debs2girls
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Congrats Vampy on the little one....I agree with Diane, loose the husband. I also know it is easier said than done. Good luck to you both.
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hey everyone long time no chat
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vampy, from your previous posts about your husband and now this one, it doesnt sound like hes up to the responsibility of having a child. you are going to have to make some major changes and tough decisions before this baby is born. sorry if i come across as harsh but the things you keep saying to us about him dont exactly paint him in a good light. you can do better.
vampy, from your previous posts about your husband and now this one, it doesnt sound like hes up to the responsibility of having a child. you are going to have to make some major changes and tough decisions before this baby is born. sorry if i come across as harsh but the things you keep saying to us about him dont exactly paint him in a good light. you can do better.
vampy, from your previous posts about your husband and now this one, it doesnt sound like hes up to the responsibility of having a child. you are going to have to make some major changes and tough decisions before this baby is born. sorry if i come across as harsh but the things you keep saying to us about him dont exactly paint him in a good light. you can do better.
Jennifer1981
New member
Hey girl,
Congrats on having a baby boy! I am sooooo happy for you.
As far as the baby maybe having CF, please don't worry so badly about it. It is not for sure yet and you don't want the stress of it to ruin your happiness over your pregnancy. You have been waiting for this moment for so long. Don't let it get ruined. Yes, it is a big concern, but honestly, I think that you have enough on your plate in regards to your husband. And that is a definate problem for now.
Did you always let him smoke around you? My husband use to smoke when I met him. I told him I had CF and he immediately started smoking outside. He never smoked around me and outside he would walk usually 10 feet behind me. He respected my CF. He actually quit altogether about 5 months ago.
I don't think your husband is showing you any respect or courtesy at all. If you let him smoke around you before, maybe that is part of why he thinks it's ok but I still think he is so wrong. First, you have CF. Second, you are pregnant. Third, the baby may have CF. It sounds to me like he lacks common sense too. Many people will not smoke around healthy pregnant women yet ones with health problems. I know you have posted concerns about him before. I don't mean to sound bad or hurt you but if he can't support you now then what about in the future if you get sick and have a baby to look after. Will he be there? If you have any doubt, you may want to make a change now before that road ever comes. I am only worried about you!!! You need someone you can count on. Is he that? <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-confused.gif" border="0">
Jennifer 25 w/CF
Congrats on having a baby boy! I am sooooo happy for you.
As far as the baby maybe having CF, please don't worry so badly about it. It is not for sure yet and you don't want the stress of it to ruin your happiness over your pregnancy. You have been waiting for this moment for so long. Don't let it get ruined. Yes, it is a big concern, but honestly, I think that you have enough on your plate in regards to your husband. And that is a definate problem for now.
Did you always let him smoke around you? My husband use to smoke when I met him. I told him I had CF and he immediately started smoking outside. He never smoked around me and outside he would walk usually 10 feet behind me. He respected my CF. He actually quit altogether about 5 months ago.
I don't think your husband is showing you any respect or courtesy at all. If you let him smoke around you before, maybe that is part of why he thinks it's ok but I still think he is so wrong. First, you have CF. Second, you are pregnant. Third, the baby may have CF. It sounds to me like he lacks common sense too. Many people will not smoke around healthy pregnant women yet ones with health problems. I know you have posted concerns about him before. I don't mean to sound bad or hurt you but if he can't support you now then what about in the future if you get sick and have a baby to look after. Will he be there? If you have any doubt, you may want to make a change now before that road ever comes. I am only worried about you!!! You need someone you can count on. Is he that? <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-confused.gif" border="0">
Jennifer 25 w/CF
Jennifer1981
New member
Hey girl,
Congrats on having a baby boy! I am sooooo happy for you.
As far as the baby maybe having CF, please don't worry so badly about it. It is not for sure yet and you don't want the stress of it to ruin your happiness over your pregnancy. You have been waiting for this moment for so long. Don't let it get ruined. Yes, it is a big concern, but honestly, I think that you have enough on your plate in regards to your husband. And that is a definate problem for now.
Did you always let him smoke around you? My husband use to smoke when I met him. I told him I had CF and he immediately started smoking outside. He never smoked around me and outside he would walk usually 10 feet behind me. He respected my CF. He actually quit altogether about 5 months ago.
