How are you feeling?

bittyhorse23

New member
I usually only get this from family members or friends I don't see very often. So it doesn't usually annoy me because I know that they are just trying to show they care. With these people I always so "oh I'm doing good. Just a few roadbumps right now" or something along those lines. I never say "Oh I feel like sh*t and I hope I die soon so it all ends" which is how I feels sometimes. LOL. Only close family and friends get that response haha!!!

I have to agree with JennifersHope on this one. She said that people don't really know how to deal with us. IMO I think it is true. They want to show they care and this is really the only way to do it.

Now if someone from work were to come up and ask me how I was feeling I would be annoyed. So I guess it just depends on the person who does the asking. But I also think I would be more embarassed because now everyone at work knows.

Hmm think I went off topic there sorry! Hope I helped a little

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bittyhorse23

New member
I usually only get this from family members or friends I don't see very often. So it doesn't usually annoy me because I know that they are just trying to show they care. With these people I always so "oh I'm doing good. Just a few roadbumps right now" or something along those lines. I never say "Oh I feel like sh*t and I hope I die soon so it all ends" which is how I feels sometimes. LOL. Only close family and friends get that response haha!!!

I have to agree with JennifersHope on this one. She said that people don't really know how to deal with us. IMO I think it is true. They want to show they care and this is really the only way to do it.

Now if someone from work were to come up and ask me how I was feeling I would be annoyed. So I guess it just depends on the person who does the asking. But I also think I would be more embarassed because now everyone at work knows.

Hmm think I went off topic there sorry! Hope I helped a little

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bittyhorse23

New member
I usually only get this from family members or friends I don't see very often. So it doesn't usually annoy me because I know that they are just trying to show they care. With these people I always so "oh I'm doing good. Just a few roadbumps right now" or something along those lines. I never say "Oh I feel like sh*t and I hope I die soon so it all ends" which is how I feels sometimes. LOL. Only close family and friends get that response haha!!!

I have to agree with JennifersHope on this one. She said that people don't really know how to deal with us. IMO I think it is true. They want to show they care and this is really the only way to do it.

Now if someone from work were to come up and ask me how I was feeling I would be annoyed. So I guess it just depends on the person who does the asking. But I also think I would be more embarassed because now everyone at work knows.

Hmm think I went off topic there sorry! Hope I helped a little

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bittyhorse23

New member
I usually only get this from family members or friends I don't see very often. So it doesn't usually annoy me because I know that they are just trying to show they care. With these people I always so "oh I'm doing good. Just a few roadbumps right now" or something along those lines. I never say "Oh I feel like sh*t and I hope I die soon so it all ends" which is how I feels sometimes. LOL. Only close family and friends get that response haha!!!

I have to agree with JennifersHope on this one. She said that people don't really know how to deal with us. IMO I think it is true. They want to show they care and this is really the only way to do it.

Now if someone from work were to come up and ask me how I was feeling I would be annoyed. So I guess it just depends on the person who does the asking. But I also think I would be more embarassed because now everyone at work knows.

Hmm think I went off topic there sorry! Hope I helped a little

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bittyhorse23

New member
I usually only get this from family members or friends I don't see very often. So it doesn't usually annoy me because I know that they are just trying to show they care. With these people I always so "oh I'm doing good. Just a few roadbumps right now" or something along those lines. I never say "Oh I feel like sh*t and I hope I die soon so it all ends" which is how I feels sometimes. LOL. Only close family and friends get that response haha!!!

I have to agree with JennifersHope on this one. She said that people don't really know how to deal with us. IMO I think it is true. They want to show they care and this is really the only way to do it.

Now if someone from work were to come up and ask me how I was feeling I would be annoyed. So I guess it just depends on the person who does the asking. But I also think I would be more embarassed because now everyone at work knows.

Hmm think I went off topic there sorry! Hope I helped a little

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xosder22

Member
the thing that bothers me the most about people asking me how i feel is that me personally could care less how they feel so why should they care about how i feel?

I mean really, if my co-worker has a cold and doesn't feel well because they are congested and hacking up phlegm constantly, i personally think, "well good now you know how i feel most days when i'm coughing up phlegm all morning long, welcome to my world, why don't you stick around for a while."

also one other thing that really bothers me is my family.

lets say we are out doing something and i start coughing just a little bit. which isn't unusual for me. they constantly ask if i need a breathing treatment. i mean really, c'mon, just cause i start coughing a little bit doesn't mean that i need to do a breathing treatment. i mean what the f@#$ I was diagnosed 25 years ago, you think my family would understand just a little
 

xosder22

Member
the thing that bothers me the most about people asking me how i feel is that me personally could care less how they feel so why should they care about how i feel?

I mean really, if my co-worker has a cold and doesn't feel well because they are congested and hacking up phlegm constantly, i personally think, "well good now you know how i feel most days when i'm coughing up phlegm all morning long, welcome to my world, why don't you stick around for a while."

also one other thing that really bothers me is my family.

lets say we are out doing something and i start coughing just a little bit. which isn't unusual for me. they constantly ask if i need a breathing treatment. i mean really, c'mon, just cause i start coughing a little bit doesn't mean that i need to do a breathing treatment. i mean what the f@#$ I was diagnosed 25 years ago, you think my family would understand just a little
 

xosder22

Member
the thing that bothers me the most about people asking me how i feel is that me personally could care less how they feel so why should they care about how i feel?

