I HAVE A GUY QUESTION,,,U GUYS,WHAT DO U THINK???I HAVE BEEN SEEING SOMEONE FOR ABOUT 4 MONTHS NOW, AND WE SEE EACH OTHER ONCE A WEEK OR SO GIVE OR TAKE....WELL THIS PAST WEEKEND WE WENT TO A BASKETBALL GAME, AND HAD A REALLY GOOD EVENING......AND TODAY IS THURSDAY, AND I SAW HIM LAST FRIDAY/ SATURDAY...HE TOLD ME AS I WAS WALKING OUT THE DOOR, " I WILL GIVE YOU A CALL IN A COUPLE OF DAYS, WELL IT HAS BEEN 5 DAYS NOW. I HAVEN'T CALLED HIM, USUALLY I AM THE CHUMP AND ALWAYS GIVE IN AND CALL BUT I AM TRYING MY BEST NOT TO. ANY SUGGESTIONS? WHAT DO YOU GUYS THINK???I KNOW THAT A GUYS IDEA OF A COUPLE OF DAYS TO THEM IS TWO WEEKS, AND WHEN A GIRL SAYS SHE WILL CALL IN TWO DAYS, WE CALL IN TWO DAYS... THIS GUY IS SPECIAL TO ME, AND I DON'T KNOW IF THE FEELING IS MUTUAL, ALTHOUGH WHEN WERE TOGETHER, I ENJOY HIM SO MUCH. PLEASE RESPOND!!
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WHAT SHOULD I DO?????????
- Thread starter anonymous
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whatever you do, dont call him. keep waiting until he calls. if its been over 7 days then call him and have a really good discussion about where the relationship is going. i dont want to upset you but to be honest ive found that when youve got a somewhat solid relationship with a guy and he doesnt call for 5 days or more without a REALLY good reason, it usually means the end. guys usually begin the process of forgetting about you before they decide to end the relationship <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-mad.gif" border="0">
I'm married now, but I feel for you. I remember those days. The guys don't call, don't call, then show up at your door at 2-3 a.m. after a night out on the town wanting you-know-what. That really used to make me mad and very non-interested! Please understand that I'm not insinuating that you even are involved in you-know-what, but your post just brought up some old memories that I'm glad are a part of my past.
If it were me, I wouldn't call and if he doesn't ever call, just remember there are millions of other guys out there<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-tongue.gif" border="0">
If it were me, I wouldn't call and if he doesn't ever call, just remember there are millions of other guys out there<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-tongue.gif" border="0">
HEY GUYS , THANKS FOR THERESPONSES...TODAY IS FRIDAY, AND LAST NIGHT I TURNED MY PHONE OFF, WELL THIS MORNING WHEN I TURNED MY PHONE ON I HAD A MESSAGE FROM HIM. HE WANTS TO SEE ME SUNDAY , OR NEXT WEEK, AND HE SAID HE HAS BEEN BUSY....WELL,,,,,,, I HAVE BEEN BUSY TOO SO HEL'L GET A CALL IN A DAY OR SO..... TWO CAN PLAY, AND BELIEVE ME I AM NOT INTO GAMES, BUT I REFUSE TO BE AT ANYONE'S BEACON CALL.......THANKS FOR THE SUGGESTIONS YOU GUYS.... MUCH APPRECIATED!
Emily65Roses
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Heh.
WOW...................................................................................................................... IS ALL I HAVE TO SAY ABOUT THAT COMMENT, I THINK U NEED TO READ A LITTLE MORE "CAREFULLY" WHAT I WROTE BEFORE YOU SAY SOMETHING SO STUPID AND RIDICULOUS....THANKS!!!
princessgiggles
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Personally, i think because YOU'RE GOING OUT WITH THE GUY, you should call him and say "What's the deal!?!" First give him a chance to explain his behaviour cos for all you know someone could be sick or have died (God forbid) in the family, but if it's not good enough you tell him so, don't let him think he can treat you like that! If he continues afterwards to treat you like that you know what ya have to do, "See Ya Later!" I know it hurts i've been in that situation the only difference was the guy i was seeing was always playin sports n i was second choice but it wasn't good enough, so guess what i did, that's right "See Ya Later!" It hurt like hell but i got over it, he didn't though n just the other night he told me he regreted so much losing me but i had to do it for my own self-respect.
Good luck, darlin!
Good luck, darlin!
princessgiggles
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oops didn't see the reply, damn! sfter all that!!!! be careful!
I agree about the playing comment, it's fun sure, but if you really care about the guy and want to have a potentially serious relationship-don't start playing games now just because you felt he did. Maybe he was nervous to call you, Maybe he REALLY was busy, maybe he lost your number and spend 6 days looking for it.... you never really know but you should ask him what that was all about if you care about him. But if you start doing this, "he waited 5 days to call me, I'll wait 3 to call him back S**t" you two probably aren't going to go too far. Now, if you are just dating and playing, and dating a number of people, then whatever. But you say you really care about this guy, from your posts it doesn't really sound like you are mature enough to handle this rioght now.
Those are just my thoughts, also, don't be so rude and snappy to people you asked for opinions and we are just giving them. Nobody said you had to agree with everyone's suggestions and comments but don't ask a question if you aren't ready for the answer.
Those are just my thoughts, also, don't be so rude and snappy to people you asked for opinions and we are just giving them. Nobody said you had to agree with everyone's suggestions and comments but don't ask a question if you aren't ready for the answer.