I don't think your husband is showing you any respect or courtesy at all. If you let him smoke around you before, maybe that is part of why he thinks it's ok but I still think he is so wrong. First, you have CF. Second, you are pregnant. Third, the baby may have CF. It sounds to me like he lacks common sense too. Many people will not smoke around healthy pregnant women yet ones with health problems. I know you have posted concerns about him before. I don't mean to sound bad or hurt you but if he can't support you now then what about in the future if you get sick and have a baby to look after. Will he be there? If you have any doubt, you may want to make a change now before that road ever comes. I am only worried about you!!! You need someone you can count on. Is he that? <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-confused.gif" border="0">
Jennifer 25 w/CF
Congrats on having a baby boy! I am sooooo happy for you.
As far as the baby maybe having CF, please don't worry so badly about it. It is not for sure yet and you don't want the stress of it to ruin your happiness over your pregnancy. You have been waiting for this moment for so long. Don't let it get ruined. Yes, it is a big concern, but honestly, I think that you have enough on your plate in regards to your husband. And that is a definate problem for now.
Did you always let him smoke around you? My husband use to smoke when I met him. I told him I had CF and he immediately started smoking outside. He never smoked around me and outside he would walk usually 10 feet behind me. He respected my CF. He actually quit altogether about 5 months ago.
I don't think your husband is showing you any respect or courtesy at all. If you let him smoke around you before, maybe that is part of why he thinks it's ok but I still think he is so wrong. First, you have CF. Second, you are pregnant. Third, the baby may have CF. It sounds to me like he lacks common sense too. Many people will not smoke around healthy pregnant women yet ones with health problems. I know you have posted concerns about him before. I don't mean to sound bad or hurt you but if he can't support you now then what about in the future if you get sick and have a baby to look after. Will he be there? If you have any doubt, you may want to make a change now before that road ever comes. I am only worried about you!!! You need someone you can count on. Is he that? <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-confused.gif" border="0">
Jennifer 25 w/CF
Jennifer1981
New member
Hey girl,
Congrats on having a baby boy! I am sooooo happy for you.
As far as the baby maybe having CF, please don't worry so badly about it. It is not for sure yet and you don't want the stress of it to ruin your happiness over your pregnancy. You have been waiting for this moment for so long. Don't let it get ruined. Yes, it is a big concern, but honestly, I think that you have enough on your plate in regards to your husband. And that is a definate problem for now.
Did you always let him smoke around you? My husband use to smoke when I met him. I told him I had CF and he immediately started smoking outside. He never smoked around me and outside he would walk usually 10 feet behind me. He respected my CF. He actually quit altogether about 5 months ago.
I don't think your husband is showing you any respect or courtesy at all. If you let him smoke around you before, maybe that is part of why he thinks it's ok but I still think he is so wrong. First, you have CF. Second, you are pregnant. Third, the baby may have CF. It sounds to me like he lacks common sense too. Many people will not smoke around healthy pregnant women yet ones with health problems. I know you have posted concerns about him before. I don't mean to sound bad or hurt you but if he can't support you now then what about in the future if you get sick and have a baby to look after. Will he be there? If you have any doubt, you may want to make a change now before that road ever comes. I am only worried about you!!! You need someone you can count on. Is he that? <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-confused.gif" border="0">
Jennifer 25 w/CF
Congrats on having a baby boy! I am sooooo happy for you.
As far as the baby maybe having CF, please don't worry so badly about it. It is not for sure yet and you don't want the stress of it to ruin your happiness over your pregnancy. You have been waiting for this moment for so long. Don't let it get ruined. Yes, it is a big concern, but honestly, I think that you have enough on your plate in regards to your husband. And that is a definate problem for now.
Did you always let him smoke around you? My husband use to smoke when I met him. I told him I had CF and he immediately started smoking outside. He never smoked around me and outside he would walk usually 10 feet behind me. He respected my CF. He actually quit altogether about 5 months ago.
I don't think your husband is showing you any respect or courtesy at all. If you let him smoke around you before, maybe that is part of why he thinks it's ok but I still think he is so wrong. First, you have CF. Second, you are pregnant. Third, the baby may have CF. It sounds to me like he lacks common sense too. Many people will not smoke around healthy pregnant women yet ones with health problems. I know you have posted concerns about him before. I don't mean to sound bad or hurt you but if he can't support you now then what about in the future if you get sick and have a baby to look after. Will he be there? If you have any doubt, you may want to make a change now before that road ever comes. I am only worried about you!!! You need someone you can count on. Is he that? <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-confused.gif" border="0">
Jennifer 25 w/CF
wanderlost
New member
<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>MyNewfy</b></i>
Congratulations on your baby boy!
