THe first year I did CF walk (4years ago) I had been dx 2 years and everyone I immediately worked with knew it, I have a habit of (ass)uming everyone else knew it too becuase I am so open and forget that others might not have 'heard' -- I work in a gossip environment so I just figured. This involves a guy on my shift but in a different lab.
Guy: "Hey I heard you are doing some sort of fundraiser walk"
Me: "Yeah, I'm doing Great Strides blah blah want to sponsor me?"
Guy:"Who does it affect?"
Me: "typical response"
Guy:"We'll it can't affect that many poeple I never heard of it"
Me:"About #people blah blah typical response"
<u>Guy:"Well I like to support things that more poeple have, why dont you do a walk that matters and affects more than just a few poeple?" </u> (He really isnt as big an ass as this comes off like)
Me:"Well this really matters to the people who have it and since it isnt as well known it is harder to raise money for it"
Guy:"do you know someone who has it or something?"
**Here is where I am feelign really bad for him because I know he is going to eb really embaressed and I am trying to figure whats best to say
Me:" well, yeah it runs in my family actually" --nice huh?
Guy:"oh (already a bit sheepish) well who has it how does it affect them"
Me:"Well, I actually have it you just cant tell for blah blah reasons"
<u>Guy:"oh, well um, uh-- sputter, wrings hands, turns red, pulls out wallet, uh how much do you want, I dont have much on me but I can bring mroe tomorrow? Then of course all rest apologies and inquiries etc"</u>
**funny thing is about 15 minutes later 3 more guys from his lab file in asking if thye can donate $$$!