I know this is a late response, but better late than never right? <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
One thing you can do when looking for a good therapist is ASK THEM what kind of treatment they provide. For example, someone who uses a psychoanalytic/psychodynamic approach is going to do a lot of letting you talk and won't give as much advice/guidance, whereas someone using a cognitive-behavioral approach will focus on identifying your negative thought and behavior patterns and work with you to change them. Most therapists use a variety of approaches, but often they do have a dominant style, and you can definitely ask them about that BEFORE you make an appointment and evaluate whether that person's style of therapy will work for you.
You can find a basic outline of different types of therapy here: <a target=_blank class=ftalternatingbarlinklarge href="http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/psychotherapy/MH00009">http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/psychotherapy/MH00009</a>
Just an idea to possibly help cut down on the very discouraging experience of wasting time and money on a therapist who doesn't work for you.