Boyfriend trouble

[TinyGreenTurtles]

My heart breaks for you. I can't imagine going through this. But I have to agree with everyone else. This is dragging you down. Light's piranha example was spot on, in my opinion. This is one of those situations that is only going to get worse, even if way down the road it *might* get better. Is it worth wasting all of this time on that big of a "maybe?"

 

[TinyGreenTurtles]

My heart breaks for you. I can't imagine going through this. But I have to agree with everyone else. This is dragging you down. Light's piranha example was spot on, in my opinion. This is one of those situations that is only going to get worse, even if way down the road it *might* get better. Is it worth wasting all of this time on that big of a "maybe?"

 

[TinyGreenTurtles]

My heart breaks for you. I can't imagine going through this. But I have to agree with everyone else. This is dragging you down. Light's piranha example was spot on, in my opinion. This is one of those situations that is only going to get worse, even if way down the road it *might* get better. Is it worth wasting all of this time on that big of a "maybe?"

 

[TinyGreenTurtles]

My heart breaks for you. I can't imagine going through this. But I have to agree with everyone else. This is dragging you down. Light's piranha example was spot on, in my opinion. This is one of those situations that is only going to get worse, even if way down the road it *might* get better. Is it worth wasting all of this time on that big of a "maybe?"

 

[TinyGreenTurtles]

My heart breaks for you. I can't imagine going through this. But I have to agree with everyone else. This is dragging you down. Light's piranha example was spot on, in my opinion. This is one of those situations that is only going to get worse, even if way down the road it *might* get better. Is it worth wasting all of this time on that big of a "maybe?"

 

[nicolaj]

I totally understand what your all saying. But i must be a weak person cos i cant say 'enough is enough!'

Nicola xx

 

[nicolaj]

I totally understand what your all saying. But i must be a weak person cos i cant say 'enough is enough!'

Nicola xx

 

[nicolaj]

I totally understand what your all saying. But i must be a weak person cos i cant say 'enough is enough!'

Nicola xx

 

[nicolaj]

I totally understand what your all saying. But i must be a weak person cos i cant say 'enough is enough!'

Nicola xx

 

[nicolaj]

I totally understand what your all saying. But i must be a weak person cos i cant say 'enough is enough!'
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<br />Nicola xx

 

[lightNlife]

Don't tell yourself you're weak. A weak person wouldn't have asked for support and help. You're stronger than you give yourself credit for. Heck, you're dealing with CF! That makes you strong in my book! Trust your strength and use it to assert yourself.

Perhaps you're not feeling very strong emotionally, but if you BEHAVE as a strong person, the feelings will follow. You can do this, Nicola! I know you can. We're all behind you!

 

[lightNlife]

Don't tell yourself you're weak. A weak person wouldn't have asked for support and help. You're stronger than you give yourself credit for. Heck, you're dealing with CF! That makes you strong in my book! Trust your strength and use it to assert yourself.

Perhaps you're not feeling very strong emotionally, but if you BEHAVE as a strong person, the feelings will follow. You can do this, Nicola! I know you can. We're all behind you!

 

[lightNlife]

Don't tell yourself you're weak. A weak person wouldn't have asked for support and help. You're stronger than you give yourself credit for. Heck, you're dealing with CF! That makes you strong in my book! Trust your strength and use it to assert yourself.

Perhaps you're not feeling very strong emotionally, but if you BEHAVE as a strong person, the feelings will follow. You can do this, Nicola! I know you can. We're all behind you!

 

[lightNlife]

Don't tell yourself you're weak. A weak person wouldn't have asked for support and help. You're stronger than you give yourself credit for. Heck, you're dealing with CF! That makes you strong in my book! Trust your strength and use it to assert yourself.

Perhaps you're not feeling very strong emotionally, but if you BEHAVE as a strong person, the feelings will follow. You can do this, Nicola! I know you can. We're all behind you!

 

[lightNlife]

Don't tell yourself you're weak. A weak person wouldn't have asked for support and help. You're stronger than you give yourself credit for. Heck, you're dealing with CF! That makes you strong in my book! Trust your strength and use it to assert yourself.
<br />
<br />Perhaps you're not feeling very strong emotionally, but if you BEHAVE as a strong person, the feelings will follow. You can do this, Nicola! I know you can. We're all behind you!

