Hi Katie - I agree with Barbara; Beth Sufian is an excellent resource, especially with this sort of thing. You can also talk to the social worker at Richard's CF Clinic - they often know information more specific to your particular location and if they don't know the answers, they can usually tell you where to find them (a lot of times their other patients tell them how THEY did it too). Not to mention just being a friendly face to talk to about the emotional aspects of making a decision like this.
I can tell you that when I was on disability, I did struggle financially. However, I did not ask a lot of questions and I bet there were more resources out there that I could have used, but didn't. And I am no longer on disability. I say this because sometimes it might feel like making the decision to go on disability is such a permanent way of admitting defeat. But It doesn't have to be a permanent thing at all and it most certainly is not defeat. And there are a lot of jobs out there too that can be accommodating with flexible hours, etc. I work part-time now - Sometimes we just hit rough patches and need a break for a little while. Good luck to you both - feel free to PM me if you ever want to talk more about this.
I can tell you that when I was on disability, I did struggle financially. However, I did not ask a lot of questions and I bet there were more resources out there that I could have used, but didn't. And I am no longer on disability. I say this because sometimes it might feel like making the decision to go on disability is such a permanent way of admitting defeat. But It doesn't have to be a permanent thing at all and it most certainly is not defeat. And there are a lot of jobs out there too that can be accommodating with flexible hours, etc. I work part-time now - Sometimes we just hit rough patches and need a break for a little while. Good luck to you both - feel free to PM me if you ever want to talk more about this.