Chris was two days old when we adopted him. I was able to take a month off that time. Technically, I could take a month off with this one, too, through FMLA, but I would have a week of unpaid leave, which is about half of my paycheck, since I take so much out for day care and medical. I suppose I could put everything on credit cards. If it's really that impossible to go back to work two weeks after having a baby, then why is my school district able to restrict pregnant women to taking two days sick leave after a normal delivery and three days sick leave after a c-section.
I don't feel that I have to breastfeed. I formula fed Chris and he was perfectly healthy. I just thought that breastfeeding would be relatively as easy as bottle feeding, maybe easier, since I don't have to get out of bed and make a bottle. If it's harder, I'm perfectly willing to bottle feed. I have always maintained good weight (5'1" and 127 pounds before pregnancy, with vitamin levels at 96% or higher). What are the things that make breastfeeding more difficult? Does everyone seem to think it takes more out of you physically?