier tested for over 1,200 mutations and I'm not a carrier for any know mutaiton. Of course, this isn't 100% because I could carry some rare, undiscovered mutaiton so when the babies are about 6mos we will do a sweat test on then.

But based on my non-carrier status, our babies will just be carriers... having recieved 1 of Mark's CF mutations.


Thanks Eli, I feel HUGE <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> LOL. And my stomach has gone numb in my belly button and below... poor nerves are just shot. Thankfully, they can regenerate but it will take time. All I feel is pressure on my stomach, I have an itch and I go to scratch but I can't even scratch it because I can't feel it. It's a very strange sensation.

how are you doing???
 

anonymous

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Hey Julie,

I'm doing ok, i guess. I have had a realy bad day, today though. Olivia has been refusing to eat her food lately and i don't know what more to do.

I have tried everything possible o try and get her to eat and gain weight. Last week at clinic her docs said they are concerned about her weight and we need to look into it further.

She is 19months and only weighs 9.4 kg. That is tiny, she is sitting on the 10th percentile for growth. That is way below what they want her to be, which is close to the 50th percentile.

Oh, i havn't stopped crying i don't know what else to do.

Sorry for the vent, i had to let it out on someone.

As for you, i know how you feel. I mean i never got close to being as big as you but when i was pregnant Olivia i had some nerve and numbness problems too. Actually i had a very bad pregnancy overall, and was constantly in and out of hospital.

Not long to go, just try and enjoy what's left of it. lol.

Take care.
 

julie

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I"m so sorry to hear about her refusing the food. Have you posted anything to see if any other parents have ideas?

I know I'm an adult and not a kid, but I've had the same weight gaining difficulties through this pregnancy. Mark would ride me and ride me about eating right and eating enough and eating more and eating again... Finally in the last few weeks he's just given up (not literally) and decided that he'll just go with the flow and be ok with me eating what sounds good (whether it's brownies and a protein shake for dinner, or a protein shake, chocolate milk and a protein shake....). And IT'S WORKING!!! I gained 4lbs this past week.

So if she prefers something, even if it's not the healtiest option, maybe consider letting her have it??? I would talk to the other parents first though, just to make sure because dealing with children is different...

Sorry to hear you are having such a bad day, hugs and loves from far away!!!!
 

anonymous

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Girl, it's been a crazy year. Alayna is doing WONDERFUL!!!! We are very blessed. She is on 30 enzymes a day right now. Her lungs are perfect!!!! Her main problem his her digestive. As you seen she is definately not lacking in the weight department. She's a tank!!! She's 14 months and weighs 26lbs. It's amazing. It's great to be back. i miss talking to everyone.
 

eli

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Hey Julie, hugs to you too!<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0">

I havn't posted this question to parents as yet, but think i might.

Its probably already been asked 1000 times.

She ate better today, but breakfast is alway's good. We will see when it comes to lunch and dinner. I'm not looking forward to it, that's for sure.

Thanks again, take care of yourself.
 
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