So, dating has always been kind of tough for me. I am 25 years old and have had a few (3) serious girlfriends. By serious I mean 1+ years of being together.
I was ready to marry the first one - whom I dating from senior year of high school until just before my last semester of college. When we broke up, I found out she was not ok with my CF and this has probably turned me sour. It really broke me at the time.
After her, I dated someone who was great about my CF... She always wanted to know more, never prodded too much - even asked (just once) to come to my routine visits because she genuinely cared. Needless to say, this relationship didnt work out for other reasons.
My last relationship, although she was "ok" with my CF I dont really think she grasped the issue completely ... She was younger than I by age and maturity.
I am (thankfully) very healthy. Have only had one tune-up ever and it was not necessary...It didn't help. I have routine visits 4 times a year. That's it, other than daily treatments I live very normally but I am very aware (and ok with) what will come in the future.
SO now I find myself in a very odd place - I don't know when or how to tell a girl I am seeing, or want to start seeing seriously about my CF.
On one hand I always think abou saying something in the early stages, getting it out of the way. On the other, I want to see if things even progress to a stage where my CF becomes an issue. On top of all that, I never know how to bring it up, what to say, etc....
I was ready to marry the first one - whom I dating from senior year of high school until just before my last semester of college. When we broke up, I found out she was not ok with my CF and this has probably turned me sour. It really broke me at the time.
After her, I dated someone who was great about my CF... She always wanted to know more, never prodded too much - even asked (just once) to come to my routine visits because she genuinely cared. Needless to say, this relationship didnt work out for other reasons.
My last relationship, although she was "ok" with my CF I dont really think she grasped the issue completely ... She was younger than I by age and maturity.
I am (thankfully) very healthy. Have only had one tune-up ever and it was not necessary...It didn't help. I have routine visits 4 times a year. That's it, other than daily treatments I live very normally but I am very aware (and ok with) what will come in the future.
SO now I find myself in a very odd place - I don't know when or how to tell a girl I am seeing, or want to start seeing seriously about my CF.
On one hand I always think abou saying something in the early stages, getting it out of the way. On the other, I want to see if things even progress to a stage where my CF becomes an issue. On top of all that, I never know how to bring it up, what to say, etc....