Yea, after we finally figured out what it was, I looked it up and it seems pretty common with feeding tubes. I actually looked to other sites like digestive sites and such like this, before when I couldnt figure out why my site wasnt healing and why it still hurt so bad and couldnt find anything about it. So I am glad it is now on this site, because there is nothing about granulation tissue in the search except for now, this thread.
The problem is that my GI doctor/office were not the ones who even figured out! My CA doctors 4+ hours away could tell instantly from a pictures I emailed them when I went to the GI office to see a nurse practicioner b/c I was concerned about it, all the guy said was "Its still fresh". He used pure hydrogen peroxide and told me to use it twice a day when before someone else at the office just said soap and water after the initial few days... it is frustrating that I wasnt told this could happen and was common when I got the feeding tube or during the consult or anything. So this whole time I thought I was crazy. I couldnt figure out what I was doing wrong.
I think I made it worse b/c I was using neosporin on it, with gauze, b/c I was told I could put neosporin on it to help it heal. But I need to keep it dry, and it seems to be pretty split on the use of gauze, I use the IV sponge ones though b/c I want to soak up the mucus around it.
Yea, the herpes looking part, was little different looking than granulated tissue part, but my fiancee said he didnt think it was herpes, he thought it was just more irritation... and probably from the acid coming up a bit b/c it was on my actual skin, not in the wound area.
I was feeling a bit sorry for myself up there, I know the burn(either cauterized or chemically) would be quick, but the other sites I read it could take 3 or 6 months for it to fully heal up... I am not looking forward to that if that is the case honestly.
The main part is I tried to look at as many g-tube stories, experiences, threads on here and Cystic Life, but everyone who answered got their tube in a long time ago, or it was a parent and no one was seeming to have any problems with pain and no one remembered how long it took theirs to heal so I didnt know what I should be expecting, if in fact the site should still look "fresh" after 6 weeks... I believed it should have been scarring up by then...
Thanks for the good thoughts everyone! I needed it.