I will add something to what Emily said: Mike is always being told that his positive will and strength will do wonders for him in the recovery. HOWEVER, rejection has nothing to do with your attitude. That is what is scary. We are really excited and can't wait for the tx... He will be able to do things he hasn't done since he was a kid, or ever! But we realize that rejection could rear it's ugly head at any time. Taking his meds religiously and taking amazing care of himself is all that is in our control. Rejection is not. That is very scary to me. But I have to just hope it won't happen. Any time we have with him breathing clear and easy will be worth it to me.