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adamsants

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My husband's brother was the same way. When Adam would go into the hospital he just would not show up or call. So he was not allowed into our home because of that reason. After a few years of that he finally came to the hospital after one of Adam's stays and all is well. We just don't bring it up (maybe that is wrong), but the past is the past i figure those that don't show up will have missed the chance to really know Adam and that is their loss not mine. Saying that life is to short for me to worry about others coming to see him or call him I have to worry about him and to heck with the others. My sister is the same way i just call her and tell her to get her butt to the hospital and stay for a few minutes just to show support. Maybe your daughter needs to call her brother and tell him what she feels and leave it at that. it will have to be his move next.
 
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adamsants

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My husband's brother was the same way. When Adam would go into the hospital he just would not show up or call. So he was not allowed into our home because of that reason. After a few years of that he finally came to the hospital after one of Adam's stays and all is well. We just don't bring it up (maybe that is wrong), but the past is the past i figure those that don't show up will have missed the chance to really know Adam and that is their loss not mine. Saying that life is to short for me to worry about others coming to see him or call him I have to worry about him and to heck with the others. My sister is the same way i just call her and tell her to get her butt to the hospital and stay for a few minutes just to show support. Maybe your daughter needs to call her brother and tell him what she feels and leave it at that. it will have to be his move next.
 
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adamsants

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My husband's brother was the same way. When Adam would go into the hospital he just would not show up or call. So he was not allowed into our home because of that reason. After a few years of that he finally came to the hospital after one of Adam's stays and all is well. We just don't bring it up (maybe that is wrong), but the past is the past i figure those that don't show up will have missed the chance to really know Adam and that is their loss not mine. Saying that life is to short for me to worry about others coming to see him or call him I have to worry about him and to heck with the others. My sister is the same way i just call her and tell her to get her butt to the hospital and stay for a few minutes just to show support. Maybe your daughter needs to call her brother and tell him what she feels and leave it at that. it will have to be his move next.
 
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adamsants

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My husband's brother was the same way. When Adam would go into the hospital he just would not show up or call. So he was not allowed into our home because of that reason. After a few years of that he finally came to the hospital after one of Adam's stays and all is well. We just don't bring it up (maybe that is wrong), but the past is the past i figure those that don't show up will have missed the chance to really know Adam and that is their loss not mine. Saying that life is to short for me to worry about others coming to see him or call him I have to worry about him and to heck with the others. My sister is the same way i just call her and tell her to get her butt to the hospital and stay for a few minutes just to show support. Maybe your daughter needs to call her brother and tell him what she feels and leave it at that. it will have to be his move next.
 
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adamsants

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<br />My husband's brother was the same way. When Adam would go into the hospital he just would not show up or call. So he was not allowed into our home because of that reason. After a few years of that he finally came to the hospital after one of Adam's stays and all is well. We just don't bring it up (maybe that is wrong), but the past is the past i figure those that don't show up will have missed the chance to really know Adam and that is their loss not mine. Saying that life is to short for me to worry about others coming to see him or call him I have to worry about him and to heck with the others. My sister is the same way i just call her and tell her to get her butt to the hospital and stay for a few minutes just to show support. Maybe your daughter needs to call her brother and tell him what she feels and leave it at that. it will have to be his move next.
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NanaOf8Girls

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i want to thank you for helping me with this. I think it is a good idea for Tiffany to talk to her brother and tell him how she feels. So far i think i am the only one she has confided this too and it is not fair to him either that he doesn't know how she feels. I think its unfair to both of them to not know how the other feels. Thanks again i will be talking to my daughter and letting her know what all of you have experienced and said. I hope she does open up to her brother and tell him how she feels. Plus i really don't think she would turn anyone away if they did come I think that is her hurt talking right now. I also wanted to say that you might be right about the guilt feelings. He has a tender heart<img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0"> and he might feel guilty having a healthly daughter. My youngest son and his wife said that they are greatful and thank God for their healthly daughter and would do anything to help his sister.
 
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NanaOf8Girls

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i want to thank you for helping me with this. I think it is a good idea for Tiffany to talk to her brother and tell him how she feels. So far i think i am the only one she has confided this too and it is not fair to him either that he doesn't know how she feels. I think its unfair to both of them to not know how the other feels. Thanks again i will be talking to my daughter and letting her know what all of you have experienced and said. I hope she does open up to her brother and tell him how she feels. Plus i really don't think she would turn anyone away if they did come I think that is her hurt talking right now. I also wanted to say that you might be right about the guilt feelings. He has a tender heart<img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0"> and he might feel guilty having a healthly daughter. My youngest son and his wife said that they are greatful and thank God for their healthly daughter and would do anything to help his sister.
 
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NanaOf8Girls

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i want to thank you for helping me with this. I think it is a good idea for Tiffany to talk to her brother and tell him how she feels. So far i think i am the only one she has confided this too and it is not fair to him either that he doesn't know how she feels. I think its unfair to both of them to not know how the other feels. Thanks again i will be talking to my daughter and letting her know what all of you have experienced and said. I hope she does open up to her brother and tell him how she feels. Plus i really don't think she would turn anyone away if they did come I think that is her hurt talking right now. I also wanted to say that you might be right about the guilt feelings. He has a tender heart<img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0"> and he might feel guilty having a healthly daughter. My youngest son and his wife said that they are greatful and thank God for their healthly daughter and would do anything to help his sister.
 
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NanaOf8Girls

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i want to thank you for helping me with this. I think it is a good idea for Tiffany to talk to her brother and tell him how she feels. So far i think i am the only one she has confided this too and it is not fair to him either that he doesn't know how she feels. I think its unfair to both of them to not know how the other feels. Thanks again i will be talking to my daughter and letting her know what all of you have experienced and said. I hope she does open up to her brother and tell him how she feels. Plus i really don't think she would turn anyone away if they did come I think that is her hurt talking right now. I also wanted to say that you might be right about the guilt feelings. He has a tender heart<img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0"> and he might feel guilty having a healthly daughter. My youngest son and his wife said that they are greatful and thank God for their healthly daughter and would do anything to help his sister.
 
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NanaOf8Girls

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i want to thank you for helping me with this. I think it is a good idea for Tiffany to talk to her brother and tell him how she feels. So far i think i am the only one she has confided this too and it is not fair to him either that he doesn't know how she feels. I think its unfair to both of them to not know how the other feels. Thanks again i will be talking to my daughter and letting her know what all of you have experienced and said. I hope she does open up to her brother and tell him how she feels. Plus i really don't think she would turn anyone away if they did come I think that is her hurt talking right now. I also wanted to say that you might be right about the guilt feelings. He has a tender heart<img src="i/expressions/heart.gif" border="0"> and he might feel guilty having a healthly daughter. My youngest son and his wife said that they are greatful and thank God for their healthly daughter and would do anything to help his sister.
 
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