Well, we decided to bend. Thanks for all of the comments...They did help me decide to let him see the movie. I have watched the trailor on my computer and I know it is going to be a violent movie. My husband and I have always tried to make the best decisions for our kids. I'm not sure this decision is the best, but I do think that once in a while you have to bend the rules and let kids make their own decisions. It will be interesting to hear what Andrew has to say after the movie. The teenage years are going to be filled with these moments...what to allow, what not to allow. Boy, I'm not ready for this! The grow up so fast!