Amen to the average CFer or CFer's parents/caregiver being well above average with regard to knowledge about everything CF including the respective CFer's response to the treatment for her/his current issues. Doctors and nurses are often astonished by my data packet I attach to the forms you get at all first appointments or any outpatient treatment. We average something like 12 prescribed medications, 6 to 10 supplements and most of us have a longer than usual list of allergies, in part because we have been lifetime guinea pigs. These days I attach my doctors list which is getting long enough to be necessary.
Undoubtedly there are worse conditions that requires considerable time and attention but a few weeks ago I was at a new hospital filling out forms. Not my fault/problem that they won't scan in my neatly typed lists. What is uncommon for the medical techs are getting complete listing of our doctors. As if doctors bother to call another doctor treating you.
Unlike most people being hospitalised, we are often about as close as possible to being professional patients and we know what works and generally what doesn't fly during a stay. I don't want or need my life regulated anymore than required. I'm a good patient for the most part. I'm sure many CFers are great patients up to a point. We owe it to our nurses to forewarn them of any concerns before they become a point of conflict.
I will tolerate a lot but we are hospitalised when we can't control pain, need help with hydration and nutrition, and infection that is serious, requiring close monitoring, treatment and potentiallysupplemental oxygen. If pain control is marginal, thanks to the doctor treating me, getting my medication on time is paramount. Bad service is not a big deal until pain is the price. I understand overworked and understaffed but my money doesn't have any problems. To that end, I try to express any problems with my services when hospitalised with the right person. Most hospitals have patient's advocates that will get to the root of the issue. These are big guns for small problems. It would be overkill for something that could be resolved with the floor nurse in charge.
New nurses are often dedicated and nurturing healers. Too often people don't know that they aren't the health police, it's important to reassure patients they are there to help. Nurses in turn can make a difference by simply telling patients that they are there for you and encouraging them to call if they need anything. My ENT is a very busy and brilliant pioneer in robotic surgery. He gives me his card, complete with his cell phone number. It's a great feeling, at the same time, my nose would have to be on fire before I'd call him. My guess is he gives out the same card to nearly all patients and we all feel the same way. It's brilliant.
LL