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would this annoy you?
- Thread starter kybert
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If you care for this friend then tell her how you feel. If you tell her off, I doubt she will remain your friend. Do you think she really wanted to hurt you? I have some friends who just do not understand and say stupid things. I tell them to think before they speak and to try and understand how I might see the situation. Please do not think for me. Ask me first and then we can work things out.
I hope you get to enjoy the day.
I hope you get to enjoy the day.
If you care for this friend then tell her how you feel. If you tell her off, I doubt she will remain your friend. Do you think she really wanted to hurt you? I have some friends who just do not understand and say stupid things. I tell them to think before they speak and to try and understand how I might see the situation. Please do not think for me. Ask me first and then we can work things out.
I hope you get to enjoy the day.
I hope you get to enjoy the day.
If you care for this friend then tell her how you feel. If you tell her off, I doubt she will remain your friend. Do you think she really wanted to hurt you? I have some friends who just do not understand and say stupid things. I tell them to think before they speak and to try and understand how I might see the situation. Please do not think for me. Ask me first and then we can work things out.
I hope you get to enjoy the day.
I hope you get to enjoy the day.
M
MCGrad2006
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I totally agree. Your friend has no right to do that to you. It your decision whether you use it as an excuse and thus tell ppl about it. You should def talk to her and tell her how you feel. If not she will just do it again.
M
MCGrad2006
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I totally agree. Your friend has no right to do that to you. It your decision whether you use it as an excuse and thus tell ppl about it. You should def talk to her and tell her how you feel. If not she will just do it again.
M
MCGrad2006
Guest
I totally agree. Your friend has no right to do that to you. It your decision whether you use it as an excuse and thus tell ppl about it. You should def talk to her and tell her how you feel. If not she will just do it again.
I agree with Risa on this one, take it easy on her, she was just trying to get you into the place, but admittedly she chose the wrong way. It's impossible for anybody who doesn't have a chronic illness to know how we feel about these things and how sensitive/proud we are. Tell her thanks and you understand she was only trying to help, then slap her hard!!! Tell her you have your pride, you are not a charity case EVER and that in future if anybody finds out about your illness it will be from your own lips. Oh dear i'm glad you're not going to go, bugger that!!! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-disgusted.gif" border="0">
I agree with Risa on this one, take it easy on her, she was just trying to get you into the place, but admittedly she chose the wrong way. It's impossible for anybody who doesn't have a chronic illness to know how we feel about these things and how sensitive/proud we are. Tell her thanks and you understand she was only trying to help, then slap her hard!!! Tell her you have your pride, you are not a charity case EVER and that in future if anybody finds out about your illness it will be from your own lips. Oh dear i'm glad you're not going to go, bugger that!!! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-disgusted.gif" border="0">
I agree with Risa on this one, take it easy on her, she was just trying to get you into the place, but admittedly she chose the wrong way. It's impossible for anybody who doesn't have a chronic illness to know how we feel about these things and how sensitive/proud we are. Tell her thanks and you understand she was only trying to help, then slap her hard!!! Tell her you have your pride, you are not a charity case EVER and that in future if anybody finds out about your illness it will be from your own lips. Oh dear i'm glad you're not going to go, bugger that!!! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-disgusted.gif" border="0">
Same here...I think I would be upset even if she had good intentions. I don't think I have used my disease to get special priveliges unless I had too, such as needing handicapped seating for my wheelchair. For those types of things, I have to let people know ahead of time so that they can accomdate me. As far as my CF, no. Set her down and tell her why that was wrong, hopefully she will get the point and not do that to you again. Hugs, jenn <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
Same here...I think I would be upset even if she had good intentions. I don't think I have used my disease to get special priveliges unless I had too, such as needing handicapped seating for my wheelchair. For those types of things, I have to let people know ahead of time so that they can accomdate me. As far as my CF, no. Set her down and tell her why that was wrong, hopefully she will get the point and not do that to you again. Hugs, jenn <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
Same here...I think I would be upset even if she had good intentions. I don't think I have used my disease to get special priveliges unless I had too, such as needing handicapped seating for my wheelchair. For those types of things, I have to let people know ahead of time so that they can accomdate me. As far as my CF, no. Set her down and tell her why that was wrong, hopefully she will get the point and not do that to you again. Hugs, jenn <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">