Well, IUI #2 Was Bust. RE wants to put me on Clomid

[ep1713]

Hi Kristen,

I've been following your story and I'm really sorry IUI#2 didn't work. I'm also in your same situation in regards to my RE suggesting Clomid, giving the same reasons yours is giving you. I had one IUI a few months ago (which didn't work) on a natural cycle with the trigger shot like you. The next month I ovulated on a Sunday (earlier than expected) which is the one day my dr's office isn't open, and this past month for the first time I didn't ovulate. So after doing some long hard thinking, I am currently doing a cycle with clomid. I'm on day 5 right now and I really haven't noticed any side effects.

I completely understand it's a really hard decision. My husband and I aren't even telling anyone that we're on clomid except for my mom and my good friend because I don't want to hear the whole "what if you have twins" argument. My CF is pretty mild for the most part, and I guess I'm just trying to have some faith that whatever is meant to be will happen.

I also wanted to say I read your blog regarding your negative test, and COMPLETELY understand all those emotions you're going through! I'm always here if you ever need to vent. (Same to the rest of you!) I've followed this blog for a long time, but don't post too much... I guess I'm shy... <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

Good luck with your decision!!

Erin
28 w/ CF

 

[ep1713]

Hi Kristen,

I've been following your story and I'm really sorry IUI#2 didn't work. I'm also in your same situation in regards to my RE suggesting Clomid, giving the same reasons yours is giving you. I had one IUI a few months ago (which didn't work) on a natural cycle with the trigger shot like you. The next month I ovulated on a Sunday (earlier than expected) which is the one day my dr's office isn't open, and this past month for the first time I didn't ovulate. So after doing some long hard thinking, I am currently doing a cycle with clomid. I'm on day 5 right now and I really haven't noticed any side effects.

I completely understand it's a really hard decision. My husband and I aren't even telling anyone that we're on clomid except for my mom and my good friend because I don't want to hear the whole "what if you have twins" argument. My CF is pretty mild for the most part, and I guess I'm just trying to have some faith that whatever is meant to be will happen.

I also wanted to say I read your blog regarding your negative test, and COMPLETELY understand all those emotions you're going through! I'm always here if you ever need to vent. (Same to the rest of you!) I've followed this blog for a long time, but don't post too much... I guess I'm shy... <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

Good luck with your decision!!

Erin
28 w/ CF

 

[ep1713]

Hi Kristen,

I've been following your story and I'm really sorry IUI#2 didn't work. I'm also in your same situation in regards to my RE suggesting Clomid, giving the same reasons yours is giving you. I had one IUI a few months ago (which didn't work) on a natural cycle with the trigger shot like you. The next month I ovulated on a Sunday (earlier than expected) which is the one day my dr's office isn't open, and this past month for the first time I didn't ovulate. So after doing some long hard thinking, I am currently doing a cycle with clomid. I'm on day 5 right now and I really haven't noticed any side effects.

I completely understand it's a really hard decision. My husband and I aren't even telling anyone that we're on clomid except for my mom and my good friend because I don't want to hear the whole "what if you have twins" argument. My CF is pretty mild for the most part, and I guess I'm just trying to have some faith that whatever is meant to be will happen.

I also wanted to say I read your blog regarding your negative test, and COMPLETELY understand all those emotions you're going through! I'm always here if you ever need to vent. (Same to the rest of you!) I've followed this blog for a long time, but don't post too much... I guess I'm shy... <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

Good luck with your decision!!

Erin
28 w/ CF

 

[ep1713]

Hi Kristen,

I've been following your story and I'm really sorry IUI#2 didn't work. I'm also in your same situation in regards to my RE suggesting Clomid, giving the same reasons yours is giving you. I had one IUI a few months ago (which didn't work) on a natural cycle with the trigger shot like you. The next month I ovulated on a Sunday (earlier than expected) which is the one day my dr's office isn't open, and this past month for the first time I didn't ovulate. So after doing some long hard thinking, I am currently doing a cycle with clomid. I'm on day 5 right now and I really haven't noticed any side effects.

I completely understand it's a really hard decision. My husband and I aren't even telling anyone that we're on clomid except for my mom and my good friend because I don't want to hear the whole "what if you have twins" argument. My CF is pretty mild for the most part, and I guess I'm just trying to have some faith that whatever is meant to be will happen.

