What a unique situation... and very sad, and very true, I totally understand about not having the strength or the energy to support each other...
Lisa, I can honestly say that you have been so supportive on here to so many of us, to me, I have taking your words of wisdom and comfort so many times, and sometimes being able to rest better knowing that I was understood.
I don't know how hairy it is with your exfamily or how exactly they want you to be involved but if they were smart, they would want you as much as you wanted and mentally were able to be.
I will keep your family in prayers, and gosh what a tough situation that really is..
Sending love and Prayers,
Jennifer