How do you feel when SOME ONE else tells others you have CF?

[Kelli]

Thanks Lindsey,
I KNEW you'd have something positive to say.

I'm glad you (and some others) know how I feel. I brought the subject of "who to tell CF to" up to my husband today, in the car on the way to church. He joked about it and told him to make a list of who he could talk to (CF & otherwise) so it was funny. But I told him not to tell everyone, that would be at my disgression.

He has some totally awesome friends/associates to talk to about CF, plus my family is always open to it. So I'm not trying to cut him off from getting the support he needs, I just don't want everyone to know about it.

I guess it's like the same thing, some people don't know HOW to deal with it and I have no extra energy to teach & preach to them.....oh, and plus I don't want to/need to.

Thanks for the support, I really truly appreciate it! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

Kelli

 

[Kelli]

Thanks Lindsey,
I KNEW you'd have something positive to say.

I'm glad you (and some others) know how I feel. I brought the subject of "who to tell CF to" up to my husband today, in the car on the way to church. He joked about it and told him to make a list of who he could talk to (CF & otherwise) so it was funny. But I told him not to tell everyone, that would be at my disgression.

He has some totally awesome friends/associates to talk to about CF, plus my family is always open to it. So I'm not trying to cut him off from getting the support he needs, I just don't want everyone to know about it.

I guess it's like the same thing, some people don't know HOW to deal with it and I have no extra energy to teach & preach to them.....oh, and plus I don't want to/need to.

Thanks for the support, I really truly appreciate it! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

Kelli

 

[Kelli]

Thanks Lindsey,
I KNEW you'd have something positive to say.

I'm glad you (and some others) know how I feel. I brought the subject of "who to tell CF to" up to my husband today, in the car on the way to church. He joked about it and told him to make a list of who he could talk to (CF & otherwise) so it was funny. But I told him not to tell everyone, that would be at my disgression.

He has some totally awesome friends/associates to talk to about CF, plus my family is always open to it. So I'm not trying to cut him off from getting the support he needs, I just don't want everyone to know about it.

I guess it's like the same thing, some people don't know HOW to deal with it and I have no extra energy to teach & preach to them.....oh, and plus I don't want to/need to.

Thanks for the support, I really truly appreciate it! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

Kelli

 

[Kelli]

Thanks Lindsey,
I KNEW you'd have something positive to say.

I'm glad you (and some others) know how I feel. I brought the subject of "who to tell CF to" up to my husband today, in the car on the way to church. He joked about it and told him to make a list of who he could talk to (CF & otherwise) so it was funny. But I told him not to tell everyone, that would be at my disgression.

He has some totally awesome friends/associates to talk to about CF, plus my family is always open to it. So I'm not trying to cut him off from getting the support he needs, I just don't want everyone to know about it.

I guess it's like the same thing, some people don't know HOW to deal with it and I have no extra energy to teach & preach to them.....oh, and plus I don't want to/need to.

Thanks for the support, I really truly appreciate it! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

Kelli

 

[Kelli]

Thanks Lindsey,
I KNEW you'd have something positive to say.

I'm glad you (and some others) know how I feel. I brought the subject of "who to tell CF to" up to my husband today, in the car on the way to church. He joked about it and told him to make a list of who he could talk to (CF & otherwise) so it was funny. But I told him not to tell everyone, that would be at my disgression.

He has some totally awesome friends/associates to talk to about CF, plus my family is always open to it. So I'm not trying to cut him off from getting the support he needs, I just don't want everyone to know about it.

I guess it's like the same thing, some people don't know HOW to deal with it and I have no extra energy to teach & preach to them.....oh, and plus I don't want to/need to.

Thanks for the support, I really truly appreciate it! <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">

Kelli

 

[blondelawyer]

Glad you were able to talk to hubby about it and that he seemed to respond to it well!!

Take care.

 

[blondelawyer]

Glad you were able to talk to hubby about it and that he seemed to respond to it well!!

Take care.

 

[blondelawyer]

Glad you were able to talk to hubby about it and that he seemed to respond to it well!!

Take care.

 

[blondelawyer]

Glad you were able to talk to hubby about it and that he seemed to respond to it well!!

Take care.

 

[blondelawyer]

Glad you were able to talk to hubby about it and that he seemed to respond to it well!!

Take care.

 

[Sakem]

Guess I'm a little confused......if u don't want your husband telling others, not sure if he told her u had CF or just that u were sick, then u need to tell him, which I see u finally talked to him about.

