10 Year old not wanting to do treatments

Nightwriter

New member
I want to preface my comments by saying I don't know what the protocol is for symptomless people. And I am big on preventative care when it especially comes to preventing and reducing inflammation/and future infections. But I would like to raise a few questions about Stacia because of a few things that you mentioned.

Are you saying she has absolutely NO lung involvement? What about sinus problems? Infections? Post nasal drip? Any asthma or allergy testing? I guess I am wondering why they have her using the vest. The vest is to dislodge mucus and help bring it up. I am not saying she doesn't need it, but I am wondering about this. Are they doing anything or advising you on how to keep inflammation down, so that she doesn't "get" lung issues? Have they said anything or prescribed anything for inflammation? When she uses the vest, does anything come up? Does the vest do anything for her according to the doctors and what?

I guess I raise these questions because I went to a CF clinic for the first time last year (my insurance required it) and I was dismayed by their cookie cutter approach. Everyone no matter what their symptoms or tests showed received the same protocol. Many of things they were suggesting for me did not fit and when I asked my doctor about their suggestions for me -- she agreed with ME. She has me on an anti-inflammatory protocol which was working well.

Some examples: They told me to start taking added salt. I asked if there was a way they could tell if I am deficient. Was there a test for this? They told me that I could look at my blood test. I knew my blood test showed my salt to be completely normal. So that cookie cutter advice was wrong for me.

They told me to take Zithromax 3 times a week. That also seemed wrong for me. I hadn't even been on any antibiotic in a very long time and my inflammation (because of all that I do) was greatly reduced. My doctor said this would have been wrong for ME. But if I were doing poorly, you bet she'd give me Zithromax. And my big question was if someone takes Zithromax all the time (and unnecessarily) doesn't staph become resistant to it? The answer is yes.

They wanted me to gain weight because according to the chart, I was underweight. I actually watch my weight (can gain easily) and maintain a weight that is healthy for me. And again, my health was very stable.

When I finally spoke to the doctor at the clinic, I voiced my concerns, saying that none of these things seemed right for me -- and he said he understood. I told him everything that I did to keep inflammation down and he was open-minded.

The other question that is in my mind is this. I didn't have any symptoms until I was 21 -- a post nasal drip that should have been dealt with and wasn't. But I wonder now, if they had genetic tests back in those days -- would they have me on hours of treatments when I exhibited no symptoms whatsoever. For me, I wish I knew about environmental/dietary contributors. Because I became sick only after I was exposed to Formaldehyde for a year in my college classes.

I wish they would do a study on people who become symptomatic later -- was there anything different preceding onset of symptoms. I have noticed in many people's stories, they moved, or got sick after a bonfire, and I could see certain triggers.

Again, please don't take this as medical advice in any way. I am not an expert at all. Just some thoughts and maybe things to ask your doctor about.
 

Nightwriter

New member
I want to preface my comments by saying I don't know what the protocol is for symptomless people. And I am big on preventative care when it especially comes to preventing and reducing inflammation/and future infections. But I would like to raise a few questions about Stacia because of a few things that you mentioned.

Are you saying she has absolutely NO lung involvement? What about sinus problems? Infections? Post nasal drip? Any asthma or allergy testing? I guess I am wondering why they have her using the vest. The vest is to dislodge mucus and help bring it up. I am not saying she doesn't need it, but I am wondering about this. Are they doing anything or advising you on how to keep inflammation down, so that she doesn't "get" lung issues? Have they said anything or prescribed anything for inflammation? When she uses the vest, does anything come up? Does the vest do anything for her according to the doctors and what?

I guess I raise these questions because I went to a CF clinic for the first time last year (my insurance required it) and I was dismayed by their cookie cutter approach. Everyone no matter what their symptoms or tests showed received the same protocol. Many of things they were suggesting for me did not fit and when I asked my doctor about their suggestions for me -- she agreed with ME. She has me on an anti-inflammatory protocol which was working well.

Some examples: They told me to start taking added salt. I asked if there was a way they could tell if I am deficient. Was there a test for this? They told me that I could look at my blood test. I knew my blood test showed my salt to be completely normal. So that cookie cutter advice was wrong for me.

They told me to take Zithromax 3 times a week. That also seemed wrong for me. I hadn't even been on any antibiotic in a very long time and my inflammation (because of all that I do) was greatly reduced. My doctor said this would have been wrong for ME. But if I were doing poorly, you bet she'd give me Zithromax. And my big question was if someone takes Zithromax all the time (and unnecessarily) doesn't staph become resistant to it? The answer is yes.