I also wanted to say I read your blog regarding your negative test, and COMPLETELY understand all those emotions you're going through! I'm always here if you ever need to vent. (Same to the rest of you!) I've followed this blog for a long time, but don't post too much... I guess I'm shy... <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

Good luck with your decision!!

Erin
28 w/ CF

 

[ep1713]

Hi Kristen,
<br />
<br />I've been following your story and I'm really sorry IUI#2 didn't work. I'm also in your same situation in regards to my RE suggesting Clomid, giving the same reasons yours is giving you. I had one IUI a few months ago (which didn't work) on a natural cycle with the trigger shot like you. The next month I ovulated on a Sunday (earlier than expected) which is the one day my dr's office isn't open, and this past month for the first time I didn't ovulate. So after doing some long hard thinking, I am currently doing a cycle with clomid. I'm on day 5 right now and I really haven't noticed any side effects.
<br />
<br />I completely understand it's a really hard decision. My husband and I aren't even telling anyone that we're on clomid except for my mom and my good friend because I don't want to hear the whole "what if you have twins" argument. My CF is pretty mild for the most part, and I guess I'm just trying to have some faith that whatever is meant to be will happen.
<br />
<br />I also wanted to say I read your blog regarding your negative test, and COMPLETELY understand all those emotions you're going through! I'm always here if you ever need to vent. (Same to the rest of you!) I've followed this blog for a long time, but don't post too much... I guess I'm shy... <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
<br />
<br />Good luck with your decision!!
<br />
<br />Erin
<br />28 w/ CF

 

[Asexyblond23]

kristen,

I guess im kinda shocked to hear that they want to put you on clomid when you are having a good follicle and ovulation on your own. I am in the same boat as you, can ovulate with a good follicle naturally and I guess I thought that the IUI would be all I ever needed. Do you mind if I ask what he explained to you about being better on the timing and how the clomid would help you seeing as your body seems to be working naturally on its own. We just did IUI #2 on friday and next month we will be possibly doing one without a trigger shot next month just for the fact that nick will be due to be home from a work trip on CD 15 which is when we have done the IUI the last 2 times and thats a friday so we will have to wait till monday and then see if I havent ovulated naturally. I kinda feel the same way as lamp that im worried about spending so much time and as much money as an IVF doing IUI's.

Now I dont know if any clinics offer this but there is a program that I will have to look up again but the offer a IVF guarrenty. The clinic that is 3 hours away with us gives you 2 IVF cycles for $11,000 and if your not preggo after that then you get 80% of your money back. I have been wondering latley if maybe i should look into this. Then part of me thinks well im jumping to soon and I should give the IUI more times. We are very lucky that the IUI does not cost us alot of money a month. Heck who knows, but if you get a chance I would really like to see what your doctor told you about adding clomid <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

 

[Asexyblond23]

kristen,

I guess im kinda shocked to hear that they want to put you on clomid when you are having a good follicle and ovulation on your own. I am in the same boat as you, can ovulate with a good follicle naturally and I guess I thought that the IUI would be all I ever needed. Do you mind if I ask what he explained to you about being better on the timing and how the clomid would help you seeing as your body seems to be working naturally on its own. We just did IUI #2 on friday and next month we will be possibly doing one without a trigger shot next month just for the fact that nick will be due to be home from a work trip on CD 15 which is when we have done the IUI the last 2 times and thats a friday so we will have to wait till monday and then see if I havent ovulated naturally. I kinda feel the same way as lamp that im worried about spending so much time and as much money as an IVF doing IUI's.

Now I dont know if any clinics offer this but there is a program that I will have to look up again but the offer a IVF guarrenty. The clinic that is 3 hours away with us gives you 2 IVF cycles for $11,000 and if your not preggo after that then you get 80% of your money back. I have been wondering latley if maybe i should look into this. Then part of me thinks well im jumping to soon and I should give the IUI more times. We are very lucky that the IUI does not cost us alot of money a month. Heck who knows, but if you get a chance I would really like to see what your doctor told you about adding clomid <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

 

[Asexyblond23]

kristen,

I guess im kinda shocked to hear that they want to put you on clomid when you are having a good follicle and ovulation on your own. I am in the same boat as you, can ovulate with a good follicle naturally and I guess I thought that the IUI would be all I ever needed. Do you mind if I ask what he explained to you about being better on the timing and how the clomid would help you seeing as your body seems to be working naturally on its own. We just did IUI #2 on friday and next month we will be possibly doing one without a trigger shot next month just for the fact that nick will be due to be home from a work trip on CD 15 which is when we have done the IUI the last 2 times and thats a friday so we will have to wait till monday and then see if I havent ovulated naturally. I kinda feel the same way as lamp that im worried about spending so much time and as much money as an IVF doing IUI's.

