Haha well I dont think there is ever a point where parents just stop providing care, that is unless you move so far away from them that you never go home. I went to GW for two years in DC, and did all my own stuff---but at that point it was not much (really just taking pills and exercising). I still went home alot though, for my doctors appointments and jsut for the weekend...when I did I would get Chest PT from my therapist and from my mom.
I transfered to BC for two reasons, one that I didn't like GW and the other that I felt I needed to be close to home. Doing cleanouts and going to GW meant I would miss 3 weeks of school for them! It was ridiculous- now I only miss a few days, and then I go back to classes.
At this point I have an apartment in Boston, but I go home all the time (1/2 hour away). I am home right now- I have been for the past few weeks because I am doing a cleanout - so I drive to classes from here. My mom helps me with everything, but I could do it myself if I had to. For the first week of the cleanout they were away and I had to do most of it myself, with my boyfriend staying with me but he doesnt do my meds or anything. My mom does my midnight med if I am asleep, and my morning one because she is an early riser.
I think for CF patients a support system is key, and although we all probably could do everything on our own- and have to sometimes/ a lot of the time- it is important and great to have people around to help you.
Now, when I am at my apartment I do my cephtaz nebs and some type of airway clearance- all on my own of course. It is just habit- and if I dont do it, I feel awful, so....I have to.
There was def. a point when I was a teenager that I didn't want to do things, but at that time in my life I didn't have many health problems or many treatments. It will become a part of your kids daily life, just like CHest PT was mine. Growing up, I was not allowed to skip Chest PT except on Christmas- one day! As I got older, it became a part of my life and I would want to skip it, but didnt. It wasnt until college that I switched from Chest PT to exercise, and that worked for a while- but I was rigorous about it.
As thier health changes and naturally it will- and I dont mean for the worse, I just mean..treatments will change, they will have to make more choices...they will just see it as part of thier life. Plus at some point you realize that if you dont take care of yourself- you get sick. I think every single person on this board has had to go through that learning experience somehow- the rebellious stage. There is no way to avoid it!
This is a long winded reply I am sorry! Hope any advice was helpful- i feel like it was kind of ambiguous!
Caitlin
22 w/CF, b. cepacia