They wanted me to gain weight because according to the chart, I was underweight. I actually watch my weight (can gain easily) and maintain a weight that is healthy for me. And again, my health was very stable.

When I finally spoke to the doctor at the clinic, I voiced my concerns, saying that none of these things seemed right for me -- and he said he understood. I told him everything that I did to keep inflammation down and he was open-minded.

The other question that is in my mind is this. I didn't have any symptoms until I was 21 -- a post nasal drip that should have been dealt with and wasn't. But I wonder now, if they had genetic tests back in those days -- would they have me on hours of treatments when I exhibited no symptoms whatsoever. For me, I wish I knew about environmental/dietary contributors. Because I became sick only after I was exposed to Formaldehyde for a year in my college classes.

I wish they would do a study on people who become symptomatic later -- was there anything different preceding onset of symptoms. I have noticed in many people's stories, they moved, or got sick after a bonfire, and I could see certain triggers.

Again, please don't take this as medical advice in any way. I am not an expert at all. Just some thoughts and maybe things to ask your doctor about.
 

Nightwriter

New member
I want to preface my comments by saying I don't know what the protocol is for symptomless people. And I am big on preventative care when it especially comes to preventing and reducing inflammation/and future infections. But I would like to raise a few questions about Stacia because of a few things that you mentioned.

Are you saying she has absolutely NO lung involvement? What about sinus problems? Infections? Post nasal drip? Any asthma or allergy testing? I guess I am wondering why they have her using the vest. The vest is to dislodge mucus and help bring it up. I am not saying she doesn't need it, but I am wondering about this. Are they doing anything or advising you on how to keep inflammation down, so that she doesn't "get" lung issues? Have they said anything or prescribed anything for inflammation? When she uses the vest, does anything come up? Does the vest do anything for her according to the doctors and what?

I guess I raise these questions because I went to a CF clinic for the first time last year (my insurance required it) and I was dismayed by their cookie cutter approach. Everyone no matter what their symptoms or tests showed received the same protocol. Many of things they were suggesting for me did not fit and when I asked my doctor about their suggestions for me -- she agreed with ME. She has me on an anti-inflammatory protocol which was working well.

Some examples: They told me to start taking added salt. I asked if there was a way they could tell if I am deficient. Was there a test for this? They told me that I could look at my blood test. I knew my blood test showed my salt to be completely normal. So that cookie cutter advice was wrong for me.

They told me to take Zithromax 3 times a week. That also seemed wrong for me. I hadn't even been on any antibiotic in a very long time and my inflammation (because of all that I do) was greatly reduced. My doctor said this would have been wrong for ME. But if I were doing poorly, you bet she'd give me Zithromax. And my big question was if someone takes Zithromax all the time (and unnecessarily) doesn't staph become resistant to it? The answer is yes.

They wanted me to gain weight because according to the chart, I was underweight. I actually watch my weight (can gain easily) and maintain a weight that is healthy for me. And again, my health was very stable.

When I finally spoke to the doctor at the clinic, I voiced my concerns, saying that none of these things seemed right for me -- and he said he understood. I told him everything that I did to keep inflammation down and he was open-minded.

The other question that is in my mind is this. I didn't have any symptoms until I was 21 -- a post nasal drip that should have been dealt with and wasn't. But I wonder now, if they had genetic tests back in those days -- would they have me on hours of treatments when I exhibited no symptoms whatsoever. For me, I wish I knew about environmental/dietary contributors. Because I became sick only after I was exposed to Formaldehyde for a year in my college classes.

I wish they would do a study on people who become symptomatic later -- was there anything different preceding onset of symptoms. I have noticed in many people's stories, they moved, or got sick after a bonfire, and I could see certain triggers.

Again, please don't take this as medical advice in any way. I am not an expert at all. Just some thoughts and maybe things to ask your doctor about.
 

Nightwriter

New member
I want to preface my comments by saying I don't know what the protocol is for symptomless people. And I am big on preventative care when it especially comes to preventing and reducing inflammation/and future infections. But I would like to raise a few questions about Stacia because of a few things that you mentioned.