 

[SaltyAndSweet]

Hi Nicola,

I don't think you are weak at all. You have hope, and there is nothing wrong with that. Hope is what keeps me sane in dealing with my CF, and I am sure I am not the only one.

I have been in similar shoes as you many times before. Hanging on to a relationship with the hope that things will work out ok, even though I knew I was not in a healthy relationship. Well, none of those relationships worked out, and looking back I realize they did more harm to my health then they did good. The emotional roller coaster is not good for either of you.
The guy needs to stop the dependency on alcohol. He needs to do some work on himself before he can come to you and be in a healthy relationship with you. Doesn't mean that you can't be with him in the future, but right now, he is more toxic than good for you. You need someone to love, support and respect you at all times, not just when they are sober.

Remember that all of us here on the board are here for you. We send you big hugs!!

 

[SaltyAndSweet]

Hi Nicola,

I don't think you are weak at all. You have hope, and there is nothing wrong with that. Hope is what keeps me sane in dealing with my CF, and I am sure I am not the only one.

I have been in similar shoes as you many times before. Hanging on to a relationship with the hope that things will work out ok, even though I knew I was not in a healthy relationship. Well, none of those relationships worked out, and looking back I realize they did more harm to my health then they did good. The emotional roller coaster is not good for either of you.
The guy needs to stop the dependency on alcohol. He needs to do some work on himself before he can come to you and be in a healthy relationship with you. Doesn't mean that you can't be with him in the future, but right now, he is more toxic than good for you. You need someone to love, support and respect you at all times, not just when they are sober.

Remember that all of us here on the board are here for you. We send you big hugs!!

 

[SaltyAndSweet]

Hi Nicola,

I don't think you are weak at all. You have hope, and there is nothing wrong with that. Hope is what keeps me sane in dealing with my CF, and I am sure I am not the only one.

I have been in similar shoes as you many times before. Hanging on to a relationship with the hope that things will work out ok, even though I knew I was not in a healthy relationship. Well, none of those relationships worked out, and looking back I realize they did more harm to my health then they did good. The emotional roller coaster is not good for either of you.
The guy needs to stop the dependency on alcohol. He needs to do some work on himself before he can come to you and be in a healthy relationship with you. Doesn't mean that you can't be with him in the future, but right now, he is more toxic than good for you. You need someone to love, support and respect you at all times, not just when they are sober.

Remember that all of us here on the board are here for you. We send you big hugs!!

 

[SaltyAndSweet]

Hi Nicola,

I don't think you are weak at all. You have hope, and there is nothing wrong with that. Hope is what keeps me sane in dealing with my CF, and I am sure I am not the only one.

I have been in similar shoes as you many times before. Hanging on to a relationship with the hope that things will work out ok, even though I knew I was not in a healthy relationship. Well, none of those relationships worked out, and looking back I realize they did more harm to my health then they did good. The emotional roller coaster is not good for either of you.
The guy needs to stop the dependency on alcohol. He needs to do some work on himself before he can come to you and be in a healthy relationship with you. Doesn't mean that you can't be with him in the future, but right now, he is more toxic than good for you. You need someone to love, support and respect you at all times, not just when they are sober.

Remember that all of us here on the board are here for you. We send you big hugs!!

 

[SaltyAndSweet]

Hi Nicola,
<br />
<br />I don't think you are weak at all. You have hope, and there is nothing wrong with that. Hope is what keeps me sane in dealing with my CF, and I am sure I am not the only one.
<br />
<br />I have been in similar shoes as you many times before. Hanging on to a relationship with the hope that things will work out ok, even though I knew I was not in a healthy relationship. Well, none of those relationships worked out, and looking back I realize they did more harm to my health then they did good. The emotional roller coaster is not good for either of you.
<br />The guy needs to stop the dependency on alcohol. He needs to do some work on himself before he can come to you and be in a healthy relationship with you. Doesn't mean that you can't be with him in the future, but right now, he is more toxic than good for you. You need someone to love, support and respect you at all times, not just when they are sober.
<br />
<br />Remember that all of us here on the board are here for you. We send you big hugs!!