Mockingbird
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<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>wannastayanonymous</b></i>
Well I see who I really am again.
Not who I wish I was, or who I dream to be.
Not only am I the guy who has something wrong with him, and can't stay healthy at work, but now I have commited my partner in all of this to deal with this disease in a way they have never had to. It is all too real now. No escape, just C flipping F.
No need to console me here. Just needed to vent my thoughts.</end quote></div>
Sorry, but you're not that special just because you have CF. Everyone has something wrong with them, CF or not, and everyone brings their own load of crap into every relationship they get into. My advice is to get over yourself and allow your partner to shoulder your burden. And then, when you've gotten over yourself, maybe you'll be able to help your partner with her burdens as well. That's what a relationship is, not being self-absorbed about your own burden, but bearing each other's burdens.
Well I see who I really am again.
Not who I wish I was, or who I dream to be.
Not only am I the guy who has something wrong with him, and can't stay healthy at work, but now I have commited my partner in all of this to deal with this disease in a way they have never had to. It is all too real now. No escape, just C flipping F.
No need to console me here. Just needed to vent my thoughts.</end quote></div>
Sorry, but you're not that special just because you have CF. Everyone has something wrong with them, CF or not, and everyone brings their own load of crap into every relationship they get into. My advice is to get over yourself and allow your partner to shoulder your burden. And then, when you've gotten over yourself, maybe you'll be able to help your partner with her burdens as well. That's what a relationship is, not being self-absorbed about your own burden, but bearing each other's burdens.