Help me am i making the right decision?

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Lilith

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<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>kybert</b></i>

*biting tongue, very very hard*



be a good girl kylie, be a good girl. *pats self, takes a valium*</end quote></div>

Be careful, Kylie...you might bite it off! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0">
 
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Lilith

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<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>kybert</b></i>

*biting tongue, very very hard*



be a good girl kylie, be a good girl. *pats self, takes a valium*</end quote></div>

Be careful, Kylie...you might bite it off! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0">
 
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Lilith

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<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>kybert</b></i>

*biting tongue, very very hard*



be a good girl kylie, be a good girl. *pats self, takes a valium*</end quote></div>

Be careful, Kylie...you might bite it off! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0">
 
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sarabeth87

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<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>Lilith</b></i>

<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>kybert</b></i>



*biting tongue, very very hard*







be a good girl kylie, be a good girl. *pats self, takes a valium*</end quote></div>



Be careful, Kylie...you might bite it off! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"></end quote></div>


I've been reading her post for a while now (since before she even became pregnant) and anyways, I'm with both of you on this one.
 
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sarabeth87

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<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>Lilith</b></i>

<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>kybert</b></i>



*biting tongue, very very hard*







be a good girl kylie, be a good girl. *pats self, takes a valium*</end quote></div>



Be careful, Kylie...you might bite it off! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"></end quote></div>


I've been reading her post for a while now (since before she even became pregnant) and anyways, I'm with both of you on this one.
 
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sarabeth87

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<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>Lilith</b></i>

<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>kybert</b></i>



*biting tongue, very very hard*







be a good girl kylie, be a good girl. *pats self, takes a valium*</end quote></div>



Be careful, Kylie...you might bite it off! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"></end quote></div>


I've been reading her post for a while now (since before she even became pregnant) and anyways, I'm with both of you on this one.
 
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JennifersHope

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If she is only two months post partum then a urine preg. test is not going to be accurate... It measures the HCG in urine which is one of the pregnancy hormones so being that she just had a baby, it is going to test positive no matter what... SHe is going to need blood tests ..

Vampy, I hope for everyone's sake that you are not pregnant again but if you are please get the help you need... this is way above your head at this point..

I mean we on the internet can support you etc but you need actual ppl to be there to help you

Let us know

Jennifer
 
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JennifersHope

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If she is only two months post partum then a urine preg. test is not going to be accurate... It measures the HCG in urine which is one of the pregnancy hormones so being that she just had a baby, it is going to test positive no matter what... SHe is going to need blood tests ..

Vampy, I hope for everyone's sake that you are not pregnant again but if you are please get the help you need... this is way above your head at this point..

I mean we on the internet can support you etc but you need actual ppl to be there to help you

Let us know

Jennifer
 
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JennifersHope

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If she is only two months post partum then a urine preg. test is not going to be accurate... It measures the HCG in urine which is one of the pregnancy hormones so being that she just had a baby, it is going to test positive no matter what... SHe is going to need blood tests ..

Vampy, I hope for everyone's sake that you are not pregnant again but if you are please get the help you need... this is way above your head at this point..

I mean we on the internet can support you etc but you need actual ppl to be there to help you

Let us know

Jennifer
 
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beleache

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Praying for the best for you and Lucas, let us know the results....You sound like a special mommy to me... Joni 55 y/o f w c/f
 
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beleache

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Praying for the best for you and Lucas, let us know the results....You sound like a special mommy to me... Joni 55 y/o f w c/f
 
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beleache

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Praying for the best for you and Lucas, let us know the results....You sound like a special mommy to me... Joni 55 y/o f w c/f
 
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kayleesgrandma

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Oh Vampy, Vampy, Vampy--for your sake, and the sake of your health--I hope you are not pregnant again! Please get some birth control if it turns out your test is negative. If it's positive, than we'll cross that bridge when we come to it.
 
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kayleesgrandma

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Oh Vampy, Vampy, Vampy--for your sake, and the sake of your health--I hope you are not pregnant again! Please get some birth control if it turns out your test is negative. If it's positive, than we'll cross that bridge when we come to it.
 
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kayleesgrandma

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Oh Vampy, Vampy, Vampy--for your sake, and the sake of your health--I hope you are not pregnant again! Please get some birth control if it turns out your test is negative. If it's positive, than we'll cross that bridge when we come to it.
 
