We talked last night and decided to not put anything back on Kim at all. If we are not happy with our children's health then we will take it upon ourselves to do what we have to do as a family to get it taken care of. Act as if we had all four children 24/7 instead of just on the weekends. I haven't made any appointments in the past as to not undermine the "mothers authority" but from here on out I will.
Alyssa had an appointment yesterday and the doctor did say it was probably allergies but is sending her back to the ent specialist to find out why her surgery last november has not helped her other symptoms. So, hopefully we will have some answers soon and Alyssa will finally have some relief.
My whole argument on her side is I KNOW it is not fun to be sick for even a day, how would it feel to be sick all day everyday for over a year. It must be miserable. I would never let my child go thru that without searching for answers. I am not the real mother of these two children but I will step up and act like it if their mom can't. Jeff was sort of relieved to hear me say that we just deal with it between the two of us and not rely on Kim to get it done. He hates talking to her anyways. Haha! So, thanks for the suggestions guys. Problem solved.
