Ahh, the battle of the mind.
I am going through this now. Although I'm not bed-ridden sick, I know I'm on the downward trend, headed for a tune-up. Somedays I feel better than others, somedays I feel worse. Do I go in now, or can I wait? I'm not "congested" but I can feel the low-grade fevers sneaking up on me, my appetite is going down...
It's a difficult thing, even for me who isn't afraid to say "I need help" but yet is not a drama queen (and call the dr's informing them with every other nautious day). It's a balancing act we have to play. The fact is: we are always "sick"....it's just "to what degree"
Too many a/b's aren't good, not getting them in time isn't good.
Perhaps your husband is just trying not to over exagerate, and wait it out. I do that. But while I'm doing that, my husband tends to get overly concerned and starts planning my trip to the hospital.
And, perhaps remind him: Waiting, in certain cases (like if it's not stomach related, but lung related), can cause more damage. It's important we don't lie to ourselves, and learn where our cut-off is. It's a guessing game, even for the doctors - we just try to do our best.
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