I'm so sorry you had to deal with that. How miserable.
I had a port in my arm and it was more difficult to 'hit' than the port in my chest.
A few bits of advice....
1. Ask nurse if she is good at accessing and if she has a lot of experience. Seriously. People may think I'm a b*tch but I don't care, it's my arm (or chest), my body, and I'M the one who feels the pain.
2. Tell them to hold the port between their thumb and forefinger. My port was 'lose' and would move around, they had to have a good hold on it or they would miss.
3. Emla (spelling) cream, it's supposed to numb you. Never really worked great for me..but it might help take the edge off.
I've had horrible luck w/the port in my arm, they had missed tons of time, and hit metal (which is such a freaking nasty feeling),etc.
The port in my chest is 100% an easy hit. Never a problem, which is great. I hate having more pokes than I need.
You should not have to deal w/this crap. I'd say when you are ordering up a home nurse, to only send a well experienced one. YOU shouldn't have to suffer for the nurses inability to do her job correctly. Either that or give her one chance! (and let her know that up front). Like I said, you might come off as harsh, but you HAVE to advocate for yourself!!!!!
Good luck and I really hope this improves for you. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0">
Kelli
I had a port in my arm and it was more difficult to 'hit' than the port in my chest.
A few bits of advice....
1. Ask nurse if she is good at accessing and if she has a lot of experience. Seriously. People may think I'm a b*tch but I don't care, it's my arm (or chest), my body, and I'M the one who feels the pain.
2. Tell them to hold the port between their thumb and forefinger. My port was 'lose' and would move around, they had to have a good hold on it or they would miss.
3. Emla (spelling) cream, it's supposed to numb you. Never really worked great for me..but it might help take the edge off.
I've had horrible luck w/the port in my arm, they had missed tons of time, and hit metal (which is such a freaking nasty feeling),etc.
The port in my chest is 100% an easy hit. Never a problem, which is great. I hate having more pokes than I need.
You should not have to deal w/this crap. I'd say when you are ordering up a home nurse, to only send a well experienced one. YOU shouldn't have to suffer for the nurses inability to do her job correctly. Either that or give her one chance! (and let her know that up front). Like I said, you might come off as harsh, but you HAVE to advocate for yourself!!!!!
Good luck and I really hope this improves for you. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0">
Kelli