Are you saying she has absolutely NO lung involvement? What about sinus problems? Infections? Post nasal drip? Any asthma or allergy testing? I guess I am wondering why they have her using the vest. The vest is to dislodge mucus and help bring it up. I am not saying she doesn't need it, but I am wondering about this. Are they doing anything or advising you on how to keep inflammation down, so that she doesn't "get" lung issues? Have they said anything or prescribed anything for inflammation? When she uses the vest, does anything come up? Does the vest do anything for her according to the doctors and what?

I guess I raise these questions because I went to a CF clinic for the first time last year (my insurance required it) and I was dismayed by their cookie cutter approach. Everyone no matter what their symptoms or tests showed received the same protocol. Many of things they were suggesting for me did not fit and when I asked my doctor about their suggestions for me -- she agreed with ME. She has me on an anti-inflammatory protocol which was working well.

Some examples: They told me to start taking added salt. I asked if there was a way they could tell if I am deficient. Was there a test for this? They told me that I could look at my blood test. I knew my blood test showed my salt to be completely normal. So that cookie cutter advice was wrong for me.

They told me to take Zithromax 3 times a week. That also seemed wrong for me. I hadn't even been on any antibiotic in a very long time and my inflammation (because of all that I do) was greatly reduced. My doctor said this would have been wrong for ME. But if I were doing poorly, you bet she'd give me Zithromax. And my big question was if someone takes Zithromax all the time (and unnecessarily) doesn't staph become resistant to it? The answer is yes.

They wanted me to gain weight because according to the chart, I was underweight. I actually watch my weight (can gain easily) and maintain a weight that is healthy for me. And again, my health was very stable.

When I finally spoke to the doctor at the clinic, I voiced my concerns, saying that none of these things seemed right for me -- and he said he understood. I told him everything that I did to keep inflammation down and he was open-minded.

The other question that is in my mind is this. I didn't have any symptoms until I was 21 -- a post nasal drip that should have been dealt with and wasn't. But I wonder now, if they had genetic tests back in those days -- would they have me on hours of treatments when I exhibited no symptoms whatsoever. For me, I wish I knew about environmental/dietary contributors. Because I became sick only after I was exposed to Formaldehyde for a year in my college classes.

I wish they would do a study on people who become symptomatic later -- was there anything different preceding onset of symptoms. I have noticed in many people's stories, they moved, or got sick after a bonfire, and I could see certain triggers.

Again, please don't take this as medical advice in any way. I am not an expert at all. Just some thoughts and maybe things to ask your doctor about.
 

Nightwriter

New member
I want to preface my comments by saying I don't know what the protocol is for symptomless people. And I am big on preventative care when it especially comes to preventing and reducing inflammation/and future infections. But I would like to raise a few questions about Stacia because of a few things that you mentioned.
<br />
<br />Are you saying she has absolutely NO lung involvement? What about sinus problems? Infections? Post nasal drip? Any asthma or allergy testing? I guess I am wondering why they have her using the vest. The vest is to dislodge mucus and help bring it up. I am not saying she doesn't need it, but I am wondering about this. Are they doing anything or advising you on how to keep inflammation down, so that she doesn't "get" lung issues? Have they said anything or prescribed anything for inflammation? When she uses the vest, does anything come up? Does the vest do anything for her according to the doctors and what?
<br />
<br />I guess I raise these questions because I went to a CF clinic for the first time last year (my insurance required it) and I was dismayed by their cookie cutter approach. Everyone no matter what their symptoms or tests showed received the same protocol. Many of things they were suggesting for me did not fit and when I asked my doctor about their suggestions for me -- she agreed with ME. She has me on an anti-inflammatory protocol which was working well.
<br />
<br />Some examples: They told me to start taking added salt. I asked if there was a way they could tell if I am deficient. Was there a test for this? They told me that I could look at my blood test. I knew my blood test showed my salt to be completely normal. So that cookie cutter advice was wrong for me.
<br />
<br />They told me to take Zithromax 3 times a week. That also seemed wrong for me. I hadn't even been on any antibiotic in a very long time and my inflammation (because of all that I do) was greatly reduced. My doctor said this would have been wrong for ME. But if I were doing poorly, you bet she'd give me Zithromax. And my big question was if someone takes Zithromax all the time (and unnecessarily) doesn't staph become resistant to it? The answer is yes.
<br />
<br />They wanted me to gain weight because according to the chart, I was underweight. I actually watch my weight (can gain easily) and maintain a weight that is healthy for me. And again, my health was very stable.
<br />
<br />When I finally spoke to the doctor at the clinic, I voiced my concerns, saying that none of these things seemed right for me -- and he said he understood. I told him everything that I did to keep inflammation down and he was open-minded.
<br />
<br />The other question that is in my mind is this. I didn't have any symptoms until I was 21 -- a post nasal drip that should have been dealt with and wasn't. But I wonder now, if they had genetic tests back in those days -- would they have me on hours of treatments when I exhibited no symptoms whatsoever. For me, I wish I knew about environmental/dietary contributors. Because I became sick only after I was exposed to Formaldehyde for a year in my college classes.
<br />
<br />I wish they would do a study on people who become symptomatic later -- was there anything different preceding onset of symptoms. I have noticed in many people's stories, they moved, or got sick after a bonfire, and I could see certain triggers.
<br />
<br />Again, please don't take this as medical advice in any way. I am not an expert at all. Just some thoughts and maybe things to ask your doctor about.
 