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CFHockeyMom

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<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>sarabeth87</b></i>

<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>Lilith</b></i>



<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>kybert</b></i>







*biting tongue, very very hard*















be a good girl kylie, be a good girl. *pats self, takes a valium*</end quote></div>







Be careful, Kylie...you might bite it off! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"></end quote></div>





I've been reading her post for a while now (since before she even became pregnant) and anyways, I'm with both of you on this one.</end quote></div>

I'm couldn't agree more. This is just soooooo sad and didn't have to be.

Vampy, in addition to solving your domestic issues, which is the most responsible thing you've done to date, I urge you to please get some counseling. You cannot continue to make these bad choices nor can you continue to jeopardize your child. In short, grow up!
 
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CFHockeyMom

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<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>sarabeth87</b></i>

<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>Lilith</b></i>



<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>kybert</b></i>







*biting tongue, very very hard*















be a good girl kylie, be a good girl. *pats self, takes a valium*</end quote></div>







Be careful, Kylie...you might bite it off! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"></end quote></div>





I've been reading her post for a while now (since before she even became pregnant) and anyways, I'm with both of you on this one.</end quote></div>

I'm couldn't agree more. This is just soooooo sad and didn't have to be.

Vampy, in addition to solving your domestic issues, which is the most responsible thing you've done to date, I urge you to please get some counseling. You cannot continue to make these bad choices nor can you continue to jeopardize your child. In short, grow up!
 
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CFHockeyMom

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<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>sarabeth87</b></i>

<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>Lilith</b></i>



<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>kybert</b></i>







*biting tongue, very very hard*















be a good girl kylie, be a good girl. *pats self, takes a valium*</end quote></div>







Be careful, Kylie...you might bite it off! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif" border="0"></end quote></div>





I've been reading her post for a while now (since before she even became pregnant) and anyways, I'm with both of you on this one.</end quote></div>

I'm couldn't agree more. This is just soooooo sad and didn't have to be.

Vampy, in addition to solving your domestic issues, which is the most responsible thing you've done to date, I urge you to please get some counseling. You cannot continue to make these bad choices nor can you continue to jeopardize your child. In short, grow up!
 
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Fruity

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I would like to say, that vampy is doing a great job here. And I don't think she is "Jeopardizing" her child in any way. She's fighting hard and is trying in everyway to make things -better- for her child. Don't tell her she's made bad choices, tell her you support her even with past mistakes. She doesn't need to be told to seek councelling because she's making mistake after mistake. I can see suggesting councelling, but not for that reason at this specific time. In the future, yes, thats when you say something like that. Right now? She needs to be told we care and are here for her right this moment, because shes scared and she doesn't have many places to turn. Grow up yourself and recognize that what really needs to happen here, is us giving constructive ideas (which many have done, and good on ya) and being a group of people that can be turned to in times like this.






Vampy, I wish you the best of luck. I was really sorry to see this thread try to turn into a flame war. I should probably not have said the above, i'll get slammed for it i'm sure, but you know what? Go you and hang in there. Most would have crumbled under this stress. I'm here for you even though we don't know eachother well. Keep breathing, you'll make it through this. You're taking it one step at a time, and all your steps are for the best of you and lucas. I'm rooting for you.

Ceci
 
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Fruity

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I would like to say, that vampy is doing a great job here. And I don't think she is "Jeopardizing" her child in any way. She's fighting hard and is trying in everyway to make things -better- for her child. Don't tell her she's made bad choices, tell her you support her even with past mistakes. She doesn't need to be told to seek councelling because she's making mistake after mistake. I can see suggesting councelling, but not for that reason at this specific time. In the future, yes, thats when you say something like that. Right now? She needs to be told we care and are here for her right this moment, because shes scared and she doesn't have many places to turn. Grow up yourself and recognize that what really needs to happen here, is us giving constructive ideas (which many have done, and good on ya) and being a group of people that can be turned to in times like this.






Vampy, I wish you the best of luck. I was really sorry to see this thread try to turn into a flame war. I should probably not have said the above, i'll get slammed for it i'm sure, but you know what? Go you and hang in there. Most would have crumbled under this stress. I'm here for you even though we don't know eachother well. Keep breathing, you'll make it through this. You're taking it one step at a time, and all your steps are for the best of you and lucas. I'm rooting for you.

Ceci
 
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