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NanaOf8GirlsAndCounting
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I guess, I am having a hard time understanding why there should be any problems with family members. Set up the rules, no smoking, no perfume, no air fresheners. We already used All Free because of allergys so no problem there. Even before Graycie was born, we had a separate Christmas because the twins were premies and another Granddaughter had RSV. I keep a very clean home, OCD! However, the other Grandparents not so much, nasty dog hair on everything, so the rule is that all get togethers happen at Graycie's home or Nana's house. If anyone is sick, they stay home. No mats in the bath, they are just gross. However, sponges are used in my home and are washed daily or thrown out. Also at Nana's, Graycie has a stuffed kitty that is just hers, no one else plays with this kitty and it is washed often in the washer. I hate stuffed animals and have limited it to just this one because she is so attached to it. We also have a large bottle or hand sanitizer for everyone to use. We also got rid of our sandbox for the kids, instead we have a huge jungle gym for all of them to play on. I wouldn't pick so much on the small stuff, just set firm rules and if they don't follow them, they don't see her.