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welshwitch

Guest
Hi.

Not sure I can offer any solid advice, but wanted to relay my experience with this.

Your daughter sounds EXACTLY like me. No symptoms really except the need to take enzymes.

I'm going to be 30 in November and believe me, I didn't step up to the plate with my CF until I was about 28.

The vest didn't exist when I was younger, but my parents attempted PT until I resisted enough to get out of it. That, and the fact that I was not coughing anything up when they did it. I think perhaps they were comforted by the fact that I was an athlete as a kid and played several competitive sports. They basically stopped forcing me to do any kind of chest PT after I was about 7 or 8.

One of the biggest issues I had was a lack of role models. I didn't have any one to look up to who had CF. I basically just ignored the fact that I had the disease in the first place. My parents tried over the years to make me more responsive to the fact that I have to deal with this eventually, but honestly, I couldn't fully commit to doing anything extensive until I fully ACCEPTED THAT I HAD CF, regardless of my symptoms.

I'm with Nightwriter on the "universal protocol" issue. Everyone has different symptoms, doctors, and different therapies prescribed. I feel like there really isn't enough info on treatments vs. severity/symptoms of the disease.

But, regardless of symptoms, I think that the bigger issue here is basic acceptance of disease. You can fully accept you have CF and do the treatments. Or you can completely deny that you have it and do nothing. Or something in between.

How is she with her acceptance of her condition? Could you get her on this site? Does she have any role models with CF? I feel like that is the only way you can get her to fully commit to this disease.

Just my 2 cents.
 
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welshwitch

Guest
Hi.

Not sure I can offer any solid advice, but wanted to relay my experience with this.

Your daughter sounds EXACTLY like me. No symptoms really except the need to take enzymes.

I'm going to be 30 in November and believe me, I didn't step up to the plate with my CF until I was about 28.

The vest didn't exist when I was younger, but my parents attempted PT until I resisted enough to get out of it. That, and the fact that I was not coughing anything up when they did it. I think perhaps they were comforted by the fact that I was an athlete as a kid and played several competitive sports. They basically stopped forcing me to do any kind of chest PT after I was about 7 or 8.

One of the biggest issues I had was a lack of role models. I didn't have any one to look up to who had CF. I basically just ignored the fact that I had the disease in the first place. My parents tried over the years to make me more responsive to the fact that I have to deal with this eventually, but honestly, I couldn't fully commit to doing anything extensive until I fully ACCEPTED THAT I HAD CF, regardless of my symptoms.

I'm with Nightwriter on the "universal protocol" issue. Everyone has different symptoms, doctors, and different therapies prescribed. I feel like there really isn't enough info on treatments vs. severity/symptoms of the disease.

But, regardless of symptoms, I think that the bigger issue here is basic acceptance of disease. You can fully accept you have CF and do the treatments. Or you can completely deny that you have it and do nothing. Or something in between.

How is she with her acceptance of her condition? Could you get her on this site? Does she have any role models with CF? I feel like that is the only way you can get her to fully commit to this disease.

Just my 2 cents.
 
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welshwitch

Guest
Hi.

Not sure I can offer any solid advice, but wanted to relay my experience with this.

Your daughter sounds EXACTLY like me. No symptoms really except the need to take enzymes.

I'm going to be 30 in November and believe me, I didn't step up to the plate with my CF until I was about 28.

