Oh wow Sara!..I thought it was just me! I am so glad you posted
this. This has been a HUGE problem for me. I was a virgin until
about 2 yrs ago, when I began dating my current BF. I began
taking Yasmin the BCpill a week or so before. So, I don't know how
my drive is when I am not on the pill, but I thought before taking
it that it was okay. I mean I actually WANTED to do it, but since I
started the pill and sex at the same time I have nothing to compare
my drive to. I just assumed I was a freak of nature who didn't care
much about sex or that I just didn't like it. I never thought about
it being related to BC, my CF/ CF meds or anything. I have ALWAYS
been so dry and I get irritated really easily to the point that
it's painful to do it, even with lubricant. I thought maybe I have
an allergy to latex or something. I feel horrible for my BF,
because we don't do it anymore and I know he wants to so badly. I
told him I wanted to wait until marriage, because I had always
planned to (before I met him) and maybe the reason I didn't
like doing it was because I felt like I was doing something wrong.
But, I am relived (yet frustrated and disappointed) that I may have
a reason for my lack of interest in sex. It's just one more thing
CF may be starring as the evil villain in.