Do u feel like this lady likes your husband?

 

[Sakem]

Guess I'm a little confused......if u don't want your husband telling others, not sure if he told her u had CF or just that u were sick, then u need to tell him, which I see u finally talked to him about.

Do u feel like this lady likes your husband?

 

[Sakem]

Guess I'm a little confused......if u don't want your husband telling others, not sure if he told her u had CF or just that u were sick, then u need to tell him, which I see u finally talked to him about.

Do u feel like this lady likes your husband?

 

[Sakem]

Guess I'm a little confused......if u don't want your husband telling others, not sure if he told her u had CF or just that u were sick, then u need to tell him, which I see u finally talked to him about.

Do u feel like this lady likes your husband?

 

[Sakem]

Guess I'm a little confused......if u don't want your husband telling others, not sure if he told her u had CF or just that u were sick, then u need to tell him, which I see u finally talked to him about.

Do u feel like this lady likes your husband?

 

[Kelli]

Sakem,
No I don't think she likes my husband. But I DO not trust her. I think she has zero boundaries in general. But I do trust my husband 100000% so there is no issue there.

I don't know if she's threatened by me (which has happened & causes people to be rude, etc). So I really don't know what her problem is. I think I have my life pretty much together and I don't know if she is jealous of that?!

Maybe since she's a single mom in a job that doesn't have much room for advancement, etc. perhaps that makes my life look perfect or something (which may I add, is not perfect).

But some people have the impression that I have it all. My husband has a lot of 'toys' but that is because we have worked our tails off to have a successful business. And then, I'm 18 years younger than him, which people think that means I'm nothing more than a trophy wife. And my college degree is in social work (which is nothing close to the job I have now) which people assume I make as much as my husband does....and I don't. I hate how people look at our lives from the outside and assume we have it all, possessions don't mean that we are perfect, have the perfect life, have the perfect marriage, raise the perfect kids, etc. We deal with stuff that everyone else deals with.....and then add a business that my husband works at 7 days a week, health issues, tons of other stuff,etc.

So you can see all of these things from the outside and have a completely different perspective than what my real life is. So I don't know. Maybe she has some different opinon of me than is what really true. I think she sees me at some rich buisness b*tch and chooses to look no further. She just has a totally pushy personality and I on the other hand would do anything to help others and those personalities just clash...so far at least.

I really don't know what her issue is and I'm tired of trying to figure it out. But I do know that she will take a step back when it comes to my life/health/business, the good thing is, we can always fire her. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> Evil I know.


<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
KELLI

 

[Kelli]

Sakem,
No I don't think she likes my husband. But I DO not trust her. I think she has zero boundaries in general. But I do trust my husband 100000% so there is no issue there.

I don't know if she's threatened by me (which has happened & causes people to be rude, etc). So I really don't know what her problem is. I think I have my life pretty much together and I don't know if she is jealous of that?!

Maybe since she's a single mom in a job that doesn't have much room for advancement, etc. perhaps that makes my life look perfect or something (which may I add, is not perfect).

But some people have the impression that I have it all. My husband has a lot of 'toys' but that is because we have worked our tails off to have a successful business. And then, I'm 18 years younger than him, which people think that means I'm nothing more than a trophy wife. And my college degree is in social work (which is nothing close to the job I have now) which people assume I make as much as my husband does....and I don't. I hate how people look at our lives from the outside and assume we have it all, possessions don't mean that we are perfect, have the perfect life, have the perfect marriage, raise the perfect kids, etc. We deal with stuff that everyone else deals with.....and then add a business that my husband works at 7 days a week, health issues, tons of other stuff,etc.

So you can see all of these things from the outside and have a completely different perspective than what my real life is. So I don't know. Maybe she has some different opinon of me than is what really true. I think she sees me at some rich buisness b*tch and chooses to look no further. She just has a totally pushy personality and I on the other hand would do anything to help others and those personalities just clash...so far at least.

I really don't know what her issue is and I'm tired of trying to figure it out. But I do know that she will take a step back when it comes to my life/health/business, the good thing is, we can always fire her. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> Evil I know.


<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
KELLI

 

[Kelli]

Sakem,
No I don't think she likes my husband. But I DO not trust her. I think she has zero boundaries in general. But I do trust my husband 100000% so there is no issue there.

I don't know if she's threatened by me (which has happened & causes people to be rude, etc). So I really don't know what her problem is. I think I have my life pretty much together and I don't know if she is jealous of that?!