The vest didn't exist when I was younger, but my parents attempted PT until I resisted enough to get out of it. That, and the fact that I was not coughing anything up when they did it. I think perhaps they were comforted by the fact that I was an athlete as a kid and played several competitive sports. They basically stopped forcing me to do any kind of chest PT after I was about 7 or 8.

One of the biggest issues I had was a lack of role models. I didn't have any one to look up to who had CF. I basically just ignored the fact that I had the disease in the first place. My parents tried over the years to make me more responsive to the fact that I have to deal with this eventually, but honestly, I couldn't fully commit to doing anything extensive until I fully ACCEPTED THAT I HAD CF, regardless of my symptoms.

I'm with Nightwriter on the "universal protocol" issue. Everyone has different symptoms, doctors, and different therapies prescribed. I feel like there really isn't enough info on treatments vs. severity/symptoms of the disease.

But, regardless of symptoms, I think that the bigger issue here is basic acceptance of disease. You can fully accept you have CF and do the treatments. Or you can completely deny that you have it and do nothing. Or something in between.

How is she with her acceptance of her condition? Could you get her on this site? Does she have any role models with CF? I feel like that is the only way you can get her to fully commit to this disease.

Just my 2 cents.
 
W

welshwitch

Guest
Hi.

Not sure I can offer any solid advice, but wanted to relay my experience with this.

Your daughter sounds EXACTLY like me. No symptoms really except the need to take enzymes.

I'm going to be 30 in November and believe me, I didn't step up to the plate with my CF until I was about 28.

The vest didn't exist when I was younger, but my parents attempted PT until I resisted enough to get out of it. That, and the fact that I was not coughing anything up when they did it. I think perhaps they were comforted by the fact that I was an athlete as a kid and played several competitive sports. They basically stopped forcing me to do any kind of chest PT after I was about 7 or 8.

One of the biggest issues I had was a lack of role models. I didn't have any one to look up to who had CF. I basically just ignored the fact that I had the disease in the first place. My parents tried over the years to make me more responsive to the fact that I have to deal with this eventually, but honestly, I couldn't fully commit to doing anything extensive until I fully ACCEPTED THAT I HAD CF, regardless of my symptoms.

I'm with Nightwriter on the "universal protocol" issue. Everyone has different symptoms, doctors, and different therapies prescribed. I feel like there really isn't enough info on treatments vs. severity/symptoms of the disease.

But, regardless of symptoms, I think that the bigger issue here is basic acceptance of disease. You can fully accept you have CF and do the treatments. Or you can completely deny that you have it and do nothing. Or something in between.

How is she with her acceptance of her condition? Could you get her on this site? Does she have any role models with CF? I feel like that is the only way you can get her to fully commit to this disease.

Just my 2 cents.
 
W

welshwitch

Guest
Hi.
<br />
<br />Not sure I can offer any solid advice, but wanted to relay my experience with this.
<br />
<br />Your daughter sounds EXACTLY like me. No symptoms really except the need to take enzymes.
<br />
<br />I'm going to be 30 in November and believe me, I didn't step up to the plate with my CF until I was about 28.
<br />
<br />The vest didn't exist when I was younger, but my parents attempted PT until I resisted enough to get out of it. That, and the fact that I was not coughing anything up when they did it. I think perhaps they were comforted by the fact that I was an athlete as a kid and played several competitive sports. They basically stopped forcing me to do any kind of chest PT after I was about 7 or 8.
<br />
<br />One of the biggest issues I had was a lack of role models. I didn't have any one to look up to who had CF. I basically just ignored the fact that I had the disease in the first place. My parents tried over the years to make me more responsive to the fact that I have to deal with this eventually, but honestly, I couldn't fully commit to doing anything extensive until I fully ACCEPTED THAT I HAD CF, regardless of my symptoms.
<br />
<br />I'm with Nightwriter on the "universal protocol" issue. Everyone has different symptoms, doctors, and different therapies prescribed. I feel like there really isn't enough info on treatments vs. severity/symptoms of the disease.
<br />
<br />But, regardless of symptoms, I think that the bigger issue here is basic acceptance of disease. You can fully accept you have CF and do the treatments. Or you can completely deny that you have it and do nothing. Or something in between.
<br />
<br />How is she with her acceptance of her condition? Could you get her on this site? Does she have any role models with CF? I feel like that is the only way you can get her to fully commit to this disease.
<br />
<br />Just my 2 cents.
<br />
 

soderick

New member
I'm sure that being diagnosed later in life has a lot to do with how a kid handles CF. I grew up knowing it was a part of my life. Even so, each added treatment, whether it was more pills, more treatments, or whatever, I was always shocked somehow.

