Emily65Roses
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No prob bob. I know you didn't say she was enjoying it or anything, that's just my smart@ss sense of humor. As for the young widows specifically, she tried one of those too. Like I said, the women in that group all lost their husbands in accidents, didn't know it was coming, etc. The most support Allie got from those women was "Well, at least you KNEW he was going to die." (Like that's supposed to make her feel better???) They kind of gave off a "You knew what you were getting into, so it's your fault, and you had time to grieve while he was still alive, blah blah." So they were kind of useless too, and those groups were, like I said, just no help to her. But the other stuff has made a difference, specifically finding parents in Hannah and Michael. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">