Maybe since she's a single mom in a job that doesn't have much room for advancement, etc. perhaps that makes my life look perfect or something (which may I add, is not perfect).

But some people have the impression that I have it all. My husband has a lot of 'toys' but that is because we have worked our tails off to have a successful business. And then, I'm 18 years younger than him, which people think that means I'm nothing more than a trophy wife. And my college degree is in social work (which is nothing close to the job I have now) which people assume I make as much as my husband does....and I don't. I hate how people look at our lives from the outside and assume we have it all, possessions don't mean that we are perfect, have the perfect life, have the perfect marriage, raise the perfect kids, etc. We deal with stuff that everyone else deals with.....and then add a business that my husband works at 7 days a week, health issues, tons of other stuff,etc.

So you can see all of these things from the outside and have a completely different perspective than what my real life is. So I don't know. Maybe she has some different opinon of me than is what really true. I think she sees me at some rich buisness b*tch and chooses to look no further. She just has a totally pushy personality and I on the other hand would do anything to help others and those personalities just clash...so far at least.

I really don't know what her issue is and I'm tired of trying to figure it out. But I do know that she will take a step back when it comes to my life/health/business, the good thing is, we can always fire her. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> Evil I know.


<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
KELLI

 

[Kelli]

Sakem,
No I don't think she likes my husband. But I DO not trust her. I think she has zero boundaries in general. But I do trust my husband 100000% so there is no issue there.

I don't know if she's threatened by me (which has happened & causes people to be rude, etc). So I really don't know what her problem is. I think I have my life pretty much together and I don't know if she is jealous of that?!

Maybe since she's a single mom in a job that doesn't have much room for advancement, etc. perhaps that makes my life look perfect or something (which may I add, is not perfect).

But some people have the impression that I have it all. My husband has a lot of 'toys' but that is because we have worked our tails off to have a successful business. And then, I'm 18 years younger than him, which people think that means I'm nothing more than a trophy wife. And my college degree is in social work (which is nothing close to the job I have now) which people assume I make as much as my husband does....and I don't. I hate how people look at our lives from the outside and assume we have it all, possessions don't mean that we are perfect, have the perfect life, have the perfect marriage, raise the perfect kids, etc. We deal with stuff that everyone else deals with.....and then add a business that my husband works at 7 days a week, health issues, tons of other stuff,etc.

So you can see all of these things from the outside and have a completely different perspective than what my real life is. So I don't know. Maybe she has some different opinon of me than is what really true. I think she sees me at some rich buisness b*tch and chooses to look no further. She just has a totally pushy personality and I on the other hand would do anything to help others and those personalities just clash...so far at least.

I really don't know what her issue is and I'm tired of trying to figure it out. But I do know that she will take a step back when it comes to my life/health/business, the good thing is, we can always fire her. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> Evil I know.


<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
KELLI

 

[Kelli]

Sakem,
No I don't think she likes my husband. But I DO not trust her. I think she has zero boundaries in general. But I do trust my husband 100000% so there is no issue there.

I don't know if she's threatened by me (which has happened & causes people to be rude, etc). So I really don't know what her problem is. I think I have my life pretty much together and I don't know if she is jealous of that?!

Maybe since she's a single mom in a job that doesn't have much room for advancement, etc. perhaps that makes my life look perfect or something (which may I add, is not perfect).

But some people have the impression that I have it all. My husband has a lot of 'toys' but that is because we have worked our tails off to have a successful business. And then, I'm 18 years younger than him, which people think that means I'm nothing more than a trophy wife. And my college degree is in social work (which is nothing close to the job I have now) which people assume I make as much as my husband does....and I don't. I hate how people look at our lives from the outside and assume we have it all, possessions don't mean that we are perfect, have the perfect life, have the perfect marriage, raise the perfect kids, etc. We deal with stuff that everyone else deals with.....and then add a business that my husband works at 7 days a week, health issues, tons of other stuff,etc.

So you can see all of these things from the outside and have a completely different perspective than what my real life is. So I don't know. Maybe she has some different opinon of me than is what really true. I think she sees me at some rich buisness b*tch and chooses to look no further. She just has a totally pushy personality and I on the other hand would do anything to help others and those personalities just clash...so far at least.

I really don't know what her issue is and I'm tired of trying to figure it out. But I do know that she will take a step back when it comes to my life/health/business, the good thing is, we can always fire her. <img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0"> Evil I know.


<img src="i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif" border="0">
KELLI