I was exactly the rebellious pre-teen you're describing. Even before that, I was terrible. I would get so angry at my parents for telling me to do treatments, yet I would rarely do them without prompting. My parents were wonderfully patient and sympathetic, and I think that helped a lot. They never got mad. They just said that they were sorry that life isn't fair and that they wished they could change it. Not that a kid understands those sentiments when she is angry at the world, but it helps to keep from getting angry or punishing (at least in my case). Also, my parents made a big effort to help me through my treatments. Before the modern advancements, my mom played my favorite movies while she was administering CPT. Later, she invented interesting ways for me to count my breaths while using the flutter. When I was about 13 or 14, I was able to get a vest, which made me much more independent, but my parents still always offered to play games with me while I did it. I'm not saying it always helped, but those are some of my strongest memories of growing up with CF, so they must have had some impact.

As for taking pills, I always took enzymes so I wouldn't have to suffer the very obvious and painful consequences the following day, but I often avoided the other pills. Some because they were unpleasant to swallow, some because they made me feel ill, and others because I just didn't feel like it. I would hoard them and flush them down the toilet or sneak them back into the original bottles (after I became the one to order refills for my own prescriptions). That was just something I had to outgrow. I should also say that I was a goody-goody as a child, and disappointing my parents was a big issue for me, so that might be part of why they never felt the need to find large punishments. Rather, they only rewarded me by praising good behavior, not punishing the bad behavior. Don't know how effective that would be for all kids. It wouldn't have worked for my brother, but he was, fortunately, born without CF.
 

soderick

New member
I'm sure that being diagnosed later in life has a lot to do with how a kid handles CF. I grew up knowing it was a part of my life. Even so, each added treatment, whether it was more pills, more treatments, or whatever, I was always shocked somehow.

I was exactly the rebellious pre-teen you're describing. Even before that, I was terrible. I would get so angry at my parents for telling me to do treatments, yet I would rarely do them without prompting. My parents were wonderfully patient and sympathetic, and I think that helped a lot. They never got mad. They just said that they were sorry that life isn't fair and that they wished they could change it. Not that a kid understands those sentiments when she is angry at the world, but it helps to keep from getting angry or punishing (at least in my case). Also, my parents made a big effort to help me through my treatments. Before the modern advancements, my mom played my favorite movies while she was administering CPT. Later, she invented interesting ways for me to count my breaths while using the flutter. When I was about 13 or 14, I was able to get a vest, which made me much more independent, but my parents still always offered to play games with me while I did it. I'm not saying it always helped, but those are some of my strongest memories of growing up with CF, so they must have had some impact.

As for taking pills, I always took enzymes so I wouldn't have to suffer the very obvious and painful consequences the following day, but I often avoided the other pills. Some because they were unpleasant to swallow, some because they made me feel ill, and others because I just didn't feel like it. I would hoard them and flush them down the toilet or sneak them back into the original bottles (after I became the one to order refills for my own prescriptions). That was just something I had to outgrow. I should also say that I was a goody-goody as a child, and disappointing my parents was a big issue for me, so that might be part of why they never felt the need to find large punishments. Rather, they only rewarded me by praising good behavior, not punishing the bad behavior. Don't know how effective that would be for all kids. It wouldn't have worked for my brother, but he was, fortunately, born without CF.
 

soderick

New member
I'm sure that being diagnosed later in life has a lot to do with how a kid handles CF. I grew up knowing it was a part of my life. Even so, each added treatment, whether it was more pills, more treatments, or whatever, I was always shocked somehow.

I was exactly the rebellious pre-teen you're describing. Even before that, I was terrible. I would get so angry at my parents for telling me to do treatments, yet I would rarely do them without prompting. My parents were wonderfully patient and sympathetic, and I think that helped a lot. They never got mad. They just said that they were sorry that life isn't fair and that they wished they could change it. Not that a kid understands those sentiments when she is angry at the world, but it helps to keep from getting angry or punishing (at least in my case). Also, my parents made a big effort to help me through my treatments. Before the modern advancements, my mom played my favorite movies while she was administering CPT. Later, she invented interesting ways for me to count my breaths while using the flutter. When I was about 13 or 14, I was able to get a vest, which made me much more independent, but my parents still always offered to play games with me while I did it. I'm not saying it always helped, but those are some of my strongest memories of growing up with CF, so they must have had some impact.