Now I dont know if any clinics offer this but there is a program that I will have to look up again but the offer a IVF guarrenty. The clinic that is 3 hours away with us gives you 2 IVF cycles for $11,000 and if your not preggo after that then you get 80% of your money back. I have been wondering latley if maybe i should look into this. Then part of me thinks well im jumping to soon and I should give the IUI more times. We are very lucky that the IUI does not cost us alot of money a month. Heck who knows, but if you get a chance I would really like to see what your doctor told you about adding clomid <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

 

[Asexyblond23]

kristen,

I guess im kinda shocked to hear that they want to put you on clomid when you are having a good follicle and ovulation on your own. I am in the same boat as you, can ovulate with a good follicle naturally and I guess I thought that the IUI would be all I ever needed. Do you mind if I ask what he explained to you about being better on the timing and how the clomid would help you seeing as your body seems to be working naturally on its own. We just did IUI #2 on friday and next month we will be possibly doing one without a trigger shot next month just for the fact that nick will be due to be home from a work trip on CD 15 which is when we have done the IUI the last 2 times and thats a friday so we will have to wait till monday and then see if I havent ovulated naturally. I kinda feel the same way as lamp that im worried about spending so much time and as much money as an IVF doing IUI's.

Now I dont know if any clinics offer this but there is a program that I will have to look up again but the offer a IVF guarrenty. The clinic that is 3 hours away with us gives you 2 IVF cycles for $11,000 and if your not preggo after that then you get 80% of your money back. I have been wondering latley if maybe i should look into this. Then part of me thinks well im jumping to soon and I should give the IUI more times. We are very lucky that the IUI does not cost us alot of money a month. Heck who knows, but if you get a chance I would really like to see what your doctor told you about adding clomid <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

 

[Asexyblond23]

kristen,
<br />
<br />I guess im kinda shocked to hear that they want to put you on clomid when you are having a good follicle and ovulation on your own. I am in the same boat as you, can ovulate with a good follicle naturally and I guess I thought that the IUI would be all I ever needed. Do you mind if I ask what he explained to you about being better on the timing and how the clomid would help you seeing as your body seems to be working naturally on its own. We just did IUI #2 on friday and next month we will be possibly doing one without a trigger shot next month just for the fact that nick will be due to be home from a work trip on CD 15 which is when we have done the IUI the last 2 times and thats a friday so we will have to wait till monday and then see if I havent ovulated naturally. I kinda feel the same way as lamp that im worried about spending so much time and as much money as an IVF doing IUI's.
<br />
<br />Now I dont know if any clinics offer this but there is a program that I will have to look up again but the offer a IVF guarrenty. The clinic that is 3 hours away with us gives you 2 IVF cycles for $11,000 and if your not preggo after that then you get 80% of your money back. I have been wondering latley if maybe i should look into this. Then part of me thinks well im jumping to soon and I should give the IUI more times. We are very lucky that the IUI does not cost us alot of money a month. Heck who knows, but if you get a chance I would really like to see what your doctor told you about adding clomid <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

 

[Kristen]

Erin, thanks for the advice, and Good Luck to you!! I hope this is your cycle.

Alisha, I don't really understand completely why he wants to put me on Clomid other than the whole "more control" thing more eggs. I've have heard Clomid may help with egg quality, and that some studies have shown a higher rate of success for Clomid + IUI compared to natural IUIs. The more egg part is a little nerve-wracking, but considering the HOM rate is less than 1%, we have decided to give it a try.

And I hear you guys on just going to IVF. If several cycles of Clomid don't work, we may head down that road. I don't know if we are willing to take the chance of HOM with injectibles (5% rate of triplets!).

