Hi MamaScarlett,
Thanks so much for sharing that with me!! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> I feel so privileged to get all these replies! They are all very much appreciated!! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
Very interesting about what you said with the OPK's...thanks for the heads up on this <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"> If I'm not pregnant by this month I will just try before my ovulation kicks in and then there after. As my cycle has always been the same...I get a period every 28 days- menses last for 3 days and end with tail end of flow on 4th day. They are not heavy...but use to be when I was in my teens. So I think i am ovulating...just a matter of what time it is...I think I may ovulate around day 13 - 14 of my cycle...and something I have never been on before is Robitussin while ttc! haha! I know what your all gonna say...Sarah then why didn't you try this ages ago! lol Well let me explain a little...
about 5 years ago my husband and I were ttc for like the first 2 years of our marriage. Then...when we weren;t getting any results...we sort out a fertility specialist...who then did the necessary tests- including that test where they shoot dye up through your tubes- which btw was all good, as the nurses doing these tests said I have no blocking what so ever!? And so we were encouraged by my c.f doc to start trying as as we could, but a year turned into 2 and then 3! Finally me and my husband just realised...that we should really seek out- go through the IUI...and lets face it...I'm NOT getting any younger now am I...? Anyway fast forward to this month...using OPK's and I'm testing every day to see if there is any change (ovulation) in my cycle starting from Day 4. So far...there seems to be a pattern where the line just under the test line seems to get a lot darker also as dark as the test line. So i have come to the conclusion that I maybe ovulating on day 13 -14 of my cycle. Well that's what it looks like anyway! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0">
So the plan is keep using OPK's for another month or so and see if the line becomes darker at the exact time, next month <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> Hope then...I will be able to see a pattern in my cycle system <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
Just a quick update to everyone on this thread:
Next week my husband and I will be going to c.f clinic, thus Tuesday to discuss these issues with my c.f doc & hopefully get answer's as to why he said what he said...hopefully we WILL get an answer from him and this should clear up any misconstrued or misleading answers as to why! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0"> I really need answers about this..as he has been really good up until now. And you see I could understand if I wasn't doing so well with lung function (FEV1) and weight etc...but my stats show improvemenst on my weight gain & my lung function results...so really what my doc said to me in that consultation room, was just really mean and very uncalled for. Just to re-jog everyone's memory...
MY C.F DOC'S WORDS: "I don't think you should get pregnant! As you can't handle the aftermath of a pregnancy!"
Also FYI...I had brought my mum along that day at clinic as a support person instead of hubby. as I didn't want to hubby to have to take time off work, as we are on the one income b/c well...oh come on people it's a recession so there are fewer jobs in N.Z at the mo...need I say more! lol
Anyway getting back onto my story...so my mum came...and was there for most of the clinic time...but here's the sting of it all...she got called away by another member of the c.f team...and and pretty much missed my entire consultation with my doc!! And THAT was why she had come to support me after all...as I had asked her to, b/c I had felt, very vulnerable at the time & stressed out from the little sleep I had- dues to the SUCKY weather...which then set off my asthma at night & made Asthma WAAAY WORST <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0"> So...as you see...my emotions- I was on tender hooks!! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0">
And to make matters worst...mum missed the entire thing all b.c she caught off guard with one of the c.f team members!! So yeah just really needed that support aye...but sadly did not receive it...! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0">
Anyway moving on...so IUI will be happening this next month coming up and will be undedicated for 3 -4 cycles, then if that doesn't work...3-4 medicated. Fingers crossed it works people! lol <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0">
But at the end of the day if nothing comes this pregnancy...I we have decided to get a cute little puppy...cos lets face it!..They are SOOOO MUCH EASIER TO FEED/BATH/PLAY WITH!!! Hahaha! Ok...well that's my 2 cents in there or was that 3...? Hmmm I forget...!! lol
Also...@ MamaScarlett...I agree with you completely! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> Stress definately doesn't helpthe situation at all!! And the more you the less chance your body has to conceive! Especially as our bodies are coping with c.f and the daily stress we face every day of our lives! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"> Though...I will say, however...that Robitussin has been a God send!! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> And has even made me feel awesome in my lungs as well...so yeah, there are a lot of pluses to having Robitussin for us c.f women, whether getting pregnant or not! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0">
Will keep you posted...<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"> Praying all of you who are in the same boat as me and for others here that are just so overwhelmed with c.f in general...like I know I am some days...if not most days! Haha!
Also thanks for sharing your truly awesome stories of undefeated share will strength to wanna get pregnant on here!
You have no idea JUST how much they have inspired me to keep me hanging in there... and keep me going, when I felt I had nothing left! In so many many, ways you guys rock! You are truly an awesome testimony to the things others may take for granted...but let me encourage you all by saying...for what it is worth...hold on...something good will come your way even though it seems all is lost...just remember: "The shadow improves the sunshine!" <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> This line is from one of my fav bands of all time...SWITCHFOOT! Man do they know how to rock!!! ;D
Remember...keep on Shinning! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0">
Ok people/girlys gotta love & leave ya! But it's been fun chatting...as only us girly can!!! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0">
Please keep me posted on all of your updates as well! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
Until I post again...
*Teddy hugs* & <3 you all!!!
Shine aka...Sarah247 <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0">