I found this site, and was happy to find others like me. I had never really had conversations with other CFer's up until that point. I didn't start reading the forums until recently, and have found that out of 100 posts that I have read already this week only 5 really bothered me. 3 I thought were negative and the other 2 were just dumb ( in my opinion)
I think its all how you interpret what you read. Although admittedly many people don't want to hear the downs on CF...
I agree that we should live life to the fullest CF or not. Living one day at a time is a good idea too, however we must take care of ourselves, and we must be prepared for what *may* happen down the road. That being said, I do not feel like advice that is not sugar coated is negative or invalid. It's advice. Take it or leave it.
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Chrissy
PS- <div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote>I as a cfer, try to live my life to the fullest and try to live a semi normal life. My mother made sure that I knew I had cf, growing up, but also made sure that I was aware that it is possible to live out my dreams. I was taught how to take care of myself and that my life will be cut short some day, by her and I love her for that. So I am well aware of my outcome and I have never felt so doom and gloomed about my cf until I came here. </end quote></div>
I'd like to add that I agree with you and your mom. I'm just saying that all advice should be taken with a grain of salt. Some people who are negative (by negative I mean those who dont sugar coat)about CF have a reason to be. A reason that I don't have today, but I might tomorrow. Does that stop me from living? No. It helps me to feel confidently prepared in what *may* be in my future. There are some out there whom I consider to be rude, but hey the wonderful thing about advice forums...you don't have to take everyones or anyones advice! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0">