This was so incredibly moving. In the midst of all the pain.... love and bonds cannot be broken. That a 16 year old boy can open his heart like this -- for his dear brother, and then for you to share this precious piece with us...yes, I am moved to tears, but in his wisdom there is a gentle reminder that the only thing in life that ever really matters are the people we love. I am so sorry that you are going through this very difficult and sad time.