If this were my last night and my last thoughts I would probably say something completely meaningless because I wouldn't be thinking properly lol.
Seriously though. Thoughts to impart:
I would want you to know that you need to be true to yourself and you will never go wrong. Go with your conscience and it will not lead you astray.
Listen to people (REAAALLLYY Listen) you will be amazed at what you hear.
Realize that there is often wisdom and beauty in the unknown and in things that are different than the normal.
Accept others and appreciate their circumstances even if you do not agree with them at all.
Have compassion and empathy for people in all situations in life. Try your best to put yourself on the receiving end of your actions - how would they make you feel (HONESTLY).
Don't back down when you feel strongly about something - If YOU don't defend yourself no one else will. Stand firm in your beliefs and opinions while also maintaining open mind. It IS possible to listen openmindedly to someone but not agree.
Focus on the positive and the negative won't seem so bad.
We are each living a different set of circumstances and going through different experiences - though some journeys may be similar none are the exact same - we would NOT be given these struggles and triumphs if we were unable to handle them. Accept that you are strong enough to make it through what you choose to make it through and if you resign yourself to defeat that will come as well. That is not to say that the triumph will happen easily - because most likely it won't BUT it will happen.
Know that ultimately things work out the way they are supposed too. Things that don't make sense today will make sense in the future - though that future may be weeks, months or years away. All the pieces will fall into place and the puzzle will become easier to see.
Rejoice in the small things because sometimes the small things are all you have to rejoice in - stop waiting for the next big thing - make the small things big!
Be proud of yourself - we all have something to be proud of - some may just be more obvious than others.
Don't surround yourself with people that drain you if you do not want too - it is your life you need to take control of it and not allow others to control it for you.
Have fun and Enjoy life - laugh alot or as much as you can and smile more.
Always remember in the grand scheme of things we really don't know THAT much. There is always something else to be gained from the world and the people in it.
Take Care,
Linds