BethanyAnne
New member
Hello everyone! My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 5 years now. He and I have really matured throgh those years - He is 24 and I am 23. We have been through a lot with each other and all in all he's a wonderful guy. However, he has histimes where his selfishness comes out (and I'm not reallysure if it his him being selfih or me not being able to cope with CF myself and feeling lonely)...
So here's an example:
We decided that we need to start going to bed earlier because sleep is aways better for anyone's health but especially mine (with CF). We were gonna start last night, but his brother called and told him to get on the xbox live so they could play each other. Well, then Steven wouldn't go to sleep with me. He decided that was more important I guess. Am I looking at this the wrong way? Should people wth CF that have a partner just get used to the fact that CF is lonely no matter how you slice it? What do you think?
Oh and it's also har to deal with sometimes, because his life allows for it to not have s much structure whereas mine needs structure. ???? ahhh, help...
So here's an example:
We decided that we need to start going to bed earlier because sleep is aways better for anyone's health but especially mine (with CF). We were gonna start last night, but his brother called and told him to get on the xbox live so they could play each other. Well, then Steven wouldn't go to sleep with me. He decided that was more important I guess. Am I looking at this the wrong way? Should people wth CF that have a partner just get used to the fact that CF is lonely no matter how you slice it? What do you think?
Oh and it's also har to deal with sometimes, because his life allows for it to not have s much structure whereas mine needs structure. ???? ahhh, help...