As for taking pills, I always took enzymes so I wouldn't have to suffer the very obvious and painful consequences the following day, but I often avoided the other pills. Some because they were unpleasant to swallow, some because they made me feel ill, and others because I just didn't feel like it. I would hoard them and flush them down the toilet or sneak them back into the original bottles (after I became the one to order refills for my own prescriptions). That was just something I had to outgrow. I should also say that I was a goody-goody as a child, and disappointing my parents was a big issue for me, so that might be part of why they never felt the need to find large punishments. Rather, they only rewarded me by praising good behavior, not punishing the bad behavior. Don't know how effective that would be for all kids. It wouldn't have worked for my brother, but he was, fortunately, born without CF.
 

soderick

New member
I'm sure that being diagnosed later in life has a lot to do with how a kid handles CF. I grew up knowing it was a part of my life. Even so, each added treatment, whether it was more pills, more treatments, or whatever, I was always shocked somehow.

I was exactly the rebellious pre-teen you're describing. Even before that, I was terrible. I would get so angry at my parents for telling me to do treatments, yet I would rarely do them without prompting. My parents were wonderfully patient and sympathetic, and I think that helped a lot. They never got mad. They just said that they were sorry that life isn't fair and that they wished they could change it. Not that a kid understands those sentiments when she is angry at the world, but it helps to keep from getting angry or punishing (at least in my case). Also, my parents made a big effort to help me through my treatments. Before the modern advancements, my mom played my favorite movies while she was administering CPT. Later, she invented interesting ways for me to count my breaths while using the flutter. When I was about 13 or 14, I was able to get a vest, which made me much more independent, but my parents still always offered to play games with me while I did it. I'm not saying it always helped, but those are some of my strongest memories of growing up with CF, so they must have had some impact.

As for taking pills, I always took enzymes so I wouldn't have to suffer the very obvious and painful consequences the following day, but I often avoided the other pills. Some because they were unpleasant to swallow, some because they made me feel ill, and others because I just didn't feel like it. I would hoard them and flush them down the toilet or sneak them back into the original bottles (after I became the one to order refills for my own prescriptions). That was just something I had to outgrow. I should also say that I was a goody-goody as a child, and disappointing my parents was a big issue for me, so that might be part of why they never felt the need to find large punishments. Rather, they only rewarded me by praising good behavior, not punishing the bad behavior. Don't know how effective that would be for all kids. It wouldn't have worked for my brother, but he was, fortunately, born without CF.
 

soderick

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I'm sure that being diagnosed later in life has a lot to do with how a kid handles CF. I grew up knowing it was a part of my life. Even so, each added treatment, whether it was more pills, more treatments, or whatever, I was always shocked somehow.
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<br />I was exactly the rebellious pre-teen you're describing. Even before that, I was terrible. I would get so angry at my parents for telling me to do treatments, yet I would rarely do them without prompting. My parents were wonderfully patient and sympathetic, and I think that helped a lot. They never got mad. They just said that they were sorry that life isn't fair and that they wished they could change it. Not that a kid understands those sentiments when she is angry at the world, but it helps to keep from getting angry or punishing (at least in my case). Also, my parents made a big effort to help me through my treatments. Before the modern advancements, my mom played my favorite movies while she was administering CPT. Later, she invented interesting ways for me to count my breaths while using the flutter. When I was about 13 or 14, I was able to get a vest, which made me much more independent, but my parents still always offered to play games with me while I did it. I'm not saying it always helped, but those are some of my strongest memories of growing up with CF, so they must have had some impact.
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<br />As for taking pills, I always took enzymes so I wouldn't have to suffer the very obvious and painful consequences the following day, but I often avoided the other pills. Some because they were unpleasant to swallow, some because they made me feel ill, and others because I just didn't feel like it. I would hoard them and flush them down the toilet or sneak them back into the original bottles (after I became the one to order refills for my own prescriptions). That was just something I had to outgrow. I should also say that I was a goody-goody as a child, and disappointing my parents was a big issue for me, so that might be part of why they never felt the need to find large punishments. Rather, they only rewarded me by praising good behavior, not punishing the bad behavior. Don't know how effective that would be for all kids. It wouldn't have worked for my brother, but he was, fortunately, born without CF.
 
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