 

[Kristen]

Erin, thanks for the advice, and Good Luck to you!! I hope this is your cycle.

Alisha, I don't really understand completely why he wants to put me on Clomid other than the whole "more control" thing more eggs. I've have heard Clomid may help with egg quality, and that some studies have shown a higher rate of success for Clomid + IUI compared to natural IUIs. The more egg part is a little nerve-wracking, but considering the HOM rate is less than 1%, we have decided to give it a try.

And I hear you guys on just going to IVF. If several cycles of Clomid don't work, we may head down that road. I don't know if we are willing to take the chance of HOM with injectibles (5% rate of triplets!).

 

[Kristen]

Erin, thanks for the advice, and Good Luck to you!! I hope this is your cycle.

Alisha, I don't really understand completely why he wants to put me on Clomid other than the whole "more control" thing more eggs. I've have heard Clomid may help with egg quality, and that some studies have shown a higher rate of success for Clomid + IUI compared to natural IUIs. The more egg part is a little nerve-wracking, but considering the HOM rate is less than 1%, we have decided to give it a try.

And I hear you guys on just going to IVF. If several cycles of Clomid don't work, we may head down that road. I don't know if we are willing to take the chance of HOM with injectibles (5% rate of triplets!).

 

[Kristen]

Erin, thanks for the advice, and Good Luck to you!! I hope this is your cycle.

Alisha, I don't really understand completely why he wants to put me on Clomid other than the whole "more control" thing more eggs. I've have heard Clomid may help with egg quality, and that some studies have shown a higher rate of success for Clomid + IUI compared to natural IUIs. The more egg part is a little nerve-wracking, but considering the HOM rate is less than 1%, we have decided to give it a try.

And I hear you guys on just going to IVF. If several cycles of Clomid don't work, we may head down that road. I don't know if we are willing to take the chance of HOM with injectibles (5% rate of triplets!).

 

[Kristen]

Erin, thanks for the advice, and Good Luck to you!! I hope this is your cycle.
<br />
<br />Alisha, I don't really understand completely why he wants to put me on Clomid other than the whole "more control" thing more eggs. I've have heard Clomid may help with egg quality, and that some studies have shown a higher rate of success for Clomid + IUI compared to natural IUIs. The more egg part is a little nerve-wracking, but considering the HOM rate is less than 1%, we have decided to give it a try.
<br />
<br />And I hear you guys on just going to IVF. If several cycles of Clomid don't work, we may head down that road. I don't know if we are willing to take the chance of HOM with injectibles (5% rate of triplets!).

 

[mom2lillian]

Kristen-the increased quality of eggs and the higher hormones can give you a better lininig etc. I used clomid/femara and then we did US and if there were more than 2-3 good ones we did not do the cycle. The normal progression would be IUI, then with clomid or injectables, then IVF if there are no results.

Wishing you the best of luck and that your daughter takes every precaution possible.

 

[mom2lillian]

Kristen-the increased quality of eggs and the higher hormones can give you a better lininig etc. I used clomid/femara and then we did US and if there were more than 2-3 good ones we did not do the cycle. The normal progression would be IUI, then with clomid or injectables, then IVF if there are no results.

Wishing you the best of luck and that your daughter takes every precaution possible.

 

[mom2lillian]

Kristen-the increased quality of eggs and the higher hormones can give you a better lininig etc. I used clomid/femara and then we did US and if there were more than 2-3 good ones we did not do the cycle. The normal progression would be IUI, then with clomid or injectables, then IVF if there are no results.

Wishing you the best of luck and that your daughter takes every precaution possible.

 

[mom2lillian]

Kristen-the increased quality of eggs and the higher hormones can give you a better lininig etc. I used clomid/femara and then we did US and if there were more than 2-3 good ones we did not do the cycle. The normal progression would be IUI, then with clomid or injectables, then IVF if there are no results.

Wishing you the best of luck and that your daughter takes every precaution possible.

 

[mom2lillian]

Kristen-the increased quality of eggs and the higher hormones can give you a better lininig etc. I used clomid/femara and then we did US and if there were more than 2-3 good ones we did not do the cycle. The normal progression would be IUI, then with clomid or injectables, then IVF if there are no results.
<br />
<br />Wishing you the best of luck and that your daughter takes every precaution possible.