OMG, I'm so sorry for not seeing this last night. Anyone always has permission to give my email address for people to contact me, it's division902@verizon.net
I'm glad it worked out for her since she was freaking out with triplets. It's very bittersweet. I can't imagine my life without my kids (doc's were pressuring us for selective reduction too, they are required to at least discuss it) but it just wasn't an option for us... at least not after we saw the heartbeats and stubby little arms and legs.
She may have some bereavement issues going on as a result of her loss (depending on how far along she was). A good place for that, if she wants to talk to other triplet mom's who have lost one, two or all 3 babies, she can go to www.tripletconnection.org and post on the bereavement site.