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So, its been a while since i've been on here. Alot has happened with my daughter since my last post. In September she had pneumonia and got her first PICC line. Now here were are 7 months later and same situation. The pneumonia came back to her right lung again but was a bit worse then last time. We were in the hospital for 5 days and we are now home and I am doing her antibiotics through her line at home.
Here is where the venting comes in. Alayna's father and I are going through a divorce. The situation between her father and I is pretty nasty most of the time. We have or good days but most days are bad. During her stay in the hospital I hoped for good days but that didn't happen. We all know when you are in a hospital you don't get any sleep or rest because someone is always coming in doing something. We went in Wednesday and by Friday I wanted to go home for the night and get some rest. I had bronchitis myself so I wasn't feeling well either <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-frown.gif" border="0">. I asked her father to come and stay in the hospital and he wouldn't stay. He would come up and stay for a few hours then go home. He wanted nothing to do with helping me out because he is not happy with me. I am dating someone and he thinks thats why I wanted to go home. When the reality behind it was I was exhausted and needed a break and he should've wanted to stay with her and be with her. He doesn't want to learn to do her PICC line so I am doing that myself as well. Thank god for my mom because without her I would be going crazy. She has helped me out so much. She gave me a break Friday night so I was able to get a little break. I just don't know what to do.
Has anyone gone through this where the dad wont step up and help during a divorce?<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0">
So, its been a while since i've been on here. Alot has happened with my daughter since my last post. In September she had pneumonia and got her first PICC line. Now here were are 7 months later and same situation. The pneumonia came back to her right lung again but was a bit worse then last time. We were in the hospital for 5 days and we are now home and I am doing her antibiotics through her line at home.
Here is where the venting comes in. Alayna's father and I are going through a divorce. The situation between her father and I is pretty nasty most of the time. We have or good days but most days are bad. During her stay in the hospital I hoped for good days but that didn't happen. We all know when you are in a hospital you don't get any sleep or rest because someone is always coming in doing something. We went in Wednesday and by Friday I wanted to go home for the night and get some rest. I had bronchitis myself so I wasn't feeling well either <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-frown.gif" border="0">. I asked her father to come and stay in the hospital and he wouldn't stay. He would come up and stay for a few hours then go home. He wanted nothing to do with helping me out because he is not happy with me. I am dating someone and he thinks thats why I wanted to go home. When the reality behind it was I was exhausted and needed a break and he should've wanted to stay with her and be with her. He doesn't want to learn to do her PICC line so I am doing that myself as well. Thank god for my mom because without her I would be going crazy. She has helped me out so much. She gave me a break Friday night so I was able to get a little break. I just don't know what to do.
Has anyone gone through this where the dad wont step up and help during a divorce?<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif" border="0">