I mean really, if my co-worker has a cold and doesn't feel well because they are congested and hacking up phlegm constantly, i personally think, "well good now you know how i feel most days when i'm coughing up phlegm all morning long, welcome to my world, why don't you stick around for a while."

also one other thing that really bothers me is my family.

lets say we are out doing something and i start coughing just a little bit. which isn't unusual for me. they constantly ask if i need a breathing treatment. i mean really, c'mon, just cause i start coughing a little bit doesn't mean that i need to do a breathing treatment. i mean what the f@#$ I was diagnosed 25 years ago, you think my family would understand just a little
 

xosder22

Member
the thing that bothers me the most about people asking me how i feel is that me personally could care less how they feel so why should they care about how i feel?

I mean really, if my co-worker has a cold and doesn't feel well because they are congested and hacking up phlegm constantly, i personally think, "well good now you know how i feel most days when i'm coughing up phlegm all morning long, welcome to my world, why don't you stick around for a while."

also one other thing that really bothers me is my family.

lets say we are out doing something and i start coughing just a little bit. which isn't unusual for me. they constantly ask if i need a breathing treatment. i mean really, c'mon, just cause i start coughing a little bit doesn't mean that i need to do a breathing treatment. i mean what the f@#$ I was diagnosed 25 years ago, you think my family would understand just a little
 

xosder22

Member
the thing that bothers me the most about people asking me how i feel is that me personally could care less how they feel so why should they care about how i feel?

I mean really, if my co-worker has a cold and doesn't feel well because they are congested and hacking up phlegm constantly, i personally think, "well good now you know how i feel most days when i'm coughing up phlegm all morning long, welcome to my world, why don't you stick around for a while."

also one other thing that really bothers me is my family.

lets say we are out doing something and i start coughing just a little bit. which isn't unusual for me. they constantly ask if i need a breathing treatment. i mean really, c'mon, just cause i start coughing a little bit doesn't mean that i need to do a breathing treatment. i mean what the f@#$ I was diagnosed 25 years ago, you think my family would understand just a little
 

Diane

New member
I have to almost laugh when a woman in the same car club asked me this summer............ <i>" How are you doing with your problem"</i>
LOL... i wasnt sure if she was talking about my car or my illness.
My cars name ( it is on the hood scoop in Gold) is <i>Problem Child</i> , so i wasnt sure if she meant the car or my illness. No-ones ever called it a problem, most just ask how i am feeling.
 

Diane

New member
I have to almost laugh when a woman in the same car club asked me this summer............ <i>" How are you doing with your problem"</i>
LOL... i wasnt sure if she was talking about my car or my illness.
My cars name ( it is on the hood scoop in Gold) is <i>Problem Child</i> , so i wasnt sure if she meant the car or my illness. No-ones ever called it a problem, most just ask how i am feeling.
 

Diane

New member
I have to almost laugh when a woman in the same car club asked me this summer............ <i>" How are you doing with your problem"</i>
LOL... i wasnt sure if she was talking about my car or my illness.
My cars name ( it is on the hood scoop in Gold) is <i>Problem Child</i> , so i wasnt sure if she meant the car or my illness. No-ones ever called it a problem, most just ask how i am feeling.
 

Diane

New member
I have to almost laugh when a woman in the same car club asked me this summer............ <i>" How are you doing with your problem"</i>
LOL... i wasnt sure if she was talking about my car or my illness.
My cars name ( it is on the hood scoop in Gold) is <i>Problem Child</i> , so i wasnt sure if she meant the car or my illness. No-ones ever called it a problem, most just ask how i am feeling.
 

Diane

New member
I have to almost laugh when a woman in the same car club asked me this summer............ <i>" How are you doing with your problem"</i>
LOL... i wasnt sure if she was talking about my car or my illness.
My cars name ( it is on the hood scoop in Gold) is <i>Problem Child</i> , so i wasnt sure if she meant the car or my illness. No-ones ever called it a problem, most just ask how i am feeling.
 

LisaV

New member
My late husband always answered with one of 3 responses:

"Better"
"The same"
"Worse"

Of course, if he didn't really know the person well and hadn't seen them recently he mostly just answered "the same" because either "better" or "worse" opens up Pandora's box.
 

LisaV

New member
My late husband always answered with one of 3 responses:

"Better"
"The same"
"Worse"

Of course, if he didn't really know the person well and hadn't seen them recently he mostly just answered "the same" because either "better" or "worse" opens up Pandora's box.
 

LisaV

New member
My late husband always answered with one of 3 responses:

"Better"
"The same"
"Worse"

Of course, if he didn't really know the person well and hadn't seen them recently he mostly just answered "the same" because either "better" or "worse" opens up Pandora's box.
 

LisaV

New member
My late husband always answered with one of 3 responses:

"Better"
"The same"
"Worse"

Of course, if he didn't really know the person well and hadn't seen them recently he mostly just answered "the same" because either "better" or "worse" opens up Pandora's box.
 

LisaV

New member
My late husband always answered with one of 3 responses:

"Better"
"The same"
"Worse"

Of course, if he didn't really know the person well and hadn't seen them recently he mostly just answered "the same" because either "better" or "worse" opens up Pandora's box.
 
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