I'm a little down in the dumps today. I went to the funeral home last night because my cousing passed away form multiple cancers. It was no shock as he had been ill for some time now, but death is not something you can be ready for. The thing is that in my life I have been very lucky to not have had many funerals to go to and this is the first one in my immediate family since I was like 12 or something. This is the first time I have been to a funeral home since my daughter was diagnose with cf and it bothered me in a way that I have never experienced before. It was almost like a panic attack, I kept thinking OMG I have to leave NOW!! I felt bad because at a time when I should be comforting my family all I wanted to do was run in the opposite direction. This cousin wasn't really close to me so it wasn't his particular death that made this hard for me, it was the thought that some day that could be my daughter and it nearly made me ill. Will this happen every time I go to a funeral home? I try not to be negative about her illness and not to think about the possibilities, but last night I couldn't quit. Sorry to be so negative, I just don't think many people would understand, heck I don't understand.