having had a port for a year and 10 months now, i'm all for it. it's much easier that looking for another vein to poke every couple of days. and as long as noone hits you hard at the exact spot where it's placed, it's fine <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> i mean, mine survived physical activities, tight hugs, sex, basically your average life of a young woman, and it's all good. the only thing is that because of the way it's placed, it gets uncomfy if i wear a bra that's too tight, but (A)i just wear more loose bras [not 34D but 36D] and (B)your daughter being just 6 years old, she doesn't have the bra issue on her plate yet <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> it does look fine, it's just a bump under the skin, as soon as you explain what it is it's amusing for everybody - all my friends had seen it and made jokes of this being my third nipple. it even made me unique in a hospital ward once because there were many girls my age and it was like, lois has this cool thing <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">