I think you need to put yourself and your baby first. All true love will follow.</end quote></div>
well stated.
Congrats on your babe! Things have a funny way of working out for the best, though it's small consolation when you're in the middle of a mess. I will be thinking about all of you.
Congratulations on your baby boy!
I think you need to put yourself and your baby first. All true love will follow.</end quote></div>
well stated.
Congrats on your babe! Things have a funny way of working out for the best, though it's small consolation when you're in the middle of a mess. I will be thinking about all of you.
wanderlost
New member
<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>MyNewfy</b></i>
Congratulations on your baby boy!
I think you need to put yourself and your baby first. All true love will follow.</end quote></div>
well stated.
Congrats on your babe! Things have a funny way of working out for the best, though it's small consolation when you're in the middle of a mess. I will be thinking about all of you.
Congratulations on your baby boy!
I think you need to put yourself and your baby first. All true love will follow.</end quote></div>
well stated.
Congrats on your babe! Things have a funny way of working out for the best, though it's small consolation when you're in the middle of a mess. I will be thinking about all of you.
wanderlost
New member
<div class="FTQUOTE"><begin quote><i>Originally posted by: <b>MyNewfy</b></i>
Congratulations on your baby boy!
I think you need to put yourself and your baby first. All true love will follow.</end quote></div>
well stated.
Congrats on your babe! Things have a funny way of working out for the best, though it's small consolation when you're in the middle of a mess. I will be thinking about all of you.
Congratulations on your baby boy!
I think you need to put yourself and your baby first. All true love will follow.</end quote></div>
well stated.
Congrats on your babe! Things have a funny way of working out for the best, though it's small consolation when you're in the middle of a mess. I will be thinking about all of you.
I learned people will treat you the way you want to be treated. If you do not put up with his crap then he will either move on or change. Be good to yourself always and if you give in to his bad ways he will just keep on trying to control you.
Be strong and stand up for your life and for your childs rights. You know better because you posted your real thoughts. Listen to your inner voice and give him the rules.
If he ever lifts a hand to you to try and hurt you call the police.
Be strong and stand up for your life and for your childs rights. You know better because you posted your real thoughts. Listen to your inner voice and give him the rules.
If he ever lifts a hand to you to try and hurt you call the police.
I learned people will treat you the way you want to be treated. If you do not put up with his crap then he will either move on or change. Be good to yourself always and if you give in to his bad ways he will just keep on trying to control you.
Be strong and stand up for your life and for your childs rights. You know better because you posted your real thoughts. Listen to your inner voice and give him the rules.
If he ever lifts a hand to you to try and hurt you call the police.
Be strong and stand up for your life and for your childs rights. You know better because you posted your real thoughts. Listen to your inner voice and give him the rules.
If he ever lifts a hand to you to try and hurt you call the police.
I learned people will treat you the way you want to be treated. If you do not put up with his crap then he will either move on or change. Be good to yourself always and if you give in to his bad ways he will just keep on trying to control you.
Be strong and stand up for your life and for your childs rights. You know better because you posted your real thoughts. Listen to your inner voice and give him the rules.
If he ever lifts a hand to you to try and hurt you call the police.
Be strong and stand up for your life and for your childs rights. You know better because you posted your real thoughts. Listen to your inner voice and give him the rules.
If he ever lifts a hand to you to try and hurt you call the police.
sarabeth87
New member
Well first, congrats on the baby boy. You should really try not to dwell on the possible CF thing because you will be completely miserable, but I know that's easier said then done, but now on to your husband. He sounds like a complete ass, and from experience, some people change, but most don't. Him smoking around you is VERY bad for your health and the health of your unborn child. If he's so selfish that he would put his wife and his unborn child's life at risk to satisfy his own cravings, he's pathetic and you need to get out of there while you still can. My husband smokes and he has now decided that he wants to quit. He does not smoke in our house, nor has he ever. He knew I had CF before we were even together and from the beginning I made it clear to him that there would be no smoking around me. He is very concerned for my health and he gets on my case if I don't do my treatments. Your husband sounds very immature. I don't mean to sound rude or like I know it all because I don't, but we are talking about your health and the health of your child.