NYCLawGirl
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Wow, there are so many good and useful discussions going on in this forum right now! You guys all have wonderful opinions and perspectives, I'm so glad this topic was finally addressed.
Adding another perspective to the mix: I have actually had people tell me I must be doing something wrong because my CF is currently more severe, which has always irked me. I completely agree that "mild" CF is not a good term - there are "mild" stages to CF, but in the end it's ridiculous to use terms like that for a number of reasons. For one thing, I think it devalues the effort many "atypical" CFers put into maintaining their health. It can also interfere with compliance, etc. At the same time, I find it difficult to deal with when people assume that just because there are healthier CFers out there living into their 50s, 60s, and beyond that those of us who are struggling with the disease are doing something wrong. I am certainly not perfect, but I am compliant and I have always had wonderful doctors. I was diagnosed with CF at 6 weeks due to massive pneumonia and have been on therapy every single day since then. So while I would never devalue the efforts and achievements of those who live with the disease much longer with fewer complications, I think that to some extent the sword cuts both ways. Hopefully you guys don't think I'm just being hyper-sensitive here...I don't want a pity party, just pointing out the other side of the coin.
IMHO, since CF is a single name for a disease caused by a large number of different mutations, generalizations are beyond stupid. Life expectancy is beyond stupid. There are still children suffering and dying from this disease - children who, along with their parents, do everything right and fight incredibly hard. There are also people who, with equal effort and admirable fight, live healthy lives and have normal lifespans. Unfortunately that kind of individual variation and unpredictability is tough to explain to people outside of the CF community. I am always amused by the fact that some people, when they hear I have CF, are amazed that I lived to 26. Others, when they hear my cough or if I tell them I"m considering transplant, seem convinced that I must never do any treatments at all since I haven't made it 36.7 years old yet. Either reaction is utterly ridiculous in my view.
Adding another perspective to the mix: I have actually had people tell me I must be doing something wrong because my CF is currently more severe, which has always irked me. I completely agree that "mild" CF is not a good term - there are "mild" stages to CF, but in the end it's ridiculous to use terms like that for a number of reasons. For one thing, I think it devalues the effort many "atypical" CFers put into maintaining their health. It can also interfere with compliance, etc. At the same time, I find it difficult to deal with when people assume that just because there are healthier CFers out there living into their 50s, 60s, and beyond that those of us who are struggling with the disease are doing something wrong. I am certainly not perfect, but I am compliant and I have always had wonderful doctors. I was diagnosed with CF at 6 weeks due to massive pneumonia and have been on therapy every single day since then. So while I would never devalue the efforts and achievements of those who live with the disease much longer with fewer complications, I think that to some extent the sword cuts both ways. Hopefully you guys don't think I'm just being hyper-sensitive here...I don't want a pity party, just pointing out the other side of the coin.
IMHO, since CF is a single name for a disease caused by a large number of different mutations, generalizations are beyond stupid. Life expectancy is beyond stupid. There are still children suffering and dying from this disease - children who, along with their parents, do everything right and fight incredibly hard. There are also people who, with equal effort and admirable fight, live healthy lives and have normal lifespans. Unfortunately that kind of individual variation and unpredictability is tough to explain to people outside of the CF community. I am always amused by the fact that some people, when they hear I have CF, are amazed that I lived to 26. Others, when they hear my cough or if I tell them I"m considering transplant, seem convinced that I must never do any treatments at all since I haven't made it 36.7 years old yet. Either reaction is utterly ridiculous in my view.