Craig had his bloods drawn a couple of weeks ago. He goes for his x-ray and scan next week, we have had to break up the day as he too was having a hard time getting blood.
This time however, his own CF doctor took the blood (something that he always wanted to avoid)and he got it first time as much as was needed.
Before sometimes it would take them 4 or 5 times to get it in and draw blood. I always had craig straddle me and I held him as tight while they stretched out his arm or leg. After 30 mins of him screaming I would be in tears with him it was so difficult.
Thiss time, with the cream, he was laid down on bed and held down, very strongly and the blood draw took only 5 mins if that. Yes he sreamed, but it was because he was being held down and it was only 5 mins. I would suggest this as a course of action.
As for the hand washing, with you on this one. You are talking about health care professionals, I'm pretty sure that they can take being told to wash their hands, afterall they should know of the dangers, the only thing you are doing is embaressing them (if they havn't washed their hands)
Craig