This is directed to Deb, about telling Cheyenne, I had no idea how to answer, so I called Ry's mother and asked her how she did it. He was 4 or 5 and she talked to him about how Cf made him cough, and how Cf hurts your lungs, and you need your lungs to live which is why you have to do all your treatments, to keep Cf from hurting your lungs as much as possible, even though you can't stop it all the way. Cf eventually makes it hard for your lungs to work, and then you die, which nobody knows how long that will take, but not tomorrow or a month from now, just in the future. She said as he got older, more details were added as he asked questions, most of which were'nt the concerns she expected him to have. But he had a full picture of his shortened life expectancy by 8 or 9, she figured. Kids are smart.
I hope this helped Deb, it was the only person I could think of to ask.
I hope this helped Deb, it was the only person I could think of to ask.