Oh boy is she ever slow! Our 5yo CF daughter and my husband have turned meal times into fights. I'm afraid what this will do long term to her eating habits. She eats almost nothing and takes 30 minutes to eat it. She holds a small amount of food in her mouth for many minutes and "can't" swallow it. Sometimes, she ends up throwing up. Usually she has to "go potty" in the middle of the meal. Anything to get out of eating.
She never wants to try anything new and when we make her try something, she of course, hates it.
We've tried everything from ignoring bad behavior, praising good behavior, bribes, spanking...Nothing works. Nothing is a big enough motivator to get her to eat. She is very strong willed. It is SO frustrating, sometimes I could just scream (sometimes I do.) We even went through intensive therapy with a psychologist.
I can